| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/25/2006 7:25:42 AM | | I would put the possibility of the two of you in the back of your head, carry on as if you never met him and prepare yourself for him not to call. That way if he does not you have already kind of let go and if he does it is a nice surprise. I personally would never call. There is someone out there whom will not be able to contain themselves for "three days" and will call you because they can not wait to see you again. As for the three day rule. If I went on a date and got a call on the infamous third day...... Game player! Not interested at all! | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/25/2006 7:29:00 AM | | Its a guy thing.....they say I will call you tomorrow....when it actually means two to three days from now......hang back....If he dosnt call you in a week...then something is up. | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/25/2006 9:29:07 AM | | well lets reverse this question i went out with a girl on the weekend she says call me so ok i will i called her tuesday night left a message then called her wednesday night and left and message and she never returns my calls why say call me if you dont want to return your calls | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/25/2006 9:36:10 AM | WOW!
I've never seen so many rules/theories about calling people in my life.
Here is my rule: If I feel like calling someone, I'll call them. Who cares about how many days it's been? If it's someone that likes you, they will be happy to hear from you, end of story. | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/30/2006 7:10:41 AM | | I agree that if the person likes you...they could hear from you the next day...and not think your desprate or something silly like that...I guess its just another rule in dateing...I personaly think there should be no rules...just simple boundrys that should be crossed when the time is right. | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/30/2006 7:20:08 AM | Some guys call a lot. Others hardly at all.
Basically, it's very hard for us to understand just how women think about the whole calling thing.
I have come up with a wonderful plan though... I ask the woman. :p
Because some want the guy to call them all the time.
Others don't want to feel harassed.
Give him a day.
If he doesn't call you back, then he may just be concerned about bugging you.
Then you can call him. There's no harm in that.
If he's not interested (which after reading your profile he'd have to be an idiot not to be) then at least you'll know.
And if he was just too afraid to call... then you can reassure him about it. :) | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/30/2006 10:50:45 AM | | Politness dictate to make contact (preferably in writting) the next day to thank the person for a nice evening. | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/30/2006 11:01:34 AM | | I would certainly give the guy a couple of days - a week even - however with that said I have never had to wait past the next day - because I feel I have dated some gentlemen who know what women likes. As well I seem to make an impression on them. You have to know in your heart whether you have made an impression and at what impact - that may determine the time in which he will call. If the date went exceptionally - you will hear the next day - if anything less, than the time frame of the call will be extended. | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/30/2006 11:02:19 AM | It would alway's stem in my mind, who else have they got lined up for a date on here,
so if a guy rang me next day or even text me on my cell. I would feel a little better.
What have you to lose? ring her. You can tell by her reaction if you have done the right thing. | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/30/2006 11:04:52 AM | If its an awesome date and I say I will call...I call!
If its not an great date and I don't say nothing...I won't call.
If its a fantastic date and she calls the next day and ask if I want company I do the Carlton Dance!  | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/30/2006 11:05:11 AM | | And also. If you do not ring her. She might think that you are not interested. And may move on to someone else. As there are to many game players on this site. | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/30/2006 11:10:21 AM | | Damm right I would call her the next morning if I was interested. | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/30/2006 11:41:33 AM | maybe the guys just an a**hole
maybe he is just clueless
or, i hate to suggest it, maybe you are trying to hard
its possible that the guy likes you but you might be scaring him away a bit. he might feel like you are trying to tie him down already by constantly (for the lack of a better word, sorry) nagging him to promise you to call.
when people start to feel forced to do something, even if it is something they want to do, they tend back away
he probably calls when you are not home just to do so on his own terms. besides, you cant say he doesnt call then.
next time, play it cool, like you dont care that much either, and i bet he'll start calling more! | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 5/30/2006 1:17:38 PM | I would call, hopefully she would also call. Then later that night I would go peek in her windows.  | |
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Posted: 6/2/2006 12:53:56 AM | | I am the type that tries to find out if there will BE a 2nd date before the end of the first. If I say I'll call tomorrow, I'm interested. If I don't, I'm not (very) interested. There have been a couple of times I've wanted to give a fake phone number. Back to the original question, I don't think you're being too pushy to call on the next day, if things went well on the date. | |
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Posted: 6/2/2006 1:54:46 AM | I would call for sure...Especially if there was any kissing going on....But your guy might be following that weird rules of dating book!
He might be on the Play hard to get page but is having a hard time understanding the concept. MOVE ON my dear! | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 6/2/2006 1:58:02 AM | Well, if i went on a date and we both enjoyed ourselves, i will call the next day, if she thinks i am being too clingy or desperate, i will just move on.
If she liked me and was interested in me, she wouldn't be so naggy about it.
skinnbones: Why think he is a player if he calls after 3 days, he might be busy or just too nervous to call, but hey if you want to throw away a possible good relationship, its up to you. | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 6/2/2006 7:14:40 AM | Well I wouldnt call the very next day, not unless it went so well that we decided to do something the next day. But would call like the third day just at least to say hey. | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 6/3/2006 1:13:26 AM | Maybe I'm just different here - but if I have to call the next day, it usually means BAD news!
Usually, I know if there's not going to be a second date by the end of the first - and if there will be one, I ask THEN, so there's no need to call except to reschedule....
My view is if he doesn't know by the third day at the latest that he should call you, then his interest in you is weak at best (if he ever calls). | |
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| Guys need your help!!
Posted: 12/15/2008 11:42:33 AM | | First you have to give them a chance and talk a little before blocking them. | |
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