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 feanor3791

Joined: 4/17/2007
Msg: 126
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Posted: 4/20/2007 6:45:32 PM
And to ChocolateAngel;

I don't think the point was that the baby is "impure" if it's half-black, but that it's obvious to everyone that it's not his, and he would be humiliated every time he went out with the family. Don't be so quick to take offense.
 justcueit

Joined: 12/22/2006
Msg: 127
Wife pregnant from another man
Posted: 4/20/2007 6:57:00 PM
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 ddream

Joined: 8/24/2006
Msg: 128
Wife pregnant from another man
Posted: 4/20/2007 9:36:00 PM
Well, the answer is simple.. Get out of that relationship, not because of the child, but because she cheated on you.. You will never be able to trust her again, no mattter what she does... You will always have that itchy feeling of what she's doing behind your back. And that's not because you are a racist or anything, it's just that your wife cheated on you... Get a divorce now and leave her, find somebody worthy of your trust...
 cdnjackal

Joined: 4/1/2007
Msg: 129
Wife pregnant from another man
Posted: 4/21/2007 7:52:49 AM
Why would he be humiliated if they went out in public with the half breed baby Feanor? while I do not agree with the statements Chocolet angel made, and yes it would be obvious that the baby isn't his, have your ever considered that people might think they adopted the baby?

Since the beautiful people in Hollywood are adopting babies of ethnicities and making it fashionable, one might think others are too? no

Unless this Penis with ears who originally posted this thread appeared on Jerry Springer and told the entire world of what his lying, cheating, cold dead beating, 2 time double dealing did, and how much of a hump he is.
 Nick Thinker

Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 130
Wife pregnant from another man
Posted: 4/21/2007 8:47:11 AM
I am ASSUMING this story is legit: The wife not only cheated on you, she cheated "unprotected" thus exposing you too to STD risks and the risk of pregnancy!
Run Forrest, Run, IMO and get good legal advice!
 orchidtigress

Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 131
Wife pregnant from another man
Posted: 4/21/2007 1:26:12 PM
Sorry, but seems you have answered your own question. What a mess!

You cannot trust her and don't want the humiliation. End the relationship....if you seperate and then later decide you want her back that would be different and would probably give the option of saving grace since she can "pretend to others" she became pregnant while you were seperated and perhaps had the baby early and could consider giving the baby up for adoption or you could raise it without so much embarrasment since no one would be the wiser.

Remember though that she did cheat and did so without protection. You have doubts now about her declaration of being faithful and she is in dire straights; I believe the future would hold less promise.
 feanor3791

Joined: 4/17/2007
Msg: 132
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Posted: 4/21/2007 3:01:45 PM
Well said, Cdnjackal. I think you give people more credit for being fair-minded and nonjudgemental than I do. Also, what the people actually think is not as much at issue as what the guy thinks they're thinking, if you follow me. Either way, we all seem to be in agreement about the course of action. RUN! Never look back. Take your daughter with you.
 cdnjackal

Joined: 4/1/2007
Msg: 133
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Posted: 5/2/2007 9:59:33 AM
Actually Feanor, most people I know maybe its my location agreed with me, I asked them the same question as this Penis did on this thread, and most replied if they seen this guy walk down the street with a child of African American ethnicity, they would assume he's baby sitting, the kid is adopted etc etc etc

Absolutely I agree with you that this guy (assuming his story is true) he should be gone, and take the daughter
 HereForThePosts

Joined: 4/27/2007
Msg: 134
Wife pregnant from another man
Posted: 5/2/2007 11:51:21 AM
The bottom line is that you should take your daughter and leave.

She is a gorgeous woman who I love

Beauty is skin deep and she is pretty ugly on the inside IMO.

willing to end the affair

Of course she is! She fears that she's going to be left on her own. Please make it so!

To all who are throwing the race issue into the mix, don't - One Blood!
 Luckee_charmz07

Joined: 3/24/2007
Msg: 135
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Posted: 5/2/2007 1:24:58 PM
bullshit.. if that kd comes out black, and he's white, he will not have to pay sh.. .
 cdnjackal

Joined: 4/1/2007
Msg: 136
Wife pregnant from another man
Posted: 5/9/2007 7:04:07 PM
As my good friend verygreeneyes used to say, never take a educated opinion to a moron convention, good God, is this the future of our youth?
 Naughtical

Joined: 4/27/2007
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Posted: 5/9/2007 7:20:38 PM
This is just too funny.
I know the OP is having a great laugh, c'mon folks...........surely you can see through this. Look at his user name.....nothing about this guy is for real. Bringing in the race issue was a nice touch, he should have said it was triplets..........maybe each baby could be a different race.
I wonder what he has in store for us next.
 he4she

Joined: 11/4/2005
Msg: 138
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Posted: 5/15/2009 11:01:18 AM
You should be talking to your attorney, know your rights!
You could end up paying child support for a child that is not even yours, it happens all the time.
 Golfer38

Joined: 12/17/2008
Msg: 139
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Posted: 5/15/2009 11:18:32 AM
Talk to a lawyer and throw her out, she is a lying whore and you do not need her. Go for custody of your kid and be done with her.
 novshay1973

Joined: 6/16/2008
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Posted: 5/15/2009 12:21:07 PM
Dont worry about what your friends think..if they are true friends they will be there for you, no matter what...........do whats best for you and your daughter.
My prayers are with you and your family.
 maybeangel

Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 141
Wife pregnant from another man
Posted: 5/15/2009 12:50:52 PM
The OP here is a few years old...but I wonder if he is on the hook for child support, because the were legally married when the child was concieved--- there is another thread about that going on.
 ççç™

Joined: 4/21/2009
Msg: 142
Wife pregnant from another man
Posted: 5/15/2009 1:04:14 PM
God , I am so happy that I am not married or have kids....
Any man who signs a "marriage contract" is an idiot in my book.
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