| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/4/2006 3:27:47 PM | HOttest of the hot
I think you covered most items I might bring up.
For me, it's usually the girl that makes me nervous that I'm really into.
I can talk for hours with "just any girl", without the slightest notion of nervousness. But let "the girl" walk up and I get tense. I'm not the normal guy I once was because I'm now more concerned about what I say or how it's said.
Eye contact and lots of smiles are also great indicators. | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/4/2006 3:42:40 PM | This is how I can tell:
When a guy sees me at my absolute worst and still is willing to hang in there with me; that says an awful lot. This situation did indeed happen and the guy had every right to walk out of the door, but he didn't; instead, he aplogized for something that was not even his fault; I was just being a................well, you know. | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/4/2006 3:48:05 PM | You will know if he takes you places other than his house, or your house. Does he ever take you around family or friends. Take you places that are thought out, such as a Nascar race, or a cruise? Is he a friend, or just a lover. Around when convenient, or takes time to be with you even when not easy to do so. How about hollidays? Christmas, your birthday etc? I think you all ready know this, and probably have a guy that isnt into you, but are in denial. Just a guess. Good luck. Lou | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/4/2006 3:50:23 PM | I think if you back off and give him a few days you will see for yourself if he's interested. Don't call him...don't email him...don't post him online...just see how long before he talks to you...don't invite him out and see how long it takes him to do so...if a month goes by and nothing...I just move on. | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/4/2006 4:42:42 PM | Those who say you'll know are full of crap! 
Sometimes you will know....and sometimes you won't.
There are guys out there who are VERY good at making women
believe that they're "into" them........and will make several women
at the same time belive it. Each guy is different and in the end it
comes down to trust because many guys show it in different ways
and some guys just suck at showing it all together, that doesn't
mean that they're not into you.
Watch for the signs of honesty as well as dishonesty, don't move too
fast, and let your guard down slowly as he EARNS your trust.
Most players won't stick around if winning you over is going to take
longer than average......they're usually after quantity not quality. | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/5/2006 8:56:56 AM | If he's making infinate eye contact with you, and get's up to walk to the restroom, only to trip and fall over the chair that clearly stood in his path, you just might be onto something.  | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/5/2006 10:28:39 AM | No wonder you women get "played".
A "player", especially one who's good at it, knows the things
you're looking for. They know not to look at other women, to
make lots of eye contact, to call you when you least expect it
just to say hello...........just like they know to say all the things
you want to hear.
Keep in mind that they know what to do to get in your pants, and
that is........convince you that they're "the one" or that they're
in love with you.
I'm not condoning it......I think it's a cruel thing to do! But I know
guys that are VERY good at it and they can convince a woman that
they're in love with them better than most guys can when they
actually ARE in love! I've seen one of these guys "play" a woman, after
doing the same thing to her room-mate, by convincing her that he
WAS a player but with her it's the real thing.......knowing very well that
the guy just did that to her friend. But it works! These women will SWEAR
that "this time it's different"....."he's changed"......"I KNOW him and he loves
me!". AND some of these are smart women too.
It's crazy but it happens.........OFTEN!
Time may be the only thing that tells! | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/5/2006 1:23:01 PM | | Does he put in effort to spend time with you? How does he treat you on a date? Does he call when he says he is going to? Does he keep his commitments? Just look at how much planning he puts in for you and how reliable he is. That should tell you something. | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/5/2006 1:28:02 PM | I'm a little incredulous as to the OP's position. Women know when men are interested in them usually (romantically, not just sexually). However, they ignore most of the men that are interested in them. Then they focus on the 1% of guys who look like JFK junior and have expressed no interest in them and convince themselves that guy is interested but he is just too shy to come out and say it.
Women are funny people.
By their ACTIONS. Agreed. Just like the action of putting his key in the ignition of his Ford Cobra or the action of handing you your own VISA card. Actions speak louder than words, baby. I'm mostly kidding. | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/5/2006 1:33:14 PM |
I'm a little incredulous as to the OP's position. Women know when men are interested in them usually. However, they ignore most of the men that are interested in them. Then they focus on the 1% of guys who look like JFK junior and have expressed no interest in them and convince themselves that guy is interested ...
Very true. No doubt that is how it is with the OP. If the guy was really interested in her, she would know. She is "IN LOVE" with a guy that is not into her and she is seeking confirmation that he is. | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/7/2006 10:28:56 AM | I prefer to keep Life and Love simple.
I'll let a woman know if I'm interested, unless I have an extra-shy moment.
Then all she has to do is ask, and I'll answer, honestly. | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/7/2006 10:36:39 AM | Just follow your gut instinct. I had a roommate once that was constantly getting used by men. Beauty was not her problem, everyone thought she was stunning, but... sadly lacking int the intellect department. Men constantly lied to her and used her for sex. These lowlife (Dr.'s, lawyers, business men) would even tell her they loved her but didn't want a commitment. What a load of crap. Unfortunately she believes anything you tell her. She would always tell me "something doesn't feel right". This the feeling you have to go with. If it doesn't feel quite right then just move on.
If you are getting mixed signals listen to the negative signals, they are the honest ones. | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/7/2006 10:48:23 AM | | I can only speak from my vantage point, but if it's me, if I always have time available to talk or do something with a woman, it's a damn good bet that I'm "into" her. I have a million other very important things to do. If I can shelve them for an hour or two when I know I shouldn't, that's a tremendous effort for me. | |
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| Guys...How do we girls know if a guy is into us?!!
Posted: 11/7/2006 10:56:47 AM | time will tell you
does he have 10 seconds in the day to call and say..."Hey! What's up?"
does he have a half hour in the whole week to just ahng out and do whatever with you?
is he still sitting there when you got emotionally out of control because you feel something and you fell safe enough with him to tell him?
did he come around again after your "drama vomit"?
after he said he needed to go and work some sh*t out and he was busy, did he get back to you?
we all like to pretend that we are so important and so popular that we have no time
good luck weeding out the answers you need to your question, because generally North American people are really pretty socially retarded and fearful of saying what we mean and meaning what we say because we are raised by TV, video games, and computers. We like the game and the chase.
we forget that life is not a grand social experiement full of lessons
our lessons are real people with feelings and flesh that can really be hurt
that being said: It's a short answer. Ask him. if he is still coming around after you ask him, then he is into you. | |
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