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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 11:11:05 AM | kye
EVERY guy thinks he is a good guy.
Also, this is a website, there are a ton of guys here, why go for the "average" good guy if you can have a "beautiful" good guy? After all, every man on here claims to be "the good guy" not all of them have any way to prove it. Just because you think you are "the good guy" doesnt mean everyone else will think so as well. | |
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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 11:29:33 AM | Well maybe you are right
The point is if you never give a guy a chance to show
then how will you know. I think women have had a buffet
so long they forget to appreciate how good a home cooked
meal is and personally I'm tired of being ignored by the
women who claim to want a good man.
I KNOW I'm a good man I prove it every day, i take care of
my kids, I fought for this country and no one is gonna tell me
I'm not just because they are so stuck up on themselves that
they can't see the forest for the trees. | |
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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 11:31:47 AM | And to answer your question
"Why go for the average good guy when you can have the beautiful one.."
let me just say this..
If you have to ask that question then you probably are not the type a
good guy wants anyway. This is not a game, this is people's emotions
maybe if you spent some time being empathetic you would see through
someone else's pain. | |
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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 11:33:48 AM | well im hot because all my friends tell me so...so there pppfffffftttttt..
of course i tell them they are hot too
its a club we have and it works well for us
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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 11:42:56 AM | ^^^Kyelidan...she's only 21, and obviously hasn't gotten past that middle school mindset where it's acceptable to tell someone they're ugly or unattractive. And she obviously has no empathy for others. There are some other early 20 somethings on here who are exactly like her. So she's not unique. There are other 20 somethings on here that I'm shocked to see they're early 20s instead of 30s and above when I look at their profile.
She's obviously been insulted enough herself since she doesn't think she's pretty. I looked at her profile and thought she was a very cute girl. | |
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| thanx arugula
Posted: 3/6/2007 11:49:44 AM | Ok I'm glad you explained it to me cause i was starting to worry if I was the insane one..
Yeh I looked at her profile, she is cute and all but personally I prefer a woman with
some meat on her bones, I weigh 220 and love it, and a little 98 pound woman scares me
I always worry I will crush her :)
Anyway sorry if i came off as abrupt, it just amazes me out of all the crap to worry about
in the world, people are still concerned whether someone is HOT or not
good grief, give me a woman who will stand in my corner and back me when im down
and ill show u the happiest female on the planet
kye | |
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| thanx arugula
Posted: 3/6/2007 12:36:38 PM |
well im hot because all my friends tell me so...so there pppfffffftttttt..
of course i tell them they are hot too
its a club we have and it works well for us
ok...to me you are hot.
I had enough girlfriends, cousins, parents who were honest about how I look.
If you consider "average" you can measure time, length, size, heartbeat...anything that can be measured you can total up and come up with an average...you just can not with looks...so your friends lied to you. | |
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| thanx arugula
Posted: 3/6/2007 12:44:55 PM | my friends lied??? 
but if i believe it...is it really a lie?
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| thanx arugula
Posted: 3/6/2007 1:26:44 PM | ^ actually I know a bit of this subject. Your subconscious mind is a sponge for all information...it does not differentiate truth from false...or hold accountable...whatever you impress upon it it accepts...it is complex, yet a very simple thing. It is simple...you just understand it is... affirm whatever you wish to take place in your life or what you feel to be true... you can listen to it, accept it and it is truth to you...further down the line with practice and work you will begin to attract everything in your life you want...read Napoleon Hill
also google "the Carnegie Secret "
confusing tho browneyesboo...I was not quoting you....booboo | |
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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 1:35:16 PM | well the thing is, that if girls gave EVERY guy a chance (and vice versa, guys gave every girl a chance) theyd be talking to like 100 people per day. I mean you have to narrow it down SOMEHOW.
Women do want a good man, but they also want a man they are physically attracted to. That is why so many people get divorced, they "settle" for people they are not attracted to and then end up cheating because they dont satisfy them. is that really what you want to happen to you? I wouldnt want someone to settle for me and be secretly yearning over someone who looks completely different from me.
Also, the kids thing makes you look like a BAD man, no offense, but a good man knows how to keep a wife. Having an illegitimate child doesnt make you a good person. If youre such a good person, why arent you with the baby's mom???
Also, not everyone thinks war is a good thing. I for one would not get involved with someone who is in or was in the army/navy because it goes against my ideals.
I can see now that its more than just looks that is the reason why they arent giving you a chance. | |
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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 1:38:09 PM | | i am empathetic, but i also have been hurt and i have to look out for MYSELF as well. A person would have to be INSANE to be hurt because someone they dont even KNOW rejected them. I can understand what its like when you are close to someone and THEN they reject you, but some stranger on the net??? OH COME ON. Do you really want someone to be with you out of pity? Theyre not only tortuing themselves, but you as well! i dont want anyone to be with me because they feel BAD for me, thats not what a relationship should be based on! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/6/2007 1:49:00 PM | If you consider "average" you can measure time, length, size, heartbeat...anything that can be measured you can total up and come up with an average...you just can not with looks...
True, it's not something that can be measured in that sense. But that's not what average looks means. It means if you put yourself in a group of guys, there is nothing to distinguish you from the others. It's possible to put together a list of physical characteristics that appeal to women. The 'hot' ones will be those who have more of them, the 'ugly' ones have the fewest, the 'average' ones - in between. Tally them up and you know where you stand. If everyone had roughly the same number of appealing characteristics, well...they're average. I think people do know if they're average or not. | |
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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 1:54:44 PM | hey lolnothnx...
You cannot be serious!!! You really think most people get divorced because of physical attraction being gone??/ maybe the problems with the marraige caused the attraction to go away...
You think a man that takes care of his kids is a BAD man??? what planet are you from???
And as far as the military, if it was not for those men (my dad, both grandfathers, brother and ex-husband are all included) and women, you would not have the freedom and choices that you have in this country.
Grow up... and go back to my-space!!! | |
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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 1:57:28 PM | Ok first of all let me get one thing straight
1.) MY KIDS ARE NOT ILLEGITAMATE
Their mom is DEAD
So before you jump to snap conclusions, get your facts right!
THAT is why I am not with the babys mom
2.) Look up the meaning of your words before you just spout nonsense...
Your comment "...because it goes against my ideals." is not only not proper
grammer, its incorrect use of the word IDEALS... here let me help you
Ideal= the highest standard of behavior, perfection, beauty, etc.
Idea= thought, image, notion or concept formed by the mind
so obviously something can not go against YOUR IDEALS it would be
against your IDEAS because dating someone in the army/navy is not
one of your standards it is a concept or notion formed in your mind.
3.) And as far as your comment "I can see now that its more than just looks that is the reason why they arent giving you a chance."
I am NOT the one on here complaining about how ugly I am or am not.
I can not believe I am arguing with a 20 something year old but don't you EVER
jump someone's kids or family life without knowing what the hell you are talking about.
Kaedyn | |
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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 2:09:45 PM | since when does the death of a spouse or a divorce make the kids illegitmate?
ack!
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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 2:40:50 PM | Ok you two! enough...
Kyelidan......you have made some very good points...You might want to change your profile to reflect that you are a widower... unless you were divorced before... but anyway...good points none the less...
All I have to say about any and all of this is... beauty is in the eye of the beholder... If you think someone is beautiful or as the saying goes..."hot"... then that person is... regardless what anyone else or the media might have to say about it. I personally find that unless you are very shallow, with age, a person tends to look beyond the exterior to the beauty within.
JMO... | |
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Rhett1
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Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 584 | |
| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 3:37:12 PM | lolnothnx: Just how much crack DID you smoke today? You just keep looking even worse, the more you write...let's look at the crap you wrote:
-any woman who replies to a "hot" thread deserves your scorn and insults
-divorce is caused by people settling for people they aren't attracted to (you should tell the world about your studies)
-a single dad deserves your scorn and insults, as well (you realize of course that you have insulted every single parent on here, right? Which, by the way, is probably about half of the members)
-if you are a divorced male, you are automatically bad and didn't know how to "keep a wife"
I wouldnt want someone to settle for me and be secretly yearning over someone who looks completely different from me. Gee, maybe the guy will fall in love with you, but then discover you have a shitty personality, that could be why he leaves, in the end.
All you single fathers out there, if you are divorced and couldn't
keep a wife you are not a
good person according to this idiot, she is an expert after all. At 21, didn't we all know everything?
Referring to people's children as
illegitimate certainly won't gain you any fans. Oh, and asking why a single dad is not
with the baby's mom is ridiculous...people pass away, how do you know you're not asking this of someone whose spouse is dead? Classy.
Also, not everyone thinks war is a good thing. I for one would not get involved with someone who is in or was in the army/navy because it goes against my ideals. ...and soldiers everywhere breathe a sigh of relief.
Kyelidan: I just read your last post, after I put this ^^^^up...I am so sorry about your wife. Apparently, this person thinks she is perfect and I have to say, one of the most judgemental people I have run across in the forums. At least some people have the intelligence to be able to back up what they say. | |
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| Its cool
Posted: 3/6/2007 4:00:11 PM | I apologize if I offended anyone with my previous posts
It just irks me the way people are treated now
it reminds me of a line in "A Few Good Men" the movie
with Jack Nicholson
He says, "We use words like honor, code,
loyalty...we use these words as the
backbone to a life spent defending
something. You use 'em as a punchline.
(beat)
I have neither the time nor the
inclination to explain myself to a man who
rises and sleeps under the blanket of the
very freedom I provide, then questions the
manner in which I provide it. I'd prefer
you just said thank you and went on your
way. Otherwise, I suggest you pick up a
weapon and stand a post. Either way, I
don't give a damn what you think you're
entitled to.
Isn't it amazing how us "worthless soldiers and our useless ideals"
are the ones who have fought and bled so that we can come home
and be insulted and told that we have illegitimate children and
can't keep a wife?
wow makes you feel REAL appreciated eh?
Oh well thanx again guys and I apologize for my rudeness..
Even to you lolnothnx
Kaedyn
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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 4:55:34 PM | If you are going to insult someone on their grammAr, at least have the decency to spell GRAMMAR correctly.
no it doesnt go agaisnt my "ideas." Are you dumb? It goes against my ideologies, and people use the word "ideals" to describe that... It's not about standards, its about what i consider general decency.
"I am NOT the one on here complaining about how ugly I am or am not. "
actually, you are. You did start the thread because women cant look past your looks and accept you for the "nice guy" you CLAIM to be. I think I'm a nice girl too, I'm sure several in the forum will disagree with me. See my point? No? Maybe your kid can help you out... | |
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| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 4:59:04 PM | " Which, by the way, is probably about half of the members"
okay, and the south is made up of low class rednecks. If i lived in the south, the fact that I'm not a redneck wouldnt make me an idiot simply because the majority of the population is idiotic or lame...
"...and soldiers everywhere breathe a sigh of relief."
oh really? then why are they constantly bugging me? This is the typical message i get a lot
"YO WASSUP MY NAME BE JUAN! IM IN IRAQ! IM LOOKIN FO ****ES TO CYBER WITH ON WEBCAM! HIT ME UP IF YOU BE INTERESTED HO!!"
yeah messages like that really help me respect "brave troops" | |
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| You know what?
Posted: 3/6/2007 5:09:42 PM | Whether they message you and act stupid or not the fact is
THEY ARE OVER THERE BUSTING THEIR ASS
Show some class since you can't show any respect!
I don't give a damn what the hell they say as long as they are
busting their ass fighting for me I'm gonna respect what the hell
they are doing...
It must be nice to be 21 and so self righteous...
and the fact that "everyone uses the word ideals" to express
ideas does not make it right!
kaedyn | |
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| You know what?
Posted: 3/6/2007 5:43:48 PM | so its okay if a guy is sick, perverted, disgusting, a disgrace to society, a beater, a rapist, so long as hes out there killiing innocent civilians (oh im sorry, fighting for our country), we can dismiss the fact that they are horrible. Well damn then, lets get all the prisoners out of jail and have them fight in the war, and then we can all forget about all the people they stole from and all the families they destroyed and WORSHIP them for being in the army!
So if your wife's murderor is fighting in the army, he deserves respect? lol give me a break
OMG. Did you even go to college? Ask someone with a brain, you do not use the word "ideas" in the sentence that i was trying to express. Stop taking the dictionary literally, and learn to think. I guess getting married at 15 wasnt such a good idea after all! Maybe you should have gone to college instead. | |
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| You know what?
Posted: 3/6/2007 5:56:37 PM | Actually I went to college
I graduated from Embry Riddle Aeronautical University
with a Masters in Aerospace Engineering
so think before you talk
i did not get married till 24 and my first child was at 28
thanks alot
you have a great day | |
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Rhett1
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Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 592 | |
| Well bud i agree with ya
Posted: 3/6/2007 10:01:34 PM | lolnothnx: You are so classless, it's actually sad. You've insulted almost everyone on here in broad, generalizing sweeps. Let's see, you've insulted: Southerners, single dads (and all single parents), soldiers (who made your homeland FREE), divorced people and women with self-esteem.
Is there a group of people you DON'T hate? I'm just waiting for you to bring out the insults against the OP because he is African American. I'm sure that's coming up.
The hilarious part about your stupidity is that, in about 10 years time, you will, more than likely and going by statistics, be a divorced mother.
oh really? then why are they constantly bugging me? So every soldier is after you? Dear, the point of that post was, if you had read it, that after seeing your pathetic personality, they will be glad they dodged a bullet by NOT being with you. Got it now? I typed slow for ya.
PS: Before you call others stupid, you should learn how to use punctuation and capitalization. But you're so much better than everyone else, aren't you? You're a hate-filled, uneducated little girl.
Kyelidan: Don't worry about what some little punk says, she either is just trying to stir things up, or she really is as big of an idiot as she seems. I say let's ignore her for now, she can go off into a corner and suck her thumb. | |
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