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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/27/2009 9:40:31 PM | I can only speak for myself, so here goes:
I refuse to date a man who does not have his own means of transportation, does not have his own home, is unemployed, or can't pay his bills.
My reasoning is this:
I am 23, single, own my own homw, pay my bills, own a car, and am doing very well for myself and my children. I don't need a man to take care of me, and dang sure won't take care of a man and pay his bills. If I can be successful as a young, single mother, there is absolutely no reason a man can't when he has the ability to go out and earn 4 times the amount that I do. Money, stability and security are high up on a woman's checklist, kind of like nice boobs and arse are on a man's. That does not make us golddiggers, nor you men perverts. It's just how men and women are wired differently. I do not necessarily want a man that is rich, but it is important to me that he has reached the same level of stability in his life that I have. | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/28/2009 3:32:49 PM |
I refuse to date a man who does not have his own means of transportation, does not have his own home, is unemployed, or can't pay his bills
You are young and have your goal! Those guys shouldn't complain about anything when you don't give them an chance. Interesting thing was the guy read some girls' profiles and started the thread to complain about those girls' requirements! | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/28/2009 6:46:35 PM | Firstly, I am NOT a gold digger.
I have my own home, great job, vehicles (yes, plural) etc....and have gained all those thing independently.
I used to try to not discriminate against men without those things but why the hell should I? I would like to find a partner that can BRING THE SAME THINGS to the table as I do. I work hard for what I have in life so why should I feel guilty for seeking out the company of like-minded individuals??? I am smart and funny and prefer dating men that are witty and intelligent....why am i not being scrutinized for being a "brainiac digger" or "silly seeker"? Why are such negative connotations only associated with women seeking financial security in their partners, when men are often just seeking out sexy blondes with nice racks? I'm not wasting a thread crying a river about that, am I?
I am tired of hearing men who are broke whining and complaining when they cant find successful women who are dumb enough to drag around a dead beat boyfriend? Shop for gfs in your own income bracket and suck it up. Im such a meanie | |
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| Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash?
Posted: 9/28/2009 6:59:12 PM | | To OP, Maybe. I gamble for a living. Sometimes I am rolling sometimes I am not. I dont seem to attract the women seaking Bill Gates, so its cool. I avoid any status type profiles. | |
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