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 cosmo's left the pond

Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 51
I REALLY WANNA KNOW THIS
Posted: 5/28/2005 7:17:23 PM
mommy are you saying women worry about our performance as well ? dang A guy just cant win anymore.
 cheerer

Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 52
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Posted: 5/28/2005 7:46:04 PM
everyone worries about something liek shit did i turn the light off in the bathroommy bill is going to be huge lol
 cosmo's left the pond

Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 53
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Posted: 5/28/2005 7:48:10 PM
I dont think guys would worry if mistakes made things bigger, but when embarrased sometimes things will shrink .
 stratcat

Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 54
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Posted: 5/28/2005 8:07:16 PM
perfomance? just pull her hair kiss her and f..ker harder when she tells you to and she'll purrrrrrr like a kitten and if that doesnt work pull her hair kiss her and f...ker harder when she tells you to, see no worries be happy! if shes happy your happy ,all yeah one more thing breathe in breath out breathe in breathe out keep that blood pumping!!!
 *BumbleBee*

Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 55
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Posted: 5/28/2005 8:08:50 PM
mommy are you saying women worry about our performance as well ? dang A guy just cant win anymore


No, I don't usually worry about the man's performance.. lol .. I believe they do though.
Was just saying that I don't worry about mine.
 awaitingyu

Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 56
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Posted: 5/28/2005 8:10:17 PM
there is too much worrying going on and not enough great intimacy and sex lol
 cheerer

Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 57
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Posted: 5/28/2005 8:18:23 PM
@awaitingyu

you are sexy as hell for a older guy take me show me teach me lol
 awaitingyu

Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 58
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Posted: 5/28/2005 8:21:30 PM
<--is cheerer from that response!! well thank you, feel free anytime

I will save all my juicy compliments for the e-mail hehe
 windover

Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 59
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Posted: 5/28/2005 8:26:05 PM
I think men do. They get performance anxiety when they think the girl is really hot.

JMO

 awaitingyu

Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 60
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Posted: 5/28/2005 8:28:54 PM
When I am with a woman, I am too busy taking care of her to worry about anything at all period. And she will be too busy enjoying to even have 1 negative thought during anything.

How you are performing should be written all over the womans face, her sounds, and the way she is responding back to you....you do your job and it's never an issue. It's not rocket science..
 *BumbleBee*

Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 61
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Posted: 5/28/2005 8:34:12 PM

How you are performing should be written all over the womans face, her sounds, and the way she is responding back to you....you do your job and it's never an issue. It's not rocket science..


Well said!

Like I've said before, if a guy has to ask how it was, he doesn't want to know the answer.
 awaitingyu

Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 62
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Posted: 5/28/2005 8:42:20 PM
and if your asking DURING?? talk about a moment killer !

A woman has ways of telling you without words...

for example...

if you are giving her oral..she will let you know by her actions, whether she arches her back, is moaning, looks down at you with those eyes that could pierce thru you..if she runs her fingers thru your hair and pushes you into her harder, she's telling you something...

PAY ATTENTION, be OBSERVANT and you have taken care of half the battle...yuo can't just dive in without being preceptive, that is why foreplay to me is important, because that is where you find out her tendancies, her reactions, if she's ticklish, she might say things to you during foreplay that would be hints for later on...

Sex is, to me, 60% atleast mental...the rest is the "act during" but you NEED BOTH PARTS....everyone has an imagination, and everyone thinks or knows they can do this, but it's the total picture, it's what you know and know you can do, and HER also wrapped together...CHEMISTRY..yes chemistry is important during sex too

my thing is foreplay, the teasng, the kissing, the caressing, the being playful...you find out alot about her just during all that..

i could go on and on ugh !
 *BumbleBee*

Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 63
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Posted: 5/28/2005 9:13:50 PM
awaiting .... I'm 60 percent done... keep going
 awaitingyu

Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 64
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Posted: 5/28/2005 9:15:08 PM
omg! hehee go baby go baby go baby work it girl! weee !
 tiffi78

Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 65
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Posted: 5/28/2005 9:15:55 PM
i think men worry more
 awaitingyu

Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 66
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Posted: 5/28/2005 9:16:41 PM
darn mommy, I tried to e-mail you but im not between the ages of 98 and 99...wow I have a long ways to go! lolol
 awaitingyu

Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 67
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Posted: 5/28/2005 9:17:13 PM
tiffi, where have you been girl!! lol....STRANGER hehe
 tiffi78

Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 68
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Posted: 5/28/2005 9:20:00 PM
i'm w/mommy of 2 >>>>> keep going awaitingyu
 awaitingyu

Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 69
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Posted: 5/28/2005 9:24:25 PM
sexy
 T,D and H

Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 70
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Posted: 5/28/2005 9:45:58 PM
I'd have to say that of the women I've been with, a number of them were perfectly content to just lay back and enjoy my work. They obviously weren't very concerned about having their performance judged...they figured all they had to do was show up - and they were right.
Some women are wild in bed but this seems to be due to the fact that they love it and not really so much about being better than anyone else.
I've had women comment on the fact that it is strange how I never inquire about their past lovers...personally I don't care - they aren't around anymore. I've never had a woman ask me if she was better than my last girlfriend or anything like that. The only exception to this is in regards to oral technique. Women do seem preoccupied with how they are doing in that regard.
Finally, women could always fake an orgasm while a guy...well, let's say it's a bit more challengeing to pull off.
Therefore, guys do the lion's share of worrying about performance I believe
 yagottawantit

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 71
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I REALLY WANNA KNOW THIS
Posted: 5/28/2005 10:07:06 PM
Hey girl. My opinion is that it is more of a issue with a persons (in)security in the relationship. I have been on both sides of that question but I've always been a man. So I dont think it is a gender issue. Have fun!!!
 JUSTINBOY88

Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 72
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Posted: 5/29/2005 3:24:12 AM
i tend to agree t,d. although the older i get the less i worry because i can read women alot better than when i was younger.women do tend to worry about am i doing this right when it comes to oral mostly because guys just sit there and enjoy and don't say much.making some noise usually solves this problem and really gets her into it.
 burkeclass

Joined: 12/30/2004
Msg: 73
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Posted: 5/29/2005 7:31:16 AM
i never have worried about how good or bad i was
if she liked it she says so
if she didn`t what the hey
 regularcw

Joined: 4/17/2005
Msg: 74
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Posted: 5/29/2005 7:36:10 AM
Guys only worry before they get it....once we're there, what's there to worry about?......hehe. I'm really not that selfish.
 Shake Me

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 75
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Posted: 5/29/2005 7:50:27 AM
--you ppl just think to much..i think?
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