| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/8/2006 8:11:34 AM | It's a trick question. We are all average to someone...that'll never change. We are hot to someone, and ugly as sin to someone else. And all that "hot women know they are hot" stuff is crap. If someone thinks they are hot, you are an idiot for pursuing them and putting your self worth into someone that one dimensional. Some people really think they are above average, and those people have too much ego to actually be dating material. So who cares who they won't talk to?
Fox: I have been really craving a good Vermont sharp cheddar, like Cabot. You got any? Ahahaha | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/8/2006 8:22:44 AM | The thought inducing threads disappear and 11 pages of whimpering is allowed to remain. If threads were labeled "hottie" "average" or "butt ugly" this thread would be in the butt ugly category.
OT: I agree with those ^^^^ gals. We are all average compared to someone.
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/8/2006 9:03:58 AM |
Someone should start providing cheese to go with all this whine.
Havarti if you don't mind. And I will get a date after the hair transplant, plastic surgery...when I win the lottery added there to pay for those things...then I would be HOT!!! 
So for now I will settle for being maybe average looking to pretty ugly....now where is the cheese Fox? | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/8/2006 9:16:30 AM | The term "just give them a chance!" is suicide to the soul.
Why in the bloody freaking hell would anyone want to "give a chance" to someone that they find physically unappealing, don't like, have nothing in common with, or anything else like that? And yeah, the people that think they deserve "a chance" are essentially asking someone to waste precious moments of their lives to give a little bit of pity to someone with a low self esteem and sense of self worth.
You know those hot girls you're speaking of? Someone else thinks those girls are ass-ugly. Someone else thinks those girls are average in every sense. And yeah, I can assure you that someone out there thinks that the women you find to be average and ugly are absolutely stunning. And yes, I bet that somewhere someway somehow someone thinks you are incredible looking.
Self pity is one of the most, if not THE most, unappealing traits that anyone can have and it can make a beautiful person pitiful and ugly very quickly. Nobody deserves to be forced to lower their standards or "give someone a chance", and nobody deserves to be with someone that doesn't adore them 100% mind, body and soul.
The moral of the story? Get over yourself. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/8/2006 9:32:42 AM | Like I say women can have higher standards than men...so why settle for less I say to them.
As long as a guy can accept the fact he is nothing to look at for example, then it is all good. But too many guys feel they are good enough and sorry but alot of us just do not make the cut.
Accepting the truth is what oit comes down to and dealing with it. Life goes on.
I agree with the post above. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/8/2006 9:45:50 AM |
Like I say women can have higher standards than men
The only person who can force you to not have high standards is YOU. Being single is much MUCH better than settling. I've said it before... Settling isn't fair to you or the person you're settling for.
I haven't had a boyfriend of any kind in several years. People often say that "I'm too picky" but I don't think there's such a thing if you're picky about the right things. It seems as though ultra-sensitive, whiny, insecure girly-men are the ones who are drawn to me, and there's no way in hell I'm going to "give a chance" to someone like that. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/8/2006 11:43:32 AM | As I agree and believe that not everyone is meant to be happy in their personal life. Some of us will make friends all the time and others will make lovers all the time. Is just how the cards are dealt to us in life.
Just like some men will have luck in dating and others not. Can't change that.
And in a society that people get judged more and more on how they look, it gets harder for those of us who lack in looks. If you could be a great looking guy then hey that would be awesome, if you have the sub par looks then more women, more or less, will not care if under those sub par looks is a great guy, there is no attraction to being average.
But when one says this they are perceived as being a guy who has no confidence. Sad how either way you are lying. Saying I am hot looking for example is a lie but sounds confident, and saying I am average looking and confident sounds like I am not confident, all is a lie regardless. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/9/2006 6:31:08 PM | "Beauty is not a quality in people or in objects themselves. It exists in the mind that perceives those objects, and each mind perceives beauty differently. To seek real beauty, in some absolute sense, is pointless. Where one person see beauty, another may even see the opposite. For this reason, we all ought to accept our own perceptions of who or what is beautiful, and not be influenced by the perceptions of others."
David Hume "Of the Standard of Taste"
I read this in something my son brought home on his PSAT score sheet. Everyone sees something different when we look at people that we find attractive.
Yahh Roo I think you're hot, and I'd date you in a heart beat! I've read some of your posts though and it sounds like you have just as much trouble as the rest of us in finding a date. I can understand it on my end... but you... I'm sorry I find that really hard to believe. And I don't mean for that to sound offensive in anyway. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/9/2006 6:43:44 PM | I've seen "hot" women with unattractive men, and "hot" guys with unattractive women. Haven't we all? Sure it's not a rule that only the hot people can date/marry each other, or maybe just in the OP's world. It's just a pathetic plea for attention from an average looking guy who can't get the attention from the hot girls. Nothing more, nothing less.  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/9/2006 6:52:48 PM | I have not read this incredibly brief 11-page topic, but I would just like to point out that "hot" girls date "average" guys all the time. They even date "ugly" guys all the time. These guys are either 1) rich 2) in a band or 3) athletes.
I don't know if anyone has pointed this fact out yet, but there you have it. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/9/2006 6:53:15 PM | | Hey goldn, it is true that women place more value on a man's other attributes but which attributes are these? Well, they are a man's wealth and power. That doesn't make a woman any less shallow than a man who places undue importance on a woman's looks | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/9/2006 7:02:48 PM | "it is true that women place more value on a man's other attributes but which attributes are these? Well, they are a man's wealth and power. That doesn't make a woman any less shallow than a man who places undue importance on a woman's looks." What you say is very true, I totally agree. For either gender to base their selection of a lifetime partner on either criteria is almost sure to have an unhappy and unfulfilled relationship. People are much more than their looks, their status or bank account. For those who've had long, successful relationships, their choosing of their partner was based on something else altogether.  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/10/2006 2:42:49 AM | | Shit, women are the same as men, believe it or not. when they have the pick of the litter, why do you think they don't choose the "average" guy. It's because the others are more appealing, ***holes or not. If the situATION WAS REVERSED WOULD YOU CHOOSE THE " AVERAGE" GIRL. I think not, get used to our scumbug society. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/10/2006 8:48:40 AM | | After the fact the people will say oh we have nothing in common. No common interests or anything like that AFTER they find the person physically unappealing not before. Before they meet them. they say wow this is great we have so much in common and blah blah blah. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/10/2006 8:57:41 AM | Ok the above post hit the nail right on the head...good call...so true. Too many times have women passed me up because I was just "Not attractive enough" yet they say they enjoyed the time out with me, had a laugh, felt comfortable but because I did not cut it in what they look for in looks, I am just not good enough to shine with a personality.
Looks first THEN substance is what they want. Ya I know so do men which is bound to be the comeback.
Just because I may not have a headful of thick black hair, 6-pack abs, and baby blue eyes does not mean I am not worth the time to be with. But unless you got them great looking eyes, that up to date wardrobe, nice shoes and pretty fit with a heasful of hair, you just will find it harder no matter if the women are average or hot...is life and is what us men have no choice but to accept. And I don't buy it when the phrase "What one finds unattractive another will find attractive" because most times the majority of women today are attrcted to the same things about a man.
When people say dress nicer, buy some nice clothes, get a career, etc. I don't want a woman giving me a chance because i went and spent $1000 on clothes to be with the "in" look. The clothes do not make the man in my eyes. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/10/2006 9:05:48 AM | | you are correct about some things.......but my friends do not necessarily find my choices attractive and vice versa. So no.....we don't all have the same taste. I personally, must feel physically attracted of the get go......it's just the way I feel. Since I am looking for "a mate", I'm not really interested in finding friends.....I don't have a lot of time for the ones I have now........you need to get the chip of your shoulder, it's causing you to go in already defeating yourself. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/10/2006 9:21:33 AM | You all act like there's a god out there giving out the "hot points" to women. One man's hot is another man's "eh, who cares"?
If you say Christie Brinkley, Eva Longoria, Imam, Jennifer Lopez to diffent men, you won't find a universal answer on attractiveness.
So no matter how "hot" a woman is, her day to day experience is not bathed in "hotness". Some men will like her, and others will just plain old ignore her, not finder her attractive at all.
There is no meter out there, not even for my gorgeous step-daughter who does get a much higher "guy breaking his ankle ratio" of men turning around to grab a look at her.
BTW, I have had a couple of men who've wanted to date me (and one who married me) for my arm candy potential. I was young then and didn't know any better. I would never want to do that again. It is an insulting, demeaning way to be treated.
And it's no better than being wanted for your car or your money. I'd rather be wanted for sex. At least there's something in it for both of us that way.
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