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| why do I (+ most women) love assholes??
Posted: 4/25/2008 9:51:09 AM | | some women like you like being treated like crap why i have no idea.some women love guys even more when there treated like that its like a self inflicted womb.grow up meet a nice guy even the a-hole wants nothing to do with you thats good for you move on sweetie | |
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| why do I (+ most women) love assholes??
Posted: 4/25/2008 10:18:11 AM | Easy- They love the drama and the false charisma/romance. They would rather have a less noble fella because they're good at saying what you like to hear. He must be good at it to be able to keep shmoosing up to get back in good graces. An honorable and good man is boring in comparison, because although polite, rarely has to shmoose.
The typical 'good guy' is no match for a con man as far as personality and fake charm. | |
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| why do I (+ most women) love assholes??
Posted: 4/25/2008 11:16:19 AM | Because SOME women mistake self-centeredness, c0ckiness and sociopathy for self-confidence, especially when younger and less experienced.
But we CAN and DO learn.
There is the "challenge" aspect also... it's intriguing when a guy doesn't fall all over us, because it's DIFFERENT. Being used to attention and yes, sometimes being catered to incessantly, it's a mystery why THAT GUY OVER THERE is acting differently than ALL THOSE OTHER GUYS. It's like a good mystery novel.. gotta figure it out before you can put it down.. unfortunately getting burned before figuring it out that he's just a selfish jerk who thinks he's "ALL THAT".
JMHO.. and observation | |
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| why do I (+ most women) love assholes??
Posted: 4/25/2008 1:56:26 PM | cause u like to have drama in your life.a nice simple good guy is not enough of a challenge.
instead of a guy treating u like a queen and making u feel loved,secure,wanted,appreciated u choose the guy who makes u feel stressed out,anxious,makes u feel unloved and unwanted.
go figure.
but personally i stay away from womens like that to me something is very wrong with them.i choose womens who want what i mentioned first cause thats what i have to offer. | |
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| why do I (+ most women) love assholes??
Posted: 4/25/2008 8:54:30 PM | I ask myself this question alot. I grew up with a mean father but he spoiled me rotton while beating the hellout of my mother all the time. I grew up and stopped him. It was a hard life being in an abusive family with a Bipolar father. It was for 17 years.
I married a pschopath man diagnosed for 28 years whom stalked me for 3 years while I divorced him and it came out he was Bi and had been paying child support all that time for another baby and still did lots of drugs behind my back. I stayed faithful and was a wonderful wife. My ex turned my 4 children against me. I was a foster parent and put my whole life into raising my children and others children. I also helped run a daycare for 10 years.
I have dated guys to find out they are abusive and have some type of mental disorder or they are women haters.
I have decided to go to womens groups for domestic violence and for once focus on the true me. For once in my life I am learning about me -Howevr I still want to find that special someone and settle down in the next five years.
So write down the red flags and choose a nice man? Make rules for dating and stick to them. I have decided to get closer to God and keep on smiling as always.  | |
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