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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 7/29/2009 2:04:13 AM | Haha, I love how all the women on this site have been deemed gold diggers. Normally a woman will have specific items listed that she wants when she has been burned by someone not having them.
I know men mooch off women, my mom has a gremlin that has lived with her for four years and has done just that. It deffinately happens.
But, on the woman side of things. I have a job, I am independant and do not need a man or anyone else to take care of me but you can bet, a guy I meet and would hang out with would be stable in his life and normally this means decent employment, a home of some kind preferably clean and not in a neighborhood where I would have to feel like I had to have 911 on speed dial , and yea should have a car .. ( I dont like feelin like a taxi ) All three simple basics.
Doesnt make us gold diggers makes us smart. And keeps those who are unemployed, with no car and still living at home with mom and dad or from house to house with friends from emailing us and cluttering up our inbox...
Also would like to point out how many profiles I have seen where guys say "NO FATTYS" and I have seen profiles where the men have asked that the woman be employed, with no children and have plenty of time to spend with them.. ( Cough cough) ... so our wants arent so crazy....And the only ones that would question this or get pissed are the guys who dont have the above mentioned.
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 7/29/2009 2:13:03 AM |
Hi. I am a girl in my early 30’s looking for a guy who is: insecure, lazy, with no job and hates kids....I know you’re out there!!!
I am just sick and tired of meeting all of these normal, regular men with their own jobs and places to live and their own money and their own cars. There are just simply way too many levelheaded, smart, articulate men out there today and I am bored with their stability.
theres a quote from my profile....I guess I'm doing it wrong huh? | |
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| Everything is just perfect...
Posted: 8/16/2009 9:50:09 AM | | I met someone sev. months ago. She is fantastic. Did'nt even need this site. Met her on my own. | |
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| I was seeing...
Posted: 8/16/2009 9:55:00 AM | | someone this past spring. She was older ,very attractive, yada yada yada. My ****in feelin got in the way and she crapped on me for a guy who was married, and had a mistress on the side, and well of course a 30 acre ranch somewhere out in Los Almost California. Needless to say she wanted to keep in contact but I blew her off. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 8/16/2009 10:02:25 AM | The OP has a Honda Fit or Yaris or whatever subcompact? it is pictured in his profile. If someone is digging for gold for that  they are doing it wrong. First bankrolling for coffee and pizza and now this. How come the ones with the least think someone wants to take their $20 checking account balance from them?????? Protect your PIN numbers for deal life fellas.  | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 8/16/2009 2:57:55 PM | In my past guy's have tried their best to get their hands into "my" "piggy bank" so my only concern here about a gentleman is that he at least be comparable. I'll keep my piggy bank to my self., thank you very much.
By the way! this is my first visit to the forums. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 8/16/2009 3:24:47 PM | No job- unless the economy bent you over, there really is NO reason a guy shouldn't have a job. I've been the bread-winner, and got totally soaked, until I ended it. A GREAT job? They're nice to have, yes...not all of us make this a requirement. A potential partner doesn't need to make $100000 a year. Anyone making that a requirement needs to be shown the door, and fast.
No car- having a car is a bonus, but sometimes, life situations prevent that. You split, the other partner gets the car. And honestly, sometimes the expenses of having a car outweighs the benefits.
Some chics just feel that they're "worth" a rich dude...takes all kinds. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/10/2009 4:08:37 PM | It amazes me still that some really nice women work for the funds to keep a man entertained. plenty of 'New Saps' around!
I've never had the slightest help from a woman in all my many years on the planet.
I don't mind paying but have found getting women to do their bit quite hard. They often are last to put hands in pockets and will even offer a cheque- which has been embarrassing.
I just like to offer the chance for eekqwalitee...but it rarely happens.
In the future ,according to think tank flyers, anyone co-habiting for longer than a dog watch will have to share house and pension for life- so the Gov't are 'not so very slowing' grinding us into permament singletons -even though most people are happy in a stable & loving relationship of equal status.
Sorry Ladies ! Feminism does Suck!
If you notice , the use of pre-nupts has crept in recently in the press, as if they are OK legally now, [Not] - but I bet it will only work one way. Law of nature. B/S Not !
Dating, Hols away, Living apart together...anything but the paint stripper job! | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/11/2009 5:41:37 AM | | Actually, at least 8 out of ten men don't have either a job or car or their own apartment. It's pretty slim pickins out there, so I guess women just want to filter them out. What these women are looking for is a grown up not some overgrown teenager. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/11/2009 2:57:46 PM | What do those figures refer to?
Men might well undervalue themselves to gauge motives!
I agree there's nothing wrong in wanting a man to have self respect and be self sustaining- that is hopefully self evident to a woman in the real workaday world.
What is the' great unknown' and much, much harder to quantify- is what the 'gentle sex' might bring to a relationship [in non-financial terms]- and what final cost if a failure.
Not so easy to judge! | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/11/2009 8:46:29 PM | I don't care if a man has all those things. I just want one who can take care of his own needs and does not have - or is likely to have - his pic on the RCMP (or similar's) most wanted website.
I don't have any of those things myself. Nor do I have any debt. I pay cash and budget my money. If I can't afford something I wait until I can and if I want it bad enough I secure extra income to buy it.
Simple living never hurt anyone. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/21/2009 2:20:55 PM | | botome line is women especially north american women, want a free ride.they expect everything and are willing to give very little in return, hence all the failed marriages, and the lower life expectancy of males | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/21/2009 8:23:54 PM | I'm noticing more and more that there are a lot of women that apparently don't drive/don't work/live with their parents. And these women are like 25+. I might understand if you're in school but wow.
Sure the MBTA/train system in Boston is great but, I don't know how I survived before I got my car. I can't imagine the trapped feeling of not having one. It's fleeting in itself to feel that freedom.
I honestly would love to find some chick that doesn't care about money and that is more interested in living in the now and enjoying the moment.
I'm not saying don't have hopes and dreams and be a broke loser, but there are some women that are ONLY going to chase the rich doctors with houses, and what not.
You can pretend not to be a gold digger, ladies, but we can see it. Your mom might want you to have a perfect life, but she ruined your chance at a decent future by filling your head with her dreams. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/21/2009 8:57:28 PM |
my ex has lived off of women his whole life
this is why women want a man who will take
responsibility
So we're paying for your loser ex and your mistakes ....
Good luck with that....  | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/22/2009 1:03:06 AM |
are willing to give very little in return
Some women fit this perfectly thinking if I'm having sex with you thats good enough. I don't see the big deal with somebody living at home until you get serious with them. Why does it matter if your not taking care of them financially? Same thing with the car. Now I can understand the not having a job esp if it seems to be a problem with a person not keeping one but like I've said before if the person is able to take care of themselves what is the problem? I would hate for people to miss out on somebody that would be good for them cause of simple things like that. You never know who might end up being successful no matter what their current situations are. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/22/2009 2:07:48 AM | | now if theyure asking how much money you make and if theyre trying to get you to spend it all on them then thats one thing... but personally i would like a guy to have his own responsibilities and to know he can and has taken care of himself. at least have a job so ur mommy isnt taking care of you or mooching off of others. and the guy having a car helps too because well then you can see each other more especially if you both have cars you can take turns driving around. its just all about being grown up and being able to say your man enough to take care of yourself without help and youve worked hard. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/22/2009 11:18:54 PM | | They could be materialistic or gold-digging or they might just be looking for someone who has his life together. And having your life together is a subjective term with many definitions. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/23/2009 3:23:10 PM | "Isn't it funny how the men who have no money are the ones who call women gold-diggers?? Hmm... A man has to have gold (and plenty of it) before a woman can try to dig it up."
We can do without the male bashing, DOMINIKA78. The OP has an honest
question. Besides when is the last time you saw a guy's profile insist that any women who answer his ad must have house, a job and a car? Golddiggers are real and theyre perdominantly women. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/23/2009 3:52:01 PM | I wouldn't say these women are gold diggers... I just think there comes a point in our lives... that we look for a solid foundation... Back 10 years ago.. i didn't care if my then boyfriend had a car.. so long as I had one that was fine... But at this age... I think a guy with some of all of the above would seem.. to have his life together as well as direction... Not to say just because you have all the above you are set.. But it gives us an idea of what to expect... Would you as a guy initiate a date with a 30 yo that was jobless, no car, no direction in life? With possibilities that you will have to carry her end of the baggage?? Uh I think not... I carry my own weight.. I know where I wanna be in 5 -10 years... and need to find a guy that will mesh with that... If not, then I guess it's solo... hehe.. Some people are unemployed not by choice.. some are just too lazy to get a job... it's the lazy ones that i think most are staying awayyyyyyy from.. Farrrrrrr Farrrr away...
I've always believed that money doesn't buy everything.. .I still believe it now.. but without money in this day in age.. I don't know what you CAN buy... Money doesn't make my heart budge.. yet at the same token.. I've seen relationships fall apart when a couple strive to make ends meet, and when there's no extra cash... it adds stress to the relationship... then becomes a big mess... over what??? MONEY! yup... darn money... | |
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