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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/30/2006 1:47:17 PM | Hey folks, easy on 'DancingQueen' post 421, that kid is dead accurate in a way. Maybe it's by accident and a little simple, but who cares, it's a very valid point.
You really do have to make a splash in one way or another.
Oldschoolqueen is making too damn much sense too, LOL!
A guy's overall 'look' isn't his only ammo when it comes to catching the interest of a more...let's say...'classically visually appealing' woman. It's his entire mien and his ability to keep her interest once she opens the door a crack.
For me, my 'splash' used to be my work. It was easy. When asked what I was doing in a particular place I could always say something like "I'm on a break from work. We just finished setting up for the Peter Gabriel concert down the street, wanna swing by later?"
Cake.
These days it's tougher. Can't use the work thing any more. Climbing into filthy manholes and splicing thousands of teeny wires isn't very sexy, LOL!
Still looking for a replacement 'splash'.  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/30/2006 5:54:27 PM | You men are so wrong! There is beauty within' a pretty girl. Sounds like you men just want to be haters. Poor boy didn't get the girl so now we'll just go off and bash them all. We don't even know this guy, maybe he's ugly on the inside. I'm taking the math class guy!!!!!!!  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/30/2006 10:11:21 PM |
It is sad but true that these days 80% of the women want 20% of the guys and I think that dynamic wasn;t the norm 40 oor 50 years ago (sort of a Hollywood/TV/Magizine factor skewing expectaions and what traits women value now as opposed to in the past)
Actually, its approximately 80% of the women looking for approximately 7% of the guys. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 12/31/2006 6:14:10 AM | | In the past i have expeirenced the hot girl sitting alone , because most average guys like myself are to intimidated to get up and ask. Although i am a firm believer that beauty is skin deep. I've been out with both types and had way more fun with the not so swimsuit model. Confidence! guys is the ticket, aside with being yourself. A woman , regardless of looks can spot insecurity a mile away!!! Not saying be****, or a jerk. These women beleive that all men want them just for one night. Yes it's this strain of guys that give us "good" ones a bad rap!!! So knock it off..... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 1/3/2007 11:42:08 AM | Displaying the intelligence of the average Mollusk won't get you to far either. Celebrating the moral turpitude of the average Hollywood Agent doesn't bode well for your future either. Having an average life, where you don't pin your future on one particular set of ridiculously inconsequential, albeit superficial assets and/or ideals, is going to hurt you alot less than an average set of tata's and the opinions of an average Californian Bimbo who has yet to experience enough life to come off sounding as anything other than vapid. But hell, what do I know? By all means apparently being judgemental, high handed, and superficial is all it takes to get ahead these days right? Its what's on the outside that matters right?
Blah. Blah. Blah.
When you can't make a valid counterpoint about someone's opinion, the last resort is to attack the person making that opinion. That's all you did, you didn't address one point I made, you just launched into an attack on a stranger on the internet. Weak. It's a high school mentality that will get you nowhere.
Here's the truth. Someone wanted to know why girls like me walk past guys like you. It's not that hard of a concept. It's really simple. Being an average guy will often get you nowhere. Not being able to separate yourself from the pack will get you nowhere. And how is this different from applying for a job? And truth be told, when it comes to the original question, my opinion along with a few other women in this thread are the ones that matter. You can be pissed off all you want about the rules of the game, but that doesn't make the rules change one bit.
Too many people want to make the concept of dating complicated. It's not complicated. Handsome men stand out from the crowd. Filthy rich men stand out from the crowd. If you've got neither of those things, you need something else. Great public speakers stand out from the crowd. Talented artists stand out from the crowd. Funny people stand out from the crowd.
You don't want girls like me blaming you for not looking like Taye Diggs.
Then don't blame all of us because you don't have anything exceptional to offer in your life. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 1/3/2007 12:11:27 PM | Actually, they will. You're just going to have to try doing things that attract them.
First, don't call them "hot." Most women prefer to be called "beautiful," or at least "cute," or "attractive."
Second, start using your best weapon---sense of humor. If you come across to her as a "nice guy wimp," trust me, she won't give you the time of day, because she sees this like 200 times a day. How would YOU take it---"average looking joe, so nice, friendly...hey, I've found another friend, just great, just like the guy 10 minutes ago that came up to me." If you come across as confident and funny, this will win you points, at least. It's something she doesn't see every day, some guy that didn't need to line up six beers and down them in quick order to get up enough guts to approach her---then be funny on top of it.
Also, you'll need to come across as unintimidated by her. This is most guys biggest stumbling block with really attractive women. Talk to her as if she were your equal, or if you think you can do it without being a total jerk, a little haughtiness will work even better. If she smells intimidation, trust me, you're toast. Remember, she gets approached by guys like this dozens of times a day, and even more than that on weekends.
I've dated really attractive women before ("hotties," if you will), and without these things that made me stand out, even a handsome guy like me wouldn't stand a chance. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 1/3/2007 12:37:16 PM | | You are probably too much of a Wussy Boy. Remember men approach attractive women constantly. They are able to size up a guy in an instant. An attractive lady want a man that can challenge her and that trait has nothing to do with your looks or weather you are a nice guy or not. You would do much better buy just treating her just like another lady and never compliment her on her looks because she as heard it all before. But more importantly how do you feel about yourself. Do you believe you are worthy to be with a very attractive woman? | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 1/3/2007 12:46:07 PM | | Maybe a possible answer to the thread question is that average guys are spending way too much time deconstructing the question on forums and justifying the lackluster results in their lives instead of putting that energy in making themselves better than average. Ouch. Someone hit me. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 1/3/2007 2:13:59 PM | Being an average guy myself, I tend to date average looking women but don't find it all that hard to date a 'hottie' either..Truth is they're both just women..I actually prefer an average girl who is happy with her outward appearance, rather than a woman who is always making us late because she can't stop fussing over her hair.
One rule to remember if you only want to date hot chix. Only ask hot chix out! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 1/3/2007 2:44:56 PM | You know, I've always heard that men (I'm not the one who made it up, so don't jump down my throat please :) ), no matter what they look like, always believe they deserve a supermodel. Sure, they'll "settle", but it's amazing to me how some people won't change their expectations to reflect themselves.
Before anyone jumps on that, I'm not saying that people should stay in their own "groups" or some such nonsense.Go for it, if that's what you want. But it's stupid to complain about other people's superficiality when your reasons for wanting to date them are so superficial in the first place.
As an example, why in the world would someone like me message someone who looks like an underwear model knowing that he most likely wouldn't give me the time of day? Knowing that many of the women who message him have more to offer him than I could? Why would I put myself through messaging "hot" guys day after day..knowing I'll most likely get rejected?
Not that I see nabbing a "hot" person as a good thing unless they're smart and funny too..... or if he has his own calendar. :) | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 1/3/2007 5:35:58 PM | Like attracts like and thats all there is too it.
We all want something beautiful to look at 24/7 but if this person you see is not interested in you, they're just not interested. Stop taking it personally and just deal with the fact you've not yet met your soul-mate, perfect match whatever...
Love at first sight is usually a good sign of a relationship that works when both of you have the same feelings.
It will happen when its supposed to happen. You see a girl or guy you like so you give it a go - chat to them see if they're interested... if not, then it just isnt meant to be...
A girl will always show interest in a guy that she likes - to look at or thinks is a nice person to get to know better.
Lets face it, we're all human and we're all trying to get that holy grail, if people are too ignorant to get too know you, then they arent worth getting to know anyway...
yeh some people are pretentious, but thats life. Find a girl/guy that is both attractive to you aswell as a nice person, then you cant go wrong.
Choosing an ugly wife to be happy for life ... hmm think about it, you have to live with that girl for the rest of your life... will you truly be happy...and will she be if thats what you really thought of her, an ugly wife ??? | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 1/3/2007 10:56:29 PM | I haven't read all the replies to this thread but have read quite a few.
I don't like to class a guy in a category. I might consider someone "hot" that someone else might consider "average". Maybe he has a smile that knocks my socks off and when I look at him he makes me melt. If that's how I feel about a guy, no matter what anyone else might think of him.... to me, he's hot.
Looks also don't define a person. You can't look at a beautiful person, male or female, and determine that they are uneducated, lack personality, are judgmental, or think they are "all that". There is far more to a person than their looks.
The guy (or girl if the tables are turned) who takes the time to find out what more there is to her, will likely be the one she goes out with. Then goes out with again.. and again... and again.
I don't consider myself "hot" even though some people have said that to me. I am me and there is more to me than what I look like.
I have been contacted by alot of guys. Sadly, many of them start out with things like "Hey baby....what are you wearing?" or "Dayum, I could handle getting my hands on you." or even worse things that I can't repeat in here. Yeah well, sorry hon.... NEXT! Want to know which guys I continue talking to? The ones who ask me about who I am and are not focused on what I look like. It's those guys who find out that I have a sense of humour, that just as equally I can be a pain in the dairy-aire, that I am an artist, that I can't sing to save my life, that I save all the marshmallows for last in my bowl of Lucky Charms because they taste better by themselves. It's those guys who capture my attention. It's those guys who will make me want to meet them. | |
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| Oh look, yet another good looking-average people thread. YIPPPEEE! This hasn't been done to death!!
Posted: 1/4/2007 2:58:42 PM | This is simple.
Whether the object of your affection happens to look like Venus or Uranus - if you find them worth getting to know JUST ask them out. Stop thinking so much. You know what happened to think right? Thought he had to fart and shit in his pants.
Remember that.
Now enough of this crap. These 'Good Looking People' threads are nothing but big 'ol pity parties, compliment fishing expeditions, bullshit throwing, good looking people bashing, looking for an ego jump starts... IE: YOUR GOOD LOOKING WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT??...
Pukefests.
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Now, something amusing as this is dullsville:
Stephanie: I'm sick of guys who ain't got their shit together!
Tony Manero: Well, all ya need is a salad bowl, and a potato masher,
[he mimics stirring in a bowl]
Tony Manero: and you got your shit together!
Now, I gave you sound advice AND ^^step by step instructions on how to get your shit together.
I can be of no further help here. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 1/6/2007 12:12:25 PM | Maxx ^^ is not your average dog and his owner is one nice man.
O/T Define hot, on fire women, running with their hair on fire...ouch!!! I will give anyone a chance, but you have to treat me with the same respect & courtesy that I show you.  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 1/8/2007 4:21:52 PM | O dear, o dear, has this topic not been done to death a million times? Should we not just put a sticky post at the top of the forums entitled "if you want to know why joe average has issues meeting 'hot girls' use the bloody search facility?"
Well to answer the question. The simple truth is that they do. Slightly longer version is that if you as 'an average guy' want to meet 'a hot girl' well there are things that you can do to improve ones chances. Seek and yea shall find. Frankly I find the whole thing rather distasteful and tiresome.
Another thing, looks really are but skin deep, good looks are not at the end of the day the thing that makes your heart sing. (ooo that rhymed) They are not the thing that gives you butterflies, makes sex truly exceptional, make you laugh, makes you fall in love and all of that other important stuff, well sorry to disappoint but it has sweet feck all to do with a persons looks.
So I must ask, dearest OP, what are your intentions?
P.S. Could someone (over the age of 29) do me a small favour and PM 'sassyaquarius' for me, just to let her know that I had a devastatingly funny PM to send her but apparently I am to young to message her, that and she mis-spelt 'apparently' on her profile *ducks*
(I will sacrifice a large haggis in your honour if you would do so) | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 1/8/2007 6:27:10 PM | I disagree. There are alot of great looking women out there that will date an average or however one thinks about themselves.
I'm proud of who I am. Whether a girl likes me or not. Hey that is fine. I ain't going go off and cry in some corner or whine about it.
Its called being confident in yourself. Have a little pride. Respect yourself. And good things will follow.
When a guy has self confidence, he stands out, simply because he's happy with who he is. If any woman notices that, she has a good eye. But whether a guy wants to get her attention, thats all up to him to make a good first impression. | |
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