| Older guys-Younger girls Posted: 12/4/2007 4:01:34 PM | I agree that the young girls out there are swimming around a bunch of guys who don't know who they are yet. Experience is the best teacher and everyone talks about looking for new experiences, "Hello!" Who are the oppressed now? | |
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| Older guys-Younger girls Posted: 3/3/2008 9:05:11 AM | i just got out of a relationship with a girl that was 14 years younger than me she's 23 I'm 38 she acted very mature for her age and i thought i could actually start a life with her we had the same likes and we were friends for at least 2 years before we started dating so i figured it was a no brainer. but she was very impatient at times and she wanted me to move out to live with her in CA. she kept on saying how she wanted to "start living her life" but she could never get it that a move to CA took money and time and she wasn't willing to give me that. and even though i worked my ass of to save money for the move she broke it off with me in December of '07. and the funny thing is she dumped me and rebounded with a guy a few years younger than me, he's Divorced with a 2 year old daughter that doesn't like her (and she doesn't want kids) and now she's quiting her awesome paying job to be nothing but a house frau living in a trailer in northern California. go figure? but she's so in love with this guy. i may sound a bit bitter but i just don't get it what changed in her i don't know,..maybe it wouldn't have worked out if we had stayed together. but the whole thing just through me for a loop. is it because of her age? i don't know,.but i'm not against dating younger woman.just next time i'm going for the over 25 crowd. | |
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| Older guys-Younger girls Posted: 3/7/2008 6:13:57 AM | I'm an older gentleman, and I perfer to date women my age or older, I've meet some beautiful older women that look better than their young daughters. I agree with many of these post that age is just a number, I think it depends on the person and how muture that person is. I'm a very secure person, so I don't need to walk around with a YOUNG CHICK on my arm....................I have a daughter 34 years old! | |
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| Older guys-Younger girls Posted: 3/7/2008 7:53:49 AM | ^^^ I hear that... I was playing pool one night and was getting hit on by this rather young woman. I asked her how old she was and she told me 19. My Daughter is 17... Ewwwww..... | |
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| Older guys-Younger girls Posted: 3/27/2008 8:25:28 AM | | im only 21 and i seem to attract women in their 30's i dont complain because some of them have shown me a thing or two ..... but i return the favor they love a younger guy who is full of stamina and well just horny haha just my .02 cents | |
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| Older guys-Younger girls Posted: 5/28/2008 10:16:34 PM | I guess I'm very old for 26. Majority of people I'm friends with are in their 30's and 40's, so I don't see age when I look at a guy that is 38. I've never been much for clubs and have preferred lounges and coffee houses. Sometimes I wonder if I'm missing out. I mean, maybe when I turn 40, I'll turn into a wild cougar.
Thing is, even at 26, I'm still trying to figure out who I am and guys in their 30's and 40's tend to already know. And they do have their experience, which can be intimidating. | |
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| Older guys-Younger girls Posted: 6/22/2008 1:22:37 PM | I look at it this way:
Everybody knows that woman mature faster than men. Not all of them, of course, especially when I read some of the profiles I have read on this site but...
That being said, I give woman the benefit of the doubt in the maturity/wisdom category.
I think that a good rule of thumb is 10-15 years difference is O.K. when it comes to age difference. It's better for a man to be older, it's just a better match, but not too much older.
I think a woman that is 35 years old should not be limited to dating from 35-38 year olds, (I actually read some stupid profile of a 33 year old not wanting to hear from anyone over 40) they should consider men up to 50 years of age, after all by the time that same 35 year old woman is 50 herself her man is only going to be 65, and as far as I know there are plenty of healthy and active 65 year olds out there and if you see a 50 year old woman dating a 65 year old man you wouldn't think much of it right? I would be O.K. in my book.
So it is with a 35 dating a 50.
No you are not going through a mid life crisis. Your match is probably out there and she is probably considerably younger than you are. | |
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