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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 4/24/2008 6:37:31 AM |
I would never sell my place to move in with some one even if we got married, if it work out i got my place yet.
Well if you can afford to own two places then go for it. :)
If I were to move in to a guys house I would turn my current place into a rental property and generate income and equity for the future. I wouldn't hang on to it though for the thought that we might not work out though... seems like you're killing the relationship before it even takes off if you go in with that mentality. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 4/24/2008 10:27:43 AM | | It's just a matter of being able to support yourself. We don't need you to have a BMW or make over a huge amount of money, we don't even need you to have a house in Bel Air, we just want someone who is mature enough and stable. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 4/24/2008 10:37:35 AM | I've talked to a few people and it seems to be that there are women out there who are looking for a man who makes a good living and has material wealth so that they can benefit from this in a potential relationship. Maybe they have a few kids to support and they have low paying jobs and want a better situation or wanting to have kids and want to know if he can support a family.
Or that there are women out there who have worked hard to get where they are and
they expect that their potential mate will be up to par and not be any kind of slacker
or someone who is not as ambitious as they are.
Fortunately, I'm in neither one of those situations.
Maybe these women should just not make it so obvious and gauge for themselves through conversations with the men they meet, BUT then it is in the men's best interest to have it laid out there like that so they can bypass them altogether if
the money interest issue is a problem.
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 4/24/2008 4:10:40 PM | are you ****in' kiddin' me?
that is such a painfully obvious question that it pains me that you ACTUALLY asked it
let me ask you this.
would you want to be around a woman who has no vehicle, employment, money or fixed address?
unless you are sixteen and she is of the same, i am betting a resounding NO.
i am sure that they are just simply weeding out the losers whom are sponges
gold diggers dont ask it. they just walk right in and start to utilize whatever they can
and they dont care if you have, all they care about is that you can get it for them
everybody comes to the answer man | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 4/24/2008 4:55:05 PM | what's it matter whether a woman has a job, car or house? as long as she's responsible. Basically all you have to do is see if there is effort or past effort in her procuring money and see how she spends it. If she gets by on $500 per month, does it really matter? A financially savvy woman is a rare find.
How about assessing men based on responsibleness?
some guys have no job and yet have 500X the amount of cash compared to the average person
if he decides to give up his car to walk or ride a bike, would that matter? if a car was necessary it could be rented or his driver could take him (and you) around
if he prefers to rent until home prices are reasonable, does that irk you...or you want him to pay more than fair price as a sign of stupidity?
yeah yeah yeah, I've heard so much here and saw so much in real life. almost funny, except that lives are involved. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 5/2/2008 8:30:51 AM | Ok i work my butt off everyday. I make an ok wage. But there are 2 ex's out there that own nice homes because of me. Now i have to rent untill i cant pay off the bills that were created from the last ex before i can save up to buy my own home again.
Do i want a rich woman? sure who doesnt but what i really want is a woman that takes me for who i am and not what she thinks i am.
So to the women out there that require a man to own a home stop and look at the whole picture maybe he did have all the things your looking for and gave them to his ex or had them takin from him by an ex.
I may not be living with my mother but that guy that is, might be smarter than me because he will be back on his feet and own a home long before me
Give us a break! look at the whole picture before you judge us!
yours, Sonny | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 5/2/2008 8:58:44 AM | Oh bull, there are lots of women that have enough gumption to make their own way. We are not looking for a child to raise we are looking an equal that has or is willing to bring something to the relationship. If you don't have a job or a car, what do you have to bring to a relationship????
If you're cute that's great, but that isn't enough, for a guy or a gal. | |
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