| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/16/2006 8:07:09 AM | | KessM I will have to dissagree with you on this one.I don't know how many times I have bent over backwards to treat her in every good way that she could imagine.Every time she seemed to like the good looking "bad boy thing" then after, she filed police reports on him because he either slapped the crap out of her and, called her every name in the book she practically knocked me down while in route to another one just like him | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/16/2006 9:15:40 AM | We humans are creatures of habit as well.
How many times do we see women do that and men pursue women they know they have no chance with and still think they can land her.
Hot women alot of times I think have an ego boost that they like but then also they do not like. And when we men who think we could never get a gorgeous hot babe sees one walk by, we seem to not be able to stop looking at her. That there probably creeps them out.
But today I think more women who say dress to impress as i put it, not an insult for those who think so, they will prefer a guy who has style in what he wears.
I know I am a guy who doe snot dress all in the latest clothes and styles. But seeing a woman who does makes my head turn. But reality is she is not about to find a guy who wears jeans a shirt attractive enough to even give a chance. Not a bad thing either is just that what is in common to start with there?
As for the post below.
Many average looking women who experience dating a hot looking guy get treated way better by his friends, her friends, family you name it. Because people perceive the hot guy to be like her winning a prize. And they are showing her appreciaton for being so lucky. And so many average looking women end up wanting that attention and treatment from others again so if she ends up single she would not go average. Is just human nature I say. I do not agree with it but it is how it is. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/16/2006 10:31:10 AM | Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
If ...
all hot girls turn down all average guys.
it would mean ...
all average guys have no girls.
however ...
this is not the case, as some average guys have been seen dating hot girls.
therefore ...
some hot girls, do in fact give some 'average' (aside: whatever happened to what is one man's poison is another man's treasure ... nevermind that's a different train of thought) guys a chance
which leads me to conclude that ...
your question is based on an innaccurate observation.
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/16/2006 11:41:13 AM | Love is not a feeling, it's a behavior!
If you judge people, you have no time to love them - Mother Theresa
We make a living by what we get; but we make a life by what we give!
To find fault is easy, to do better may be difficult!
In the real world as in dreams, nothing is quiet what it seems.
I have had more trouble with myself than anyone I know
Begin each day as if it were on purpose.
The biggest disease today is not leprosy or tuberculosis, but rather the feeling of being unwanted - Mother theresa
These are things a person should be looking for in another person - the one thing that every person shares, making us all equal. Stop seeing a person as to ugly, to fat, skinny, white or black, nerd or jock, model or tomboy... take away a persons body skin suit we are all left with ahhh.. nasty picture in my head but we'd all be ugly. It is the qualities ones character of innerself makes no longer our equals but gives a valid reason for me to think twice at if a man was too shallow to see how beautiful I AM.
I know everyone has insecurities and never got any of the sweet side of the gene pool ending up with sharing too much of cousin wilbers on the daddys side but I can aways find the one thing from everyone I know or meet that I find as attractive or if I can't because this type of person is not worth the pleasure in finding out how wickedly funny but a little wackie at times..their loss. For 30 years it was how I was viewed and was known for how pretty I am, those eyes, your hair...your so pretty..blah blah yadda yadda yadda. I was my worst enemie, I was brought up not thinking I could be smart, I was treated so different than others...and boys...well the boys like me as long as I can remember the adult ones did too a little too much!!!
That being said until one year ago TODAY even, the only man I thought would never give me a second thought said what made me more attractive than the one his buddy and him had just rated her a 6/7 outta 10 haha what waz I then 2.5 no 2 2/3 but he said my personality was what found more attractive that he thought of me as an 9 - 9 1/3 that day I have never been the same I have become a better person. WOW sorry there... I get a little deep with things but that's what I gotta say plus there's a lotta snotty little b#*>'es out there | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/16/2006 12:00:01 PM |
I've dated plenty of average looking guys. But what of course like other people have mentioned is "hot" or "average"? Everyone rates/judges themselves and others differently. And personally for me, I dunno I like average guys but they don't ask me out!!! wtf is up with that? meh *sigh* Also don't even try to tell me to ask them out-I'd be too shy to do that. =p
This doesn't appears to be a discussion about average looking women not wishing to date average looking men. So what point are you trying to make exactly? Humility is a wonderful virtue to learn my dear, you should perhaps take more lessons in it.
As to the subject at hand, as evidenced by quote above, appearance is in fact, a very subjective thing, and often people presume that they are far more attractive than they are in actuality. It is one thing to think highly of oneself, and that is probably very healthy, but I fear most (like the poster I quoted) take it perhaps a step too far. Perhaps in the end, it is not that hot women don't date average looking guy, perhaps all it is, is one man's hot is another man's average, and one womans, average, is another womans hot. Nuff said.
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/16/2006 12:07:54 PM | Sorry Goldn, Its society thats the way things are. Its the same as A man can sleep with 100 women and hes thought to be cool. But if a woman does it shes a slut or a Hore. Which shows our society is still way behind in some areas. Woman and Men are looking for that arm trophy lets face it. Not all are shallow some people just want looks not what is inside there loss.Most people change after a while and look for the good inside and worrie about the out side later. Sometimes that takes a while though.  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/16/2006 12:07:55 PM | Hot will always want hot, average will always want hot becasue it is seeing what the other has and thinking "I want that"
Problem with many of us average looking guys is we figure we just can't match up to what the hot women want. I am guilty of that big time, is why I never approach hot women. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/16/2006 12:16:04 PM |
Hot will always want hot, average will always want hot becasue it is seeing what the other has and thinking "I want that"
Problem with many of us average looking guys is we figure we just can't match up to what the hot women want. I am guilty of that big time, is why I never approach hot women.
See Champ, your problem lies more in "Self Limiting" behaviors, and a penchant for making assumptions, rather than what others might or might not want. For all you know, that woman that you think is so "Hawt", might only consider herself to be "average", and might consider someone one such as yourself "Hawt". But of course you will never find this out for yourself. So in the end, the only person you are hurting is yourself, and so long as you limit your pool of potential with behavior such as this, you can hardly complain about what you end up with. Leastwise, and have your complaints justifiable. Good luck with that though, apparently it's working really well for you. 
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/16/2006 3:01:47 PM | | I'm sorry flex but I am going to have to argue with you on that one. I have always put 210% in my relationships, and that even includes if I am just dating them. I always treat whomever I am with like my Emperor. He should be given the same respect I'd want in return. But you know where that has lead me? To a bunch of idiots who take what I've done for granted. It's not only till like later do they realize that they just gave up on some really great gyrl and then they want to get back with me. How f*cked up is that? So personally, I think it could go both ways. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/16/2006 6:45:07 PM | "Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?"
What planet are you from? I see 'hot' girls go out with complete toads all the time.
So it's not necessarily how the toad looks to the world, but how the toad sees himself in that world..
Seriously, chicks can sense if a guy thinks he's a toad, and unsure, uncomfortable in his own skin. You gotta be confident and feel good about yourself. So what if you stutter, so what if you're short, bald and fat. Turn that pessimism around and use it to your advantage. Make light of it, joke about it, don't insult yourself. Or just go about your day as if nothing is wrong and you're the hottest shit around.
Just remember, it all starts with you. And, as cheesy as it sounds - if you don't love yourself, no one will (ok maybe your God, but that's it).` | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/17/2006 7:00:16 AM | | Well after you are in your 60's, I think the love part will be more important then the hot part. But then again if you keep looking for that hot guy or hot gal, then you may find yourself kicking your own butt when your that age. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/17/2006 7:34:35 AM | Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
The main reason being...you believe she is "hot"...putting her outside of your reach (increasing her value)...AND...you believe yourself to be average (decreasing your own)
That mentality will keep you yearning for the girls you think are hot, and keep you down in mediocrity.
Girls are girls, pretty or plain. We all have the same needs from our partners...make us laugh, pay us attention, make us important in your life, love us like no other, treat us with respect, tolerate our hormonal mood swings, protect us, be faithful, need us, want us, be patient, share our dreams, and be there physically, mentally and emotionally...and even the most average looking male will be given a chance, he will have to beat the women away because he will be what most girls are looking for.
When you find the girl of your dreams...YES, put her on a pedestal...but don't devalue yourself...you deserve this woman because of who you are...not who you believe her to be. Models, the stunning women of the runways, have often mentioned the dateless proms because no one was willing to take a risk on asking her out.
Take a chance, believe in yourself, all she can say is no.
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/17/2006 9:00:28 AM | ok let me ask u all this question >>>do you give everyone the benifit of doubt???? a chance? an why not? i have tried my best to puttin myself out there knowin i will get rejected but at least i am trying....hot ones an average ones...who ever. an by doin so...most wont give me the chance ,...their loss as far as i am concerned.
and tsunny to answer ur question...no he doesnt...i am on his fav...an i dont exsist apparently. sorry but its the truth | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/17/2006 10:44:36 AM |
CHAMP....I must say......if you are so "bad".....why do you have at least 10 people that have YOU on there favorites list......what.....are YOU not giving them a chance?...is that not hypocritical ???
I have to laugh at this comment for sure. Not all the people on my list are women. There are 3 guys I chat to off of here, one being a buddy of mine who just joined a couple of weeks ago. A woman who lives just outside Toronto and is just looking to chat, all the other 6 women do not live anywhere close by. I chat to them off and on, have a good laugh at times with the ones I do chat to. No harm in that is there?
and tsunny to answer ur question...no he doesnt...i am on his fav...an i dont exsist apparently. sorry but its the truth
Kookies is on my favs as I used to talk to her on here a long time ago when I was on here which I believe was about a year ago or more. Nice to run into a familiar face from the past. Not sure how she does not exist, when I do chat to her. She lives quite a ways away from me. So of course I am not pursuing women who live that far away. I chat to people from all places.
Some people will pursue others in another city, town, country. Wherever. I am not looking to relocate or have someone else relocate. I prefer women who live nearby. Never knew that was considered wrong. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/17/2006 5:40:34 PM | | champ...have i ever given you the impression i wanted more then a friendship from you? no i havent nor have i mislead you.....so what does it have to do with me living far away...to make friends.... i wasnt askin for anything else....nor would i. i have many friends who live far away...an yet we talk on a regular bases...and i havent met some. sorry if you got the wrong impression. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/18/2006 6:10:39 PM | HA HA HA whatever....that should read the most attractive part of a man is his wallet, after all why talk to him when you can spend his money. Just imagine how jealous your girl friends will be when they see you chillin' in his convertable Jag!  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/18/2006 7:51:09 PM | I think all guys try to go for a beautiful girl and never give the girls who may lack in the physical department but make up inside a chance. They don't its ridiculous. Hot girls have many opportunities to choose a man cause they never have an ending supply of shallow men that want to hook up with them cause of physical reasons.
I am a **** to some guys cause I can be I see most of you as shallow and will put up with my shit.
My solution quit going for hot girls and go for a girl who makes up beauty in the inside cause chances trying to tell a hot girl that you are unique is not going to work when they have the whole majority of the male species doing the same thing. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/18/2006 7:55:54 PM |
HA HA HA whatever....that should read the most attractive part of a man is his wallet, after all why talk to him when you can spend his money. Just imagine how jealous your girl friends will be when they see you chillin' in his convertable Jag!
Since the evolution of man from the stone age era it always has been the sole role of the man to be the hunter and privider. for us women, its our natural instinct to go for the strong provider. In Todays society its obviously that a man with Economic status and heavy wallet is the alpha male. | |
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