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 Sefra

Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 26
Feeling butterflies
Posted: 2/8/2009 10:23:20 AM
My butterflies quickly get eaten when I meet the frogs..... short-lived. I truly hate fantasizing about a person...cuz..I know that what is taking place is uncontrolled expectations.....

I am currently seeking... a live butterfly...on the outside of my body...one whom I can speak with... and enjoy life with.... instead of those old fashioned ones that dance inside of me.... in a covert fashion.

I hate being shy on a date b/c of flies... or smiling for too long...and nodding without even hearing what was being asked.

I want to be an adult.

 ohio2fl

Joined: 9/7/2008
Msg: 27
Feeling butterflies
Posted: 3/1/2009 8:09:14 PM

Yeah....butterflies when you're online with them....then, meet them and all the butterflies flew away

That's not good, maybe you are just meeting the wrong type of guys?? A lot of girls seem to have this problem- Attractiontolooseratica.

Maybe you set your standards too high??

Then again, that is why it is a "Meet". It's hard to weid out the good from the bad based off pictures...

I am sure the right one will come along
 Created2009

Joined: 1/25/2009
Msg: 28
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Feeling butterflies
Posted: 3/2/2009 4:49:22 AM
Well, "OHIO2FL"...you MAY be right...but I'm not sure about having to raise or lower my "standards" meter-reader...for the right one to come along

A good friend told me once that she met a guy on POF, didnt wait very long to go MEET him, so didnt give the online butterflies a chance to settle in her gut...and VOILA...she met him and THEN the butterflies came for a visit....

I find it hard to imagine, but I guess it could happen

Good luck in your future endeavors
 playful53

Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 29
Feeling butterflies
Posted: 3/2/2009 6:43:51 PM
Yes, same thing with me.....so now I go straight to meeting them, so I don't get so disappointed!!
 njman1

Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 30
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Feeling butterflies
Posted: 3/2/2009 7:01:57 PM
Happened to me during my first few online relationships. I was just excited to be starting a new relationship, during different times with each women. But sadly none of them ended happily.
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