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 FantasyFlavor

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 51
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/23/2006 1:48:44 AM
Not being afraid to live it!
(enjoy it,embrace it,accept it,value it,cherish it,& make the most of it)
 yabbergirl

Joined: 5/10/2006
Msg: 52
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/23/2006 2:43:50 AM
Still figuring that out myself babe. Right now, it's either everything is important or nothing is.
Take all or leave all...how could one isolate one or rank them in accordance?? ...well, i'll work on that.
 SierraLeone~me

Joined: 5/10/2006
Msg: 53
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/23/2006 2:54:41 AM
That is simple and complete in purpose. The most important thing in my life is my kids. Since, I am going through a divorce right now- my 5yr son is the MAN of my life! To be a mom to my kids, is the priority that I shall never squander as being trivial.
Sierra
 JerryInTampa

Joined: 9/28/2004
Msg: 54
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What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/23/2006 9:38:10 AM
What is best in life?
To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of the women!

(wonders how many will manage the reference)
 caseysdream

Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 55
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/23/2006 9:53:56 AM
For me it's God! Followed by family, laughter and helping others in need...
 alone2soon

Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 56
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/23/2006 9:57:20 AM
The ONLY decision you will make in this life that truly matters ....

Is whether or not to accept Jesus Christ as your savior.
 Subotai

Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 57
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/23/2006 10:01:39 AM
I think Conan said it best:

"To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of the women"

or something like that...

 Rainy2

Joined: 1/26/2006
Msg: 58
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/23/2006 10:08:52 AM
I also agree the most important thing in life is your health. Without it you are poor indeed. Next is family, without them you have nothing. Also, I agree with the person that mention that you have to love and respect yourself. If you can't do that, you will never find love and respect from someone else.

Good luck everyone.
 ValkyrieElf

Joined: 4/28/2006
Msg: 59
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/23/2006 10:24:57 AM
Two things ..... first, my daughter ..... she's the best thing that ever came into my life. Second, being a good person and always being there for my friends or those in need that don't have it so well and just need a hand to keep their head above the waves.
 daylillies

Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 60
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/23/2006 8:12:05 PM
no take things for granted....to live for the moment and to appreciate the little things in life with values.
 Melodic Euphoria

Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 61
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/25/2006 9:44:22 PM
Agreed with solitude. Pablo, too bad that you're disappointed. I assume you should know by now that the essence of the question - as with all else - is highly subjective. One person's answer lies in the mind, not in reality. Do not think you have the responsibility of God to mold your own perception of what is, into actuality itself...or your life will be full of disappointements.

I completely understand where you're coming from, though. I myself can be a highly judgemental person when it comes to musical preferences, or people on opposing sides of life that I'm in disagreements with. (Mind you, it makes a difference to actually be aware that you're in the act of judging, in order to reflect on your acts critically.) But what's the point, though, if I cannot learn to understand those who can challange my position and make me learn? Without learning, we inevitably reaches a plateau in our development and growth. (References/credit to Brasidas for teaching me this lesson.)

Tolerance, tolerance, preaches I =)

PS. Brasidas also said (And Freud confirms, and I agree completely), those who insist on their willingness to sacrifice and their selflessness, may in fact be the most egotistic ones of us all. Our defense mechanisms will not allow this to be seen in clarity, but that's not to say it isn't so. Before you rain down your torrent of judgement on, i.e introspective people who make the learning of self a personal quest in life, take a deep breath and look within yourself instead, d'accord?

For those of you wondering why I've mentioned the above:


Easy........you're really angry type, aren't you? That's not good for your health, mentally or physically, I'm a bit worried about you. Look at your statement below, you're such a loving person so ready to give rather than take.


Peace/No hard feelings ;)
 zen_sations

Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 62
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/26/2006 9:54:32 AM
What an interesting thread...I'm glad I stumbled on it today. So interesting to read the many personal yiews expressed so well.

For me the most important in life is to live it in with loving intentions and in full awareness and full facility of all our senses. To aknowledge with awe and gratitude what an awesome thing it is to be alive in the first place and have the cognitive ability to percieve and wonder about our unique place in this amazing universe. To have the rearward view when at the end of your road in this incarnation that you have lived it well and have contributed some truth and beauty to the lives of others and the well being of the planet that has hosted our mortal bodies and nurtured our immortal souls...
 Skirp

Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 63
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/26/2006 10:36:16 AM

To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of the women!


Ohh sorry wait a moment channeled Conan for a minute there


First thing I thought of when I saw this thread, bravo :)
 BossyLady

Joined: 8/20/2005
Msg: 64
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/26/2006 10:49:44 AM
The happiness and well being of my children...that is all that matters to me
 lkmichguy

Joined: 5/4/2006
Msg: 65
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/26/2006 10:59:59 AM
The most important issue in my opinion deals with creating meaningful and lasting relationships...

My relationship with God
My relationships with family and friends...

Imagine a world without each...
 MikeTheWriter

Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 66
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/26/2006 8:58:06 PM
For me the most important thing is what I feel on the inside. It's peace of mind, balance and a sense of calm. It's understanding my strengths and weaknesses and the pursuit of goals that I set for myself. Everything in life depends upon the camera angle but the first place you should look if you are seeking happiness is inside of yourself. It's a pretty special place.
 memory maker

Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 67
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/26/2006 9:07:25 PM
Health. Then adventure. You can't have the latter without the former.
 Riggity

Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 68
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/26/2006 9:44:52 PM
Ciao Baby:

To me, the most important thing in life is balance. That is, not being overly educated, but smart enough, not having a lot of money, but enough to get what I want and need. Get the idea?
 medicaldiver

Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 69
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/26/2006 10:36:41 PM
Peace of mind and a calm soul !
 Nucci

Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 70
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/26/2006 10:45:50 PM
Love,all you need is love,love,love is all you need.Love is all you need,love is all you need.
 FullMoonWisdom

Joined: 1/7/2006
Msg: 71
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/26/2006 11:26:01 PM
The Single Most Important Thing In Life......Covers Many Areas....and Is So Simple.......


BREATHE!!!!
 Joe Boxer Girl

Joined: 3/8/2006
Msg: 72
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/26/2006 11:40:41 PM
The most important thing in my life is my kids...I am raising them totally on my own so I am Mom and Dad.
After that would be my career.
 JewelsnTools

Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 73
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What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 5/28/2006 3:26:37 PM
It may be different for each person, due to his/her own values. For me, finding and fulfilling your purpose in life--that "thing" you were designed to do and be--is most important.
 Ciao_Baby

Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 74
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 7/5/2006 9:28:02 PM
The second most important thing that I value in life would have to be my family (being that "health" is #1 on my list). What about everyone else?
 Ratero-park-man

Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 75
What is Most Important in Life???
Posted: 7/6/2006 8:06:05 AM
God/Faith
Family
Love/peace/joy/
Good health
Assurance
good friends

alot more too.
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