| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 5/30/2008 2:13:48 PM | I am a gemini and was in a long term relationship with another gemini. So we were pretty much having a foursome in the bedroom  Sex was always adventurous and satisfying!
As far as two differnet personalities, not so much. We are however perfectionists and have absolutely no trouble letting someone else know when they have um... failed. This can certainly come across jekyl and hyde like.
I personally don't put a lot of weight into someones atrological sign. I have met at least one a**hole\b*tch of every sign. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 5/30/2008 2:34:00 PM | Let me get this straight... Gemini's = jekyl/hyde personalities? HOGWASH!!!
If there was an ounce of truth to this... then go to a Domestic Violence Shelter and take a poll of the abusers. At least a majority should be Gemini's, which is far from the truth. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 5/31/2008 1:50:09 AM | {Sorry.... Seriously, the Dr. Jeckyl and Mr. Hyde stuff was always catching me off-guard.
One minute he was sweet and playful, the next he was barking orders.}
LMAO ^^^^ I thought that was ALL men ^^^ | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 5/31/2008 3:48:25 AM | | Negative!!! Overly jealous and possessive, very inflexible in his way of thinking, thinks that his way is the only way, and thinks that life should fit neatly inbetween the two narrow lines that he has decided it should. Oh and paraniod as well..... NEVER EVER AGAIN!!! When i was looking for a mate, this was the only star sign where if they said they were a gemini on their profile i wouldn't even read any further.. Shudder.... | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 5/31/2008 4:20:19 AM | Sad to think that because of someone's zodiac, some of you would not date them.
Did it ever occur to you that maybe other factors played into why they were the way they were? Oh I dunno know....like how they were raised, their male/female role models, the type of people they hang out with as friends.
Hmmm, I am a Gemini, and while I have my playful side, and my loner side....I am never Jeckyl and Hyde.
Sounds more like immaturity than anything. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 5/31/2008 4:32:42 AM | I REALLY try to not get caught up in all that stuff..... but I gotta tell ya....it wasn't until my last relationship ended that I finally read some stuff in one of those astrology books....I believe the words were something like, 'gemini is the complete undoing of pisces'..................
So THAAAAAT'S what the fcuk happened to me!!!!
and when I look back in my life, I realize that I had never been with what are considered the most compatible signs for me....... but I now know what being with the MOST incompatible sign was like. It ain't happening again. And every time I even see a profile with that sign in it, I just go....'DAMN...and she was REALLY PRETTY too....'........
who knows
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 5/31/2008 2:24:54 PM | never again, you Geminis are soooo cute. But from now on you will be admired from afar.
Married one, it ended badly. Dated one, thinking that discriminating based on sign was not sensible, it ended badly, but at least quickly.
Again know that you are adorable and desirable, cute and sexy, but you don't mix well with Cancer girls. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 5/31/2008 3:13:32 PM | and if you are going to go with astrological compatibility....one has to consider their OWN sign as far as being congruent with another.
and yes...you (and they) are a whole chart o' aspects...not just your sun sign and completely agree with the poster who said that is what makes one gemini different from another as well as if YOU would find them attractive, your OWN chart.
its a hobby not a religion. I am a cancer...I enjoy the gemini but not in a love relationship...I am too sensative for their lack of emotion for me...for me..being the key word. Obviously there is positive and negatives to ALL signs. Therefor...I am too emotional and sentimental for the gemini male.
and yeah...I'd have to agree...there is more than astrological make up, there is environment, generational, biological etc that makes us who we are...but its a fun puzzle because everyone has a birthday. I don't take it too seriously but I do see many aspects to not totally negate (is that a word) its interest for me to check into. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 9:09:27 AM | If you really interested about Astrology as science, rather than take one or two incident and role out all, try to find your compatible sign, then you would have the best experience of all before getting hurt or disappointed. I am afraid good Astrology service is not FREE (it is around US$50-60 for short one) but that is the way to go. Let me know if you are interested and I will send you the URL for the guy that I know in States for years who does the personality match for mainly marriage but will work with anyone who really wish to know about someone before get deep.
All they want is the time and date and place of birth for both parties and then they let you know if you ever going to have a good long term relationship with that person. If they say that it is perfect match, still it is up to both parties to make it work in relationship as it is two way street. Things such as showing your partner that you love her/him and appreciate her/him; are must in any relationship. if they say no, regardless of your efforts WILL NOT work and sooner or latter will ended-up to divorce or separation. This is not magic or BS hokes pokes, it is science and there are many good one exist that are registered and certified in States and all around the world.
I am afraid my ex did not know when she was born which was very unusual in our culture as parents keep the record, unless I would never marry her. I have leaned it in hard way like most of us :-) | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 9:20:40 AM | | Never trust a gemini guy...havn't met an honest one yet and met a few...Read somewhere that they are "inconsistant" in other words not very good with the truth..xxx | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 9:33:07 AM | LOL maybe it is just that sunlight and nutrition are different at different times of year, affecting a baby in utero- but there is no doubt for me that people will resemble their signs, often strongly.
I'm a gemini,...and I yell, but am a total sweety really.. cannot make up my mind about anything etc. classic gemini perso nality.
I have been cursed with scorpios to the point that I won't date 'em. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 9:34:42 AM | Well it started out good, then you see the "other twin side" of gemini. I'd say run like hell......... But then again, not everone under that sign is the same, so we can't group them all in one boat. That would be unfair. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 9:44:03 AM | My best friend is a Gemini... She is wonderfully crazy and unpredictable! I love her mood swings... I guess because I have known her for so long I can predict what will happen. We all just lover her for who she is. And anyway I am a true blue Aries... nothing really blows us away, too stubborn.
~Charmed~ | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 9:45:29 AM | after recently being involved with one and seeing his nasty/great side all I can say is beware only you know what you can put up with ...as for this Aries that is hot, hotter and hottest... the hot - cold thing is a bit annoying and tiresome.
NEVER AGAIN for me! | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 9:53:10 AM | | I have dated one, Gemini, in my life; he was highly talented individual, as well as very intelligent; but, unforunately, also, too flighty; on the other hand, one of my dearest friends is a female, Gemini, and we can, literally, spend hours and hours on the phone..HA... | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 10:09:11 AM | I am a Gemini and have dated fellow Gemini's more then once, I have also dated Scorp's, fishies, Aquarians, cancer's(can we say clingy) and other astrological signs.
I do not think Gemini in particular has a Jekyl /hide personality as i have seen this in other sun signs as well.
As as for being insecure and jealous that comment I cannot stop laughing about. Never ever have I met a Gemini that is jealous. For me, if your behaving in a manner that would evoke jealousy I just wash my hands of you. Simple.
I do note that every gemini I have ever met is highly articulate/intelligent and yes some would say flighty as our minds move so fast compared to others.
Personally my best matches were Aquarius and Libra... Best relationships I ever had and still remain really goood friends decades later.
I must say we are perfectionists though. I mean everything has it's place. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 10:21:32 AM | I think the most difficult thing about trying to attract or date a Gemini is...first off getting their attention.
Not flightly....just easily bored! Speaking for myself, anyway. If you pass that hurdle, keeping it....not impossible but not easy at all.
Stimulate mentally and be prepared to keep doing so then find a Gemini to date. Just know if they get bored, it's probably over.  | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 10:45:32 AM | Being a Gemini born on the Cancer cusp I'll be the first to admit I sometimes feel like I'm triplets instead of mere twins! It can be hard for me to understand where I am coming from let alone someone else being able to "get" me. However I know myself very very well and am aware of my inner conflicts and have done a pretty good job being able to exress them to others.
As far as the ups and downs, I think everyone has them no matter what sign your born under and if it's as manic as some of the posts I have read here that is a possible medical issue not a birthsign issue!
In regards to being flighty I myself have been preceived as such by a number of people, mind you they were people that did not really know me becasue those that do know me, know that I have a genuine interest in EVERYTHING! I've delved into many interests and hobbies out of real curiousity and genuiune interest, not because I cant make up my mind or am being a "poser".
Being able to see both sides of a situation is something I am so happy to be able to do all the time in all situations, even if it causes conflict within myself, which is does and has sometimes. It's a curse and a blessing at the same time!
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 12:32:41 PM | | I've never dated a Gemini. However I am a Gemini. I would never say that I am self absorbed with a flighty emotional pattern. Then again I've been told I'm not a true Gemini because I'm born on the Cancer cusp as well. Not to talk about myself, but since the majority of you are giving Gemini's a bad rep. I think everyone can have their bad days and their good ones. I don't go from super sweet to mega **** in seconds.....you ask me that sounds more along the lines of a bi polar disorder. I've dated a scorpio who was more self absorbed and greedy, unfaithful, munipulative, secretive, absuive and jealous....and he picked up a drug habit to boot....I've also dated a Pisces like this. Then there was another Scorpio who was timid and couldn't make a decision for himself if his life counted on it. These are all guys I was in long term relationships with. Would I stop dating those above mentioned signs because of my experiences. No. I'm not superficial and believe that the zodiac sign makes who the person is. | |
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