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 deep_as_an_ocean

Joined: 10/15/2006
Msg: 722
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/8/2007 8:23:56 AM
Women love guys for their personality and tend to focus less on looks. I mean there are ALWAYS exceptions but why would you want a woman who focused 100% on looks in the first place. Have a unique and attractive personality and your success with women will skyrocket. Be different in a preferential way.
 mietzele2

Joined: 4/28/2007
Msg: 723
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/8/2007 8:52:16 AM
It's not only women that tend to love guys based on their personality, men also go for women based on their personality.
I know that to be true, because this average looking woman is with a really 'hot' looking man.

*C*
 RACER256

Joined: 2/16/2007
Msg: 724
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/8/2007 8:55:13 AM
mietzele2, Im sure your very beautiful to this man...Personality does play an important part...Take care
 RockMetal

Joined: 8/3/2007
Msg: 725
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Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/8/2007 10:14:18 AM
Watch Beauty and the Geek and you'll have your answer to this question. Sure, in the end they become 'buds', but they still go their separate ways.

Hot chicks get attention in our society. Face it, with the onslaught of all the so-called celebrity 'hotties' spilling into our living rooms nightly, our concept of 'hot' also comes with attitude. If a girl thinks she deserves a 'Brad Pitt' type then why would she settle for 'Elmer Fudd'?

And, i'd bet dollars to donuts that the 'hot chick' profiles get 10 times the email of the not-so-hotties of which probably 50% is ***holes sending pics of their johnson's and a snapshot of their bank account. So, their probably a bit tainted from all that 'special attention'.

Our society is very cosmetic. The idea of beauty is everywhere you look. Skinny 6 foot tall models with their boobs shoved under their chin. Freaks of nature.

So, about the question. The hotties don't give the average Joe a chance because the odds are in their favor.
 octanehammer

Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 726
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Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/8/2007 4:08:34 PM
I'm slightly above average...date me!
 Lynzzz00026

Joined: 7/25/2007
Msg: 728
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/9/2007 12:13:09 PM
It is because "good looking guys" never give "us average girls" a chance........ it is not pay back just the way things work.....it sucks I know.
 Deni30

Joined: 5/29/2007
Msg: 730
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/9/2007 6:05:18 PM
They do- all the time! I wonder if the kind of guys with this opinion are really making excuses as to why they can't seem to find the person they want? Also, hot in in the eye of the beholder to some extent ;)
 sweetyheart

Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 731
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/9/2007 8:58:02 PM
You will find that a lot of HOT women are just begging for men to ask them out. Sometimes men think that a HOT woman is already taken, and that is a big mistake.
Hot women do date average men all the time.
However things can go wrong, like in any relationship, or the guy turns out to be a loser, just like some of the HOT guys.
 octanehammer

Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 732
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Posted: 8/9/2007 9:11:07 PM
Strange. Apparently none of those hot women live in Idaho! lol I mean if I don't see a ring, then I'll go for the gusto. But for all my efforts, hot by societies standards, or by mine I go for it, but alas no luck....
 enryiffic

Joined: 11/21/2006
Msg: 733
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/10/2007 6:21:50 AM
cause most of you guys are losers and whiners like 80 percent of the people on this site.
 grizzelda

Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 734
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Posted: 8/10/2007 3:25:32 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ There is some truth!
 RACER256

Joined: 2/16/2007
Msg: 735
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/11/2007 12:15:45 PM
Maybe there is some merit to what (vinci22) said, whiners and losers...80% . damn I hope Im not within the, 80 percentile...hehehehehh...Its all good, jus having a good time, giving my 2 cents worth...Patience is a virtue...I find (hopefully) something good in everything (even if its responding to all the quack jobs on these forums) LIVE AND LET LIVE..TO EACH HIS OR HER OWN...

Hot, average, obese woman, "You have a lot better chance of meeting a guy on this site with the ratio, possibly being 20 to 1, (20 men for every woman)...Im told the ratio is even higher...Oh well, who gives a sh#t....Have a good day..
 ImaMojoMan

Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 736
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/11/2007 12:20:24 PM
Because, no matter what they say, they prefer to be used by players.
 sjm86

Joined: 10/29/2006
Msg: 737
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Posted: 8/12/2007 2:23:18 AM
i'm sure by making this comment i'll leave myself open to a lot of criticism. i've wondered the same thing before, why can't women date an average guy? i know hot girls have and still do date average guys but it seems like a rare thing these days. i never saw it in high school. it was always the "beautiful" with the other "beautiful" people and as for the average people, well nobody seemed to give a shit about them. i know this stuff way to well, i've written amazingly beautiful girls on here and i cant tell you how many times i've seen "read deleted". its not a good feeling and it really lowers your confidence. i'm not saying that hot women refuse to be with average looking guys but i understand the topic of this thread.
 violetstreak

Joined: 7/22/2007
Msg: 739
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Posted: 8/13/2007 6:04:20 AM
"hot girls" ... thats all relative and its all a matter of opinion. I have had many men reject me based on my appearance (in fact someone just last week said I wasn't "perfect enough physically for him"... and he was what I would consider average in my opinion)..... and then I have had men tell me I am attractive.

I think its already been asked.. but if a guy thinks he himself is average and happens to gain the interest of an "average" woman why is that not acceptable? Why is HE then rejecting the average woman in persuit of the "hot" woman?
 nicebluiz

Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 740
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Posted: 8/13/2007 7:29:43 AM
Holeeee, Violet!

Some guy "rejected" you because you weren't physically perfect? Oh, my, I'd have to ask what's wrong with him---maybe he's not a guy (jk)...Well, I'd have to say you've got pretty eyes, a FAN-TAS-TIQUE smile, and (judging by your pics) you can't be in such bad shape (you've got no "extra chin"). Too bad I don't live near you (like, say, in Toronto), I'd gladly hang out with you (and more!)

Perhaps guys oughta look more at the face---that's the first he'll see of her in the morning!LOL!

Best 2 U!~Nicebluiz
 2 girls short of a 3some

Joined: 7/10/2007
Msg: 741
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/14/2007 5:01:38 AM
geeeezus

all this whining from beta males - wanna be an alpha step up and take the challenge and put in the hard work it takes to be on top of any game rather than "woe is me the hot babe overlooked me again "
 iamasiam

Joined: 2/16/2007
Msg: 742
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Posted: 8/14/2007 9:09:20 AM
Why do hot girls never give a chance to a self-defecating, poor spirited, "why me" guys?

 marmeeeeget

Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 743
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/14/2007 9:16:39 AM
Christ...I didn't read all 29 pages of this and was still amazed at the barrage of ridiculous answers.


Maybe the hot girls don't go out with the "average"g uys bc all they do is complain how average they are, feel inferior, and ask stupid questions like "why won't you go out with me"

It has NOTHING to do with the girl--she can't help her genetic disposition, nor should she 'uglify' herself to get dates because guys don't ask her about because they feel threatened or intimidated by her beauty...nor she should be called a bimbo, ****, made to look like an idiot or a slut because she rejects someone..This is just ridiculous...
 beachchick

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 744
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/14/2007 9:19:29 AM
Maybe you haven't seen any hot chicks reply to this question because the hot chicks aren't interested in learning about relationships or improving themselves or discussing anything intelligently. The "real" hot chicks don't have to have brains, they can just live off their "hotness," right? But that's what you "average joes" want, so far be it from any of the rest of us to try to make you see just what it is you are after.

Maybe none of the "real" hot chicks can even READ these discussions, let alone type a coherent sentence.
 beachchick

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 745
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/14/2007 9:27:06 AM
"Self-defecating"

AHAHAHAHA!

Did you mean self-deprecating by chance?
 Merlin1155

Joined: 7/30/2007
Msg: 746
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/14/2007 12:34:08 PM
yea.. I caught the "self defecating" comment too... of course no hot chick is gonna go out with you if you poop all over yourself!! oh.. buy a dictionary
 iamasiam

Joined: 2/16/2007
Msg: 747
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Posted: 8/14/2007 2:54:12 PM
umm, I mean what I said. That is what some guys mentally seem to be when they start to bs themselves in what is possible in life.

It probably why the hot girls stay away from them, the smell you know...lol
 walker1960

Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 748
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Posted: 8/14/2007 3:14:26 PM
Back when I was going to college, I'd go back home every few weekends and typically went to a particular dance joint/bar. At the time I did NOT have a beard. There was a particular "Crystal Gayle" looking girl that I'd always ask to dance and she'd always dance once and be polite but never dance any more with me....
One weekend I went back home and this time I had a full beard....I asked her to dance and she danced, then I said thanks and she says "where do ya think you're going", I said ok and we stayed out there for several songs. I said I'll be back and went to the head, and a minute later she sent a friend in there after me telling me to hurry up!
I went back out there and she grabbed me and out dancing we went......
I said don't you recognize me? I reminded her who I was...she knew my name...this had been going on for months...
She looked shocked...but only for a moment..then said thanks, and was polite and that was the last dance for that night.
One dance each time I saw her after that..
I've kept my beard ever since then (that was about 1982 or thereabouts)...
She was always friendly, but she must have really liked the beard I guess, (and didn't really care for me without it..)

She was waayy prettier than I ever was....
But I still have the beard...complete with some gray in it now though he he...
 sjm86

Joined: 10/29/2006
Msg: 749
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Posted: 8/15/2007 4:10:00 PM
that's an interesting story man. that sucks for you that she stopped dancing with you after she found out it was you with a beard. if she had a good time with you then she shouldn't have given up on you just because she didn't recognize you with a beard. on an interesting side note, if you said she looked like crystal gayle then maybe with the beard she thought you were eddie rabbit, lol!
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