| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 1:11:35 PM | It is truely amazing how zodiac signs can play a role in the dating world. Not to live by it but some signs honestly do get along better than with some others. Gemini men for me do not reach beyond friendship or simple chat. Very entertaining to say the least. I've noticed gemini men and libra women are like a moth to a flame lots of the time.  | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 2:25:18 PM | I had the same experience ... he was awesome-- spiritually evolved and incredibly romantic-- so much so, seriously, I heard music and felt like I was touching the skirt of heaven... and then BOOM, he turned and was nothing like I thought --in fact he had
a side to him that was unbearably selfish and mildly sinister which made it very hard for me to comprehend why someone with so much incredible spiritual and sensual energy could be soooo awful at the same time! So yes I must agree that Gemini's are very difficult to get along with... they, are however, fascinating conversationalists! | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 10:26:59 PM |
I believe the words were something like, 'gemini is the complete undoing of pisces'... Yes i can testify to that too.....
As as for being insecure and jealous that comment I cannot stop laughing about. Never ever have I met a Gemini that is jealous. For me, if your behaving in a manner that would evoke jealousy I just wash my hands of you. Simple. Well you must have met very different Geminis to me. Both my father and my ex are Geminis and both are beyond reason when it comes to jealousy. And if looking around the room and letting your gaze stop for a second on a man is behaving in a way which would provoke jealousy, then i guess i'm guilty, and so is my mother....
I'm sure all Geminis are not all like that , but my experiences with both these men have been enough to make me refuse to take the risk... | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/1/2008 11:36:46 PM | i have two gemini children. both are very different people. one is very loyal and giving, the other is more self-absorbed. a lot has to do with their ages and psychosocial development prior to adoption as teens. both are extroverted and seemingly people oriented. one holds back more, but is more able to merge in and out of different cultures and scenarios, even though not comfortable. the other loves "everyone", but loyalty is based upon what is received and has a lower maturity level and less social "graces".
an astrologist friend once told me, you can look and see what sign is recommended for you--but the fact is that different people are there for you to learn different lessons. today's world is so complex, not everyone comes from a level playing field. some do way better in the long term. you have to observe and be in tune with what you need for you and what you are willing to give.
note: i'm a libra on the cusp of scorpio. as advised, my best friends have often been acquarius's. however, the first husband was capricorn (as is my little one), the second aries and the current manfriend taurus. a bull and a person constantly trying to balance her life--leaning towards a crab. go figure! the common thread: me. even more interesting than your mate, is your house of "parents". | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 9:11:16 AM | [Well you must have met very different Geminis to me. Both my father and my ex are Geminis and both are beyond reason when it comes to jealousy. And if looking around the room and letting your gaze stop for a second on a man is behaving in a way which would provoke jealousy, then i guess i'm guilty, and so is my mother....
I'm sure all Geminis are not all like that , but my experiences with both these men have been enough to make me refuse to take the risk...]
My ex husband was a Sag and he was very jealous and controlling. I have dated fishies and they are wishy washy from one minute to the next they cannot make up their minds what they want.
I dated a cancer holy clingy....
I dated fellow gemini's a heck of a lot of fun actually.
I have dated scrop's/bull's/goats/ect and each person has been different I hold as much creedance in signs as I do hair colour... You cannot say oh there is a blonde she is automatically stupid...or there is a red head she is automatically hot tempered...hogwash, just as signs is hogwash, anyone who knows anything about astrology knows you have many many factors in astrololgy that determines your personality. Where you were born, when you born what your sun sign is, what your moon sign is ect ect ect. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 3:05:31 PM | i had to answer to this one haha.
My last guy was a gemini and I am an aries. We were awesome together in so many ways. Good points, he was successful, funny, easy to talk to, life of the party and so absolutely awesome in bed. The only thing I must say on the negative end is he was very selfish in some ways but totally unselfish in others, and OMG he was needy( like I had to tell him 10 times a day how utterly wonderful he was or he'd get grumpy).
I never saw two personalities like some others said on here.
I would date a gemini again, but they are like a bad drug addiction. Took me a few years to get over him. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 4:37:28 PM | Im a Gemini and we are fun to chat too, make great friends, loyal, passionate, sensual, kind, giving and many people rolled into one. They say life is never dull when with a Gemini however...
Geminis if like me will come out with the most unsual thing when you least expect such as in the middle of making love and the Gemini innocently blurts out "babe your mother upset me earlier" or "I dont like the colour of those curtains, I am going to change them tomorrow" leaving the partner in the throws of passion totally bewildered although briefly. We rarely switch off as our minds need to keep buzzing. We love excitement and learning new things.
They make great mothers/fathers because they adapt easily and happy to turn their child like qualities to the level of the child which makes it an exciting child/parent combination. Geminis flirt, they talk alot, in fact they often talk too much but they rarely fail to entertain. They are good in art, drama, writing and social jobs.
We are normally good peace makers but if we are in a bad mood the only way to resolve it for me is to make me laugh. It wins every time. I rarely hold a grude and I rarely sulk for long. I dont like falling out with anyone and will go to the end of the earth to try and resolve it which often backfires because its then misread as being a pain.
Gemini's rock and are cool people, we make great friends because we are loyal, kind and many of us adore animals
We can be a bit scatty but loverable | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 4:42:41 PM | mthomjmark, entering this thread from the "Land Of Reality" on 5/30/2008 3 57 PM, opined:
come on; there are still people that live their lives by what sign someone is? My personality is not controlled by when my parents wanted to have sex to have a kid. Grow up;
Thank you! I was originally drawn to this thread, because I thought it might provide a few laughs. Little did I know, that there are so many people who believe in that field of BS known as "astrology." The above reply was the first sane and logical response to appear. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 4:44:26 PM | Well 1st posting eva ppl & I must agree female geminiz, 3 r/ships & 3 ex`s 
all gems, in there own way lol, They jus seem 2b sooooooh hard 2 figure out,, they don`t even know wot they want,, but seems Im jus attracted 2 them so u neva no, I`ll keep on hopefully there wil b 1 decent 1 out there sumwhere in this world ha ha xxx oh by the way Im Sagittarius, lol,, don`t know if that helps lol lol xxxx   | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 6:33:38 PM | If you want to go by astrology Aquarian's can.......
They bonk on the same frequency as Gemini's and are as articulate and intelligent.
But I still think it is a load of rubbish, but for those who believe in it read Linda Goodman's Sun Signs and if you want a real good laugh read Sexual Astrology by martine.
A little expert from the book re: Gemini females.
She's a one girl harem. Ten woman would be hard pressed to match her virtuosity. Like a genie in a bottle, each time you summon her up an entirely different woman will appear to mystify, delight and beguile you.
There is much more but then again who puts stock in Astrology??? | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 6:41:48 PM | | People behave as they do because they choose to, not because of some astrological sign. I had a long term relationship with a gemini man once but it didn't work out because he was a jerk, not because he was a gemini. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 8:49:45 PM | | I get along with gemini's except as a boss - you never know if you can approach them or not. As men - dating - being a libra - like she said like a moth to a flame - we have a mental connection. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 9:06:59 PM | I am a male Gemini and yes I am moody at times lol! Who isn't? I have been in 4 serious relationships in my entire life none of which I regret. Each woman that I have dated who I am still friends with I battled with on certain issues but we are still friends afterwards. I'm not sure what that says about me lol but there!
Chew on that! | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 9:18:43 PM | | OP - I was with one for many years. He was living a double life for at least the last year of the relationship. I don't think that can be attributed to his sun/star sign, though. Two of the best men I've ever known are Geminis as well - my dad and one of my best friends. The first has just celebrated his 34th wedding anniversary and the second has been with his girlfriend for over four years now. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 10:57:30 PM | | Astrology is bunk. If you're puting that much faith into someone behaving a certain way because of their "sign" then perhaps I can interest you in a subprime loan? How about some beachfront property in New Mexico? | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 11:10:34 PM | negative, capricorns and geminis are BAD, but then did stay marrid to him for 9 years, got my life back now, they are never happy with what they have got, always want to change you, some have more in their head than just twins.
rude, selfish, unaffectionate, always act like they have a chip on their shoulder.
i run away from them now
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/2/2008 11:24:23 PM | I'm a Gemini myself ~ June 9th ~ and have dated a few Gemini men over the last 30 years, give or take a few years ~ and it was incredible! Each one was like 'another half' of me. We seemed in tune with thoughts, feelings, ideas, etc. When I'd have an upsetting day, but try to hide it with a 'happy mask' around them, they always ALWAYS seemed to sense it, and would confront me. I did the same with them. Totally uncanny!
I'd date another Gemini in a HEARTBEAT! I feel two Gemini together are very unique, yet have enough individual differences to make the relationship exciting, and comfortable. Why did the 'relationships' not work? Who's to say they didn't? I'm still VERY good friends with all of them, although we all live in different cities, and one in a different state now. Time happens, and life goes on, carrying us all to different paths that sometimes aren't wide enough for two people to walk together..... | |
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Posted: 6/2/2008 11:56:27 PM | Funny that this subject comes up... I like to think of myself as a kind feeling person who is in touch with the star signs and what they mean. I always told myself I was just not compatible with Genimis. Then I met this guy who was great in every way I wanted my man to be. Okay he was a little overweight ... Okay alot :) But like I said I'm kind and feeling, So I got into what I thought was the perfect relationship. We had so much fun together and the sex was good too ( bonus)
6 months later he asked me to marry him and put a ring on my finger. I was elated, I loved him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him...Then things changed, he was mean disrespectful and just generally not the person I fell in love with. To this day I'm really not sure if it was him thinking, "now I have her and can be myself", or just the Gemini in him that wanted to introduce me to the devil and see if I could handle it. The break up was so messy it overpowered the good times by far, it was the first fight we had and the last. There is no way I would ever think of him fondly now, just because of his total lack of respect for the relationship in general.
The bottom line is I will not date another Genimi because I like to know what I'm getting into from the start, and I don't want to wonder when the hammer will come down.
When I see a profile that is a Gemini, I just move along... Lesson learned.. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:00:57 AM | as to whether one takes this seriously: i don't pick people based on signs, but i have noticed strange patterns. by coincidence, i know many people born on my b'day--plus i have relatives/friends also born on the same b'day as one another-- or with marriages on the same days of others close to me. i also find i have many friends born on key holidays.
w/o trying, i often find myself with aquarian friends. i find i fit the libra profile almost to a T. the variation is often attributable to scorpio characteristics, of which i am on the cusp. when a friend mapped out my "chart" , several things were really fascinating. but, as to men, she still made the point that although some may be more compatible, i clearly pick others and with each: there is something to be learned. i never try, it just happens and afterwards it fits the description.
even more interesting to me than astrology is dream symbolism. i have a book by my bed by bethards on dream symbols. i often dream about my kids who i did not give birth to and am clearly on target. i am told that astrology takes into account "where" one is born. it's been clear to me, that although i came here to CA for my past marriage, i needed to be here to adopt my kids. as said before, two are gemini and one was born on the day of my marriage to my ex. the other on a major holiday, of which i have several other people in my life who were born that same day. one of my kids tutors was born on my b'day. it keeps happening all around me. it's more than chance. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:14:26 AM | I wanted to post this because I'm an artsyPisces...
http://www.astrostar.com/love-gemini-compatibility.htm
It seems there is a whole website on this subject...Go figure
The passion quotient is high, and so are the problems. Emotional The passion quotient is high, and so are the problems. Emotional Pisces is too easily hurt by thoughtless Gemini. Gemini is mischievous and playful, but Pisces is sensitive and takes things to heart. Each practices deception in his or her own way: Gemini dissembles, Pisces won't deal with reality. Gemini needs freedom and new vistas; Pisces needs unending adoration. Pisces just can't feel secure with gadabout Gemini, and tries to pull the net tighter. The claustrophobic atmosphere eventually makes it hard for Gemini to breathe.is too easily hurt by thoughtless Gemini. Gemini is mischievous and playful, but Pisces is sensitive and takes things to heart. Each practices deception in his or her own way: Gemini dissembles, Pisces won't deal with reality. Gemini needs freedom and new vistas; Pisces needs unending adoration. Pisces just can't feel secure with gadabout Gemini, and tries to pull the net tighter. The claustrophobic atmosphere eventually makes it hard for Gemini to breathe.
I always thought the fish sign gets along with everyone...I guess I suffocated him... again live and learn. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:28:57 AM | Been out with a few. Both very sweet, kind and caring...but boy can they change at the drop of a hat.........
Never hurt me but the mr hyde was not a nice person.
SO HOW COMES GEMINI'S R ATTRACTED TO ME? AM SEEING ANOTHER NOW LOL, BUT ONLY INTO WEEK 4 | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:35:44 AM | GEMINI AND PISCES
The passion quotient is high, and so are the problems. Emotional Pisces is too easily hurt by thoughtless Gemini. Gemini is mischievous and playful, but Pisces is sensitive and takes things to heart. Each practices deception in his or her own way: Gemini dissembles, Pisces won't deal with reality. Gemini needs freedom and new vistas; Pisces needs unending adoration. Pisces just can't feel secure with gadabout Gemini, and tries to pull the net tighter. The claustrophobic atmosphere eventually makes it hard for Gemini to breathe.
I always thought the fish sign gets along with everyone...I guess I suffocated him... again live and learn. | |
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