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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/19/2007 12:01:29 PM | ah yes another relationship scared person. you have given up on finding extraordinary. well just know this. normal is what gets married and gets divorce 5 yrs later for no real apparent reason. normal is the mac and cheese of relationships, after a while it becomes a bit redundant.
Sounds like the opposite to me... you seem to have rather negative feelings about "normal". Now we are only talking about the things that let us live our lives... certainly not about the rest of the dynamics of a person. I am the furthest from normal in that manner, lol.
my parents had and still have magic, and my mom always tells me never settle with the first girl you meet. make sure she is the one for you rich or poor no matter the condition. getting old should not be an escuse for a new form of "settling"
You're right, my parents are still together as well. I have never ever ever settled for anyone. I just happen to know that i can find stable (normal) and also all of the other things I'm looking for in the same package. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/19/2007 12:46:40 PM |
I just happen to know that i can find stable (normal) and also all of the other things I'm looking for in the same package.
oh sherilyn70 i'm tired
he might not have a car, he might be retired, he might have lost his house while taking care of a family members ailment and feel maybe renting is not so bad. but he might be a good man who would make you genuinely happy, still have a pension that is more than suitable and oh if you look past his instability he might move in, quit renting and share your bed your life and his financial stabilty with you. separately you guys something slightly less than stable, together you guys will be more than stable and God forbid happier than mr stable. with your rigid "criteria of stablity" this man does not fit. but you know with a little more risk you could gain that much more.
your age you experiences shouldnt box you up. with risk comes reward.
i aint giving up on you guys yet. i believe theres fire your hearts and those jerks you tried to take it away are suffering for thier actions. reignite it and take chance ma'am, take a chance  | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/19/2007 11:19:22 PM | I don't expect anyone to take care of me and I am not going to take care of someone else...at least at the outset. If things go wrong as a couple you face it as a couple...I don't want to step into someones life and have issues to deal with.
Selfish...maybe, but that's how I feel. I have a finite time before retiring and I'm not going to jeopardize my position. Yup...guess I am selfish! | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 6:04:12 PM | The two ****es sitting next to me actually said the following words:
"Yeah, he was making $120,000 tax free over in Afghanistan.... and he lost his job, but he doesn't have the money to pay the taxes. He hasn't been out of the country long enough.
AND he hasn't bought her a house yet."
Excuse me?
This is a GIRLFRIEND they're talking about.
As if him spending HIS money he's earning getting danger pay overseas on HIMSELF is somehow wrong, because he should have bought his GIRLFRIEND a house first.
THEY ARE AFTER YOUR CASH, FOLKS. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 6:35:26 PM | Taxes?
There are no taxes on the first $80 or $90K.
There are no taxes at all if you quit worrying about your citizenship.
Heck, I've been working towards a Saudi gig for almost a year, I'd LOVE to do that.
You're pretty much celibate but that's already my situation and I could be earning a U.S. equivalent of almost $200K for it. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 6:42:25 PM | | yes there all gold digger but they say there not all bullshit. looking to a lay a man away. be careful have been meeting alot of gold digger lately good luck bye charles ............ | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 7:28:52 PM |
you are right 100 per cent gold diggers
I fricking give up...I am so tired of trying to convince some men that all women aren't evil, money hungry, unattractive,lying, cheating, ****es who only like men for the things they have to give.
Believe what you want. Be miserable. Since the consensus seems to be that we are this way naturally and will never change..I guess that means you'll be happy living without one for the rest of your life.
No skin off my nose....the men I date know better..and those are the only ones who's opinion I should care about anyway... | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 7:34:01 PM |
I fricking give up...I am so tired of trying to convince some men that all women aren't evil, money hungry, unattractive,lying, cheating, ****es who only like men for the things they have to give.
Well, that's like proving that the world isn't round and that it's actually flat.
It can't be done. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 7:36:16 PM |
I fricking give up...I am so tired of trying to convince some men that all women aren't evil, money hungry, unattractive,lying, cheating, ****es who only like men for the things they have to give.
Well, that's like proving that the world isn't round and that it's actually flat.
It can't be done. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 7:37:22 PM | "you are right 100 per cent gold diggers"
Oh shush, Mr. Bitter. This resentment crap gets old... fast. And that may be why you're still here... women, don't want to go out with a guy who thinks of them as a gold digger, without so much as a fair chance.
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 7:39:50 PM | | ^Ironic actually. That's what I've been arguing for since I joined the thread. Instead of making such silly assumptions about a person based on a preconceived idea of what "stable" is. All things considered, as long as that's the rationale on the one side , it might as well be the same on the other. They're both equally invalid. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 7:44:19 PM |
And that may be why you're still here... women, don't want to go out with a guy who thinks of them as a gold digger, without so much as a fair chance.
Nothing bigger than a woman's ego.
She thinks I still want her or anyone like her. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 7:47:42 PM |
Believe what you want. Be miserable.
I'm considerably happier now than when I was married, although not for the reason you may think. But it works out the same. Heck, I don't even miss the sex. Vanilla sex with my wife was a dreaded responsibility, not a joy.  | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 7:51:28 PM |
I'm considerably happier now than when I was married, although not for the reason you may think. But it works out the same. Heck, I don't even miss the sex. Vanilla sex with my wife was a dreaded responsibility, not a joy
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 7:57:38 PM | I have my share of experiences to tilt me towards being bitter - but when the next one comes along and shows that shes so different, and not out to mess my life up, its amazing how that changes perspective. There are a lot of worthwhile decent women out there.
And yes, there are relationships that don't work out and yet they don't produce any animosity, just a sense of "oh well', and friendy behaviour and wishing of each other well. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 8:06:16 PM |
Vanilla sex with my wife was a dreaded responsibility, not a joy.
Well duh... I think that it's horrible with anyone ever and would never settle for that. I shudder at that thought. Who would miss that? | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 8:25:57 PM |
Heck, I don't even miss the sex. Vanilla sex with my wife was a dreaded responsibility, not a joy.
Well, Broward...It's not my fault that you have bad sex when you were married...I'm sure if you asked my ex husband..that's the one thing he wouldn't have anything bad to say about.
And , goes to show you..I wasn't referring to sex at all...I'm this stupid idealist, romantic...I was referring to love? affection? good friends?caring?laughter?..I keep forgetting that everything is just about sex to some men....that there is no other reason to want to be with a woman...gosh..I am so out of date...and of course, money is the only reason to be with a man...welcome to dating on POF in the 21st century.... | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 8:30:42 PM | women, don't want to go out with a guy who thinks of them as a gold digger, without so much as a fair chance.
Kind of like guys don't like to be compared to ex boyfriends that were deadbeats and did sponge off women, without so much as a fair chance.
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 8:30:48 PM |
Well, Broward...It's not my fault that you have bad sex when you were married...I'm sure if you asked my ex husband..that's the one thing he wouldn't have anything bad to say about.
Why is this suddenly about you and how good a **** you are? | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 8:37:49 PM |
Why is this suddenly about you and how good a **** you are?
I don't know which bad word was starred out..but I'm sure it was unflattering.
My point was, and maybe, it was defensive on two counts..because broward has bashed me several times very badly in other threads, was that he said that to insult me, and I just defended that , like this money issue..all women aren't alike, and I'm not one of them. I admit to poor judgment on that one. I'm human. I refuse to keep being insulted for just giving my opinion, by him, or now you, bikerscum...neither of you even know me...aint worth the tears.... | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 8:40:22 PM | | What about the women who are single mother's who have asked me about my credit and finances on our fist and only date? What do you call those? I call them gold diggers but they justified it by saying it was in the best interests of their children that hey find a man to support all of them. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 12/20/2007 8:44:52 PM | "Nothing bigger than a woman's ego.
She thinks I still want her or anyone like her."
What the hell are you talking about, bikerscum? Are you talking to yourself or something?? Dear god... what is with men like you? Ya'll make this place POF... Plenty of Freakshow.
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