| I Cant Believe what she just did?!
Posted: 2/19/2005 3:49:39 PM |  Here's a simple analegy,do you buy the $75,000.00 car because it rides nice,or do you wait a little wile and buy the same thing for $5.00???
 See you paid $75,000.00 for a $5.00 car,and now it's junk.../-;
 Don't spend another million trying to fix it,because it was junk befor you bought it...
 Scrap it and next time,check under the hood befor you buy...(-; | |
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| I Cant Believe what she just did?!
Posted: 2/20/2005 7:01:27 AM | | Well, when you said that stuff about her being raped by four men, it occured to me that that PROBABLY wasn't the first time you'd said something like that. THAT could certainly explain why you'd be put into a "friend" catagory with no chance of escape. It seems that whatever you feel and however you act, you do it very intensely, and while that would be ok for a friendship, a lot of women don't want voliatility like that in a relationship. The 11 page "official" letter falls into this catagory as well. Yikes. I'm sure that you're very nice and well-intentioned... you say what happened was "100% not your fault," and I'm sure that it wasn't, but for more luck you might want to tone it down a bit in the future. | |
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| I Cant Believe what she just did?!
Posted: 2/20/2005 7:04:45 AM | | Oh, yeah, and name-dropping is bad enough in general. But name-dropping when you're on an anonymous dating website? Oh my goodness. I'm sure you're an intelligent guy. Take a step back and look at how you're presenting yourself... women pay attention to these things. | |
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| I Cant Believe what she just did?!
Posted: 2/20/2005 7:31:43 PM | | Gosh...I wish someone would have done that for me..an 11 page letter? Now, if someone did that for me..then I would know that, that person would be my soulmate. lol. Your better off without her. Good luck though. | |
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| I Cant Believe what she just did?!
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:06:04 PM | | well i dont do that usally. but i thought i would do an exception in her case. and right now i am into that " all women are ****ez and all ****ez are hoez ( except for mommys) " attitude. and d*mn i aint lookin or searchin for anyone else, soodnt wish me good luck on searchin sumone else. to me i will just do a song about it and thats gonna be it for me. p.s. i like your angelina jolie lips hehe | |
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| I Cant Believe what she just did?!
Posted: 2/26/2005 2:29:41 PM | It's possible that you really scared her acting too serious too quickly. Personally, if I saw her again I'd call her on it. It's possible she is interested and just got frightened by you going too fast. You just don't write love letters to someone you're not involved with. But then, that's just me.
And yes, Dessert's got a little of that Angelina look going, doesn't she? | |
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| I Cant Believe what she just did?!
Posted: 2/27/2005 7:34:20 AM | I really feel for you, she does sound nasty, but you went ahead (with 11pages) without solid footing in a firm relationship.
Maybe - for the future, you might want to preserve yourself a little so you don't get hurt & don't take that leap of faith until you're sure she feels the same way.
By the way, its not a case of all women are b**** & men are ass**, just label that person & move on...not gender deserves to be grouped in with a woman like that! | |
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| I Cant Believe what she just did?!
Posted: 2/27/2005 10:32:38 AM | I find it very offensive that you men seem to think that women are the only ones like that. Try being a woman meeting a man...go out many times. He convinces you that he really likes you, enjoys your company and wants to continue a more serious relationship. In other words wants to spend the rest of his life with you. You finally decide to be intimate with him, after all you've been dating awhile. Your intimate, morning comes, you enjoy the day together and then he has to go, promising he will call tonight. He had called everyday since dating, but now all of a sudden no call. You wait a couple of days and try calling him. He doesn't answer his phone and doesn't return your call. You try 2 more times in the next couple of days and still nothing....just disappears with no word.
Or how about the one that things were very serious and your together more than not in months. The relationship is going very well. Doesn't seem to be any problems what so ever. One day he calls and says I'll be over tonight and he doesn't show. Your worried thinking something has happened. Again nothing. No phone calls, no nothing. You find out through someone else that he's just fine. What's up with that???
Personally men are no better when it comes to a relationship and running off without a word. It hurts and yes you sit and try to evaluate what has happened. Knocking your head against the wall trying to figure it all out.
Then there's the ones on these personal sites...oh yes....u meet, things are going great, there's a connection. He or she asks if they'd like to see each other again...you go out again. Another nice date. So you ask for a third date and he agrees to it. The night before he says to call in the morning about going out that evening, he's been sick for a few days. You call, no answer, you message him saying you hope he is feeling better...he doesn't reply and then he takes you off his list with no explanation....
So you see men can be just as cruel if not crueler. Why not be upfront and honest to begin with? If I don't want to be around someone I will let them know that. I don't run and hide. And as for seeing that person again on the street...I walk by with a smile on my face and say hello. Being nice gets them all the time. I'm happy that I found out sooner than later that those pricks weren't for me.  | |
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| I Cant Believe what she just did?!
Posted: 3/1/2005 1:50:03 PM | | Magga, you've got all of these nice people encouraging you (why, I haven't a clue) and you don't even appreciate it. For example, someone wished you good luck, and you responded, "Don't wish me good luck... but you have great lips." I won't even comment more on that post of yours; a thoughtful reading will speak volumes to any woman with at least half of her wits. It's a riot that you do this while posting your picture and personal information; hopefully this will at least serve to alert women to head the other way. Quickly. | |
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| I Cant Believe what she just did?!
Posted: 3/1/2005 7:32:09 PM | ^^
well done!...I didnt read that post but reading in your thread...
"dont wish me good luck..but you have nice lips' how piteous! | |
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| I Cant Believe what she just did?!
Posted: 3/4/2005 6:09:20 PM | Hi,
hold on first off i did not say i do not appreciate it. it was just i didn't have any internet within the past weeks. But of course i'd like to thank everyone that was comin up with good suggests etc. for me it is just the case that she is dead to me, she odnt exist anymore. but i know that everything, from the idea to do a posting till now was because of that ****-move of that girl i told you.
Nittanylion i dont understand your post at all, but anyways.
...and agaaaaaaiiiiiiiinnnn.Ladys and Gentlemen, unrequited love became my best friend...  | |
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| I Cant Believe what she just did?!
Posted: 3/13/2005 5:44:46 AM | What don't you understand? Do you understand that you said "Don't wish me good luck... but you have great lips?" If you don't understand that, just scroll up and see what you wrote. If you still don't understand, then stick to posting things that make sense to you.
Do you understand that many of the things you're saying are rude? Do you understand that people are trying to be nice to you and all you do is take the opportunity to "name drop" and complain about some woman who just probably ran the other way a lot later than she should have?
I guess my only point is that the nastiness doesn't become you. No one's impressed with that. (Well, I guess some would be, but...) You give some example of helping a dog instead of a women "being raped by four men" and then put happy faces in your posts. First of all, WHO would come up with a statement like that? We understand that you're angry, but women SHOULD head the other way from men who will say/post things like that. Across one ocean might not be far enough, but I hope it is. Hopefully you won't follow the advice to confront her... obviously you've done something to make her want to get away from you... confrontation would be ridiculous. Time to move on!!!
Good luck to you! | |
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