| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 9/25/2009 11:50:23 AM | I was born in June, and often date women born around the same time of the year. That way, the four of us can go out and have a good time together. 
Seriously, its the 21st century people! I couldn't date anyone who lent any credence to what month of the year either of us was born in, as if pertained to us being compatible or not.  | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 9/26/2009 12:42:55 PM | OMFG NEVER AGAIN!--OMFG NEVER AGAIN!--OMFG NEVER AGAIN!--OMFG NEVER AGAIN!--OMFG NEVER AGAIN!--OMFG NEVER AGAIN!--OMFG NEVER AGAIN!--
The twins..dual personality. Didn't like the OTHER personality one bit.
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 9/26/2009 6:20:13 PM | Just wow... 7 pages of gemini hating. Couldn't bring myself to read all of it. Can't believe that I am going to succumb to this thread but here goes. I think bucsgirl describes it best actually. Let's see if I can assist too.
She's a one girl harem. Ten woman would be hard pressed to match her virtuosity. Like a genie in a bottle, each time you summon her up an entirely different woman will appear to mystify, delight and beguile you.
Virtuous, versatile, adaptable. If you truly want to capture a gemini's attention there needs to be lots of mental, physical, and emotional stimulation. They actually consider the lazy and unintelligent to be shallow. lol... and that was the perfect example of the sharp tongue that some here consider to be 'moodiness' of the gemini. Not a good idea to smother their independent nature. Gemini's flourish with adventure and fun therefore giving the flighty description. Not to be misinterpreted as an inability to commit or love. As for being emotionally unavailable, virgo and scorpio men happen to my favorite. So, IF you are lucky enough to intrigue a gemini and accept them , you will have a very grounded gemini. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 9/26/2009 6:37:35 PM | I have a wonderful male friend who is a Gemini and I LOVE HIM! He is extremely expressive and a great communicator. He's passionate, intelligent, affectionate, generous and FUN! He likes having 2 of everything, however. Women included until just recently. If he could get over that, I'd snag him up in a heartbeat.  | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 9/26/2009 7:06:56 PM |
I think bucsgirl describes it best actually.
I did...thanks...no really I'll look for that post.
Here's my take, astrological signs, I don't totally buy into or discount them either. There've been times when I don't even pay attention, and it's not always because of that specifically, but there are some possible incompatible factors that if I were aware of, I wouldn't NOT interact with someone because of just that.
There are men who'd write me off completely just seeing that I was a Gemini. And you know what, I'm fine with that! I'm also an ENFP, for those of you who know Myers-Briggs, either one or both are pretty much right on. Meaning, I'm more like than not like either.
I don't think I'd be compatabile with another Gemini, honestly. There were a few instances, not relationships, dating or involved, but interaction and again after the fact......ehh...a male Gemini. I'm not putting it down to that, but as much as I love AND like myself....my total male counterpart....ehh...not saying it couldn't happen...but I don't see me with a male me.
To put astrology aside, I do think you can be too much alike. Maybe it works out for other people, and God bless those who are, but for me.....not.
I find the mesh of alikeness and differences, ying/yang, it's that balance of characteristics, not inherently strengths and weaknesses.
I'm high energy-idea person, very social, then my energy isn't unlimited, so too much social/people exposure...I need to withdraw to recharge the batteries. Those that know me understand this. And of course it depends on what's happening in my life, I do know for ME I do try to be all things to all people, as much as I can, I do realize I can't all the time.
He is extremely expressive and a great communicator. He's passionate, intelligent, affectionate, generous and FUN
I would say that's spot on, but then it'd sound like I was tooting my horn.  | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 9/26/2009 7:16:12 PM | | Me either Bucsgirl. I have had lots of fun and understanding with other gemini's but don't feel especially compatible. Me with testosterone? No way. I actually need the opposite to ground me a little. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 9/26/2009 9:03:58 PM | I'm on the cusp (Taurus/Gemini) and I thank the stars I've got the gem in me otherwise ...I'd be more grounded..lol..mm maybe not a bad thing.
Anyway, as far as dating Gemini men - sigh...never works out. They wander off and come back and wander off and come back...too hard. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 9/27/2009 6:35:27 PM | | I've dated a Gemini man, there are wonderful things about them and not so wonderful things. They are witty, articulate, funny, intelligent and love to talk. But, they are also moody, selfish, happy and caring one minute and nasty the next. It's like they are two different people. They are constantly changing there minds too. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 9/29/2009 1:21:21 PM | So, whats the whole drive behind this "If you were born in this part of our lunar year...."
...thing?
Technically, i would be considered a Gemini/Cancer, As i've looked it up, And the whole "Dual personality" thing i've seen repeated endlessly over seven pages of this thread... Confuses me.
I think the women who are saying that Gemini males are good/evil entities are just dating the wrong type of men.
Dont bash me, I have never put stock into astrology though. EVERYONE has a bad side, some people show it much quicker than others, sure, but who is to say that a man is not to be considered as a potential partner, due to the fact that he was born during a certain month?
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 9/29/2009 5:22:42 PM |
Me either Bucsgirl. I have had lots of fun and understanding with other gemini's but don't feel especially compatible. Me with testosterone? No way. I actually need the opposite to ground me a little.
I hear ya...as much as I really do like myself and understand myself, I don't see me being compatible with a same/same a male me...redundant...ie boring. Oh we'd have lots of fun, laughs, and I have a serious/responsible side. I can make decisions, there's just some that I'd rather someone else take over, take responsibility for and gee....what would you like for dinner, what would you like to do tonight...sweetie. AKK.....it makes my head hurt.
I'm okay with that stuff.....not all the time. I could have fun going to 7-11 and having a Grape Slurpee.......with someone whose company I enjoyed, with my kids/friends or by myself.
I understand the "grounding" part, I am grounded I think maybe you are too. It's those decisions that I don't feel prepared to make...quick example...my car. Well it's making this noise...crunch, not like granola, grind...yeah I sound and act it out. Entertaining for the mechanics, I just don't want to handle that shyt, I don't know anything about it and don't want to. If I have to I do, I'd just rather not.
I think it's a mesh of different personalities, characteristics, that's what getting to know each other is about. He's better at this, I'm better at that, more informed/experienced. It's not an ego trip or a competition. Been there, done that, burned the T-shirt.
If it's complementary, then it's not only the recognition of knowledge/experience/skills and lack of on either part, it's the encouragement. Been there, known that...and it's beyond words. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 9/29/2009 11:45:37 PM | | Actually I have spent quite a few years doing the soul searching thing. Maybe that is why I am a little more grounded now. Still that free spirit side of mine needs taming. Like you, no more ego trips or competition. I don't like to get hung up on a lot of details either. Give us the free spirit that compliments and encourages each of our personalities. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 9/30/2009 12:43:48 PM | | I don't really buy into the astrological stuff, but one thing I will say. Every Gemini I've ever been involved with has always been incredibly FUN.. particularly in bed.. but in all areas, too. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 10/1/2009 12:12:10 AM | OMG it was wonderful on even number days and bad on odd number days. I tried it for 4 months to only get out happily alive. No more geminis for me I learned a valuable lesson.  | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 10/1/2009 12:36:50 PM | I think it's borderline crazy to generalize hundreds of millions of people around the world based on the month they were born. Astrology is for weak personalities afraid to accept control(and blame) for their own lives. Sorry.
I'm a Gemini male. It means nothing other than being conceived in late summer. My personality is probably more consistent than most people I've met. If you want to understand someone's personality... look to their parents, their siblings, the household they grew up in, their community, their friends, etc. Their zodiac sign is the last thing that matters. | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 10/1/2009 5:30:11 PM | Its an astrological sign of insecurity to seek confirmation of a budding relationship or to avoid one due solely to the sign they were born under. The truth is there are some real gems and some turds under each sign. No man should be condemned or confirmed on the basis of their sign alone. Trust your instincts and your finely honed intuition to separate the the nuggets from the fool's gold. Rely on yourself, life is more blissful that way.
A Gem of a Gemini,
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 10/1/2009 6:04:51 PM |
Its an astrological sign of insecurity to seek confirmation of a budding relationship or to avoid one due solely to the sign they were born under.
Respectfully disagree, there is no one aspect that is a sign of insecurity. Astrology aside, consider Myers-Briggs for a sec, the introverts aren't insecure, although they may "appear" to be at times.
No man should be condemned or confirmed on the basis of their sign alone. Pretty strong language, there, condemned.....not interested...condemned? It's up to each individual what criteria they choose to be interested or not interested, whether it's based solely on an astrological sign or any other aspect of their profile.
Trust your instincts and your finely honed intuition to separate the the nuggets from the fool's gold. Rely on yourself, life is more blissful that way. Looks good on paper, but if anyone or everyone's instincts and intuition were that "finely honed" there would be oh I'd guess about 6 million less members on this site. So...just curious, how's that worked out for you, personally?  | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 10/1/2009 6:40:59 PM | p.s. oh yeah... forgot to add... the reason that they are so called "fun and good in bed and and and ...." is most likely because they are passionate creatures. Not shallow. Maybe you guys are the ones who are shallow? hmmm......  | |
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| GEMINI'S..........what was your experience?
Posted: 10/1/2009 7:02:01 PM | Gemini male? No way would I do it again.
Positive aspects:
CHARMING and often magnetic
Most Geminis are highly attractive
Intelligent and witty
Unique personality...I have YET to find a Gemini who is boring
Unpredicatable
Hardworking and sometimes a perfectionist
FUN....FUN....FUN.....a great friend to party with or just hang out in general
Never lost for words
Downside:
Superficial
Hard to impress
Fickle and always looking for someone better even when in a relationship
Hot and Cold personality....one day he shows sweet caring gestures,...next day...very critical and withdrawn
Very moody...either extremely happy or extremely depressed
Self-absorbed
Overall....I am a Gemini and surprise surprise have had the tables turned on me when dating a fellow Gemini male....lol.
Last guy I was seeing was a Gemini....never again...the positive aspects drew me in to him within a half minute...I fell hard for him...then I gradually found out his bad side....he changed his mind on me about a half dozen times and played the victim when I finally ended things...I was like " Sorry I am not going to put up with your crap anymore...you sure as hell don't know what you want and I sure as hell am not gonna stick around any longer..." Good Riddance. Too bad because he was freaking good in bed and happened to be by far........one of the best looking men I have met....damn those Gemini men....
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