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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/8/2007 4:28:33 AM | | I have been reading through some of the answers here and i have a couple comments. First the guys here are really into themselves it seems, from the sound of their answers to this its a wonder they have any room for a woman in their life or have any attention left to give to a woman. Thats probably why they are still looking for a woman here on this site. Get over yourself!! Ooops did i step on some toes lol. Second ... gorgeous women DO go out with average looking guys, nobody is more average looking than i am so i CAN say that and know it to be true. If any of you women here care to support my answer say so, it will shut the guys up that walk around looking in mirrors and maybe open the eyes of other "average looking" guys as to what IS important to women. ITS PERSONALITY guys..... be interesting, have opinions on things, treat a lady like a LADY without being a puppy!! Gorgeous women are just people too but unlike many guys (and its a gender thing) they are attracted to the person you are more than the looks. Ok let me clear something up tho, take care of yourself physically a bit, be clean etc... you know... have a bit of pride in your appearance but you dont have to be a Greek god is what i am saying. If you behave like an Imp then you make her feel like she is doing you a favor by being with you.... all their lives they put up with average looking guys going up to them with hat in hand asking "Please like me" OR they put up with the "Greek gods" going up to them and saying "Hey can i do you the favor of giving you some attention ... between my mirror sessions" ... be the average guy with confidence and a personality and KNOW HOW TO TREAT that special woman and you will not be sorry.... neither will she... you will give her something she IS looking for and has never found.... A REAL MAN!! For all those toes i stepped on.... I am with a gorgeous woman now and things are going great and the reason i was single IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS .... but make your stupid little comments to reestablish in your own mind that you are better than the rest of us and give all us "average guys" that ARE dating gorgeous women cause we KNOW what they really want... something else to laugh at lol. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/8/2007 5:44:47 PM | | I really don't understand the logic of this question. You obviously want the hot girl and you think that the hot girl should be obligated to settle for an average guy. Why don't you consider settling for average? If you are not willing to do so, then you are doing no different than the types of women you are complaining about. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/8/2007 6:39:50 PM | Would totally agree Marc. I read a guy's message and profile then tend to look at the pic ... if a guy has written a funny, witty, maybe even a bit self-deprecating profile, and has sent an interesting message, where I can get an idea of where he's coming from (eg what kind of work he does, his values, interests, etc) then I may respond.
If he writes a one-line email, has nothing in his profile, or hasn't read my profile ... he can be the hottest guy in the world but I'll think ... meh. You have to put a bit of effort in to attract a girl's attention. (I do think if a guy's profile is boring, chances are he'll be dull too... maybe that isn't true, but when you can easily find 10 interesting profiles, why work hard at finding out which of the 10 dull ones are really great guys after all?). Write a great profile guys. let it show your personality.
The number of times I get a message and it has nothing in it but 'how are you today'? Yawn!!! Tell me about yourself, what's your fav film? song? ice cream flavour! Nothing less boring then moaners ... don't moan that you are being looked over for hot guys ... you're not ... you are being looked over for interesting guys and guys who've made an effort! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/8/2007 7:34:29 PM | | Now, why do I think that is a bunch of baloney? I have come across profiles in which the girls have on their profile 'must have a picture' or whatever. Many (although not all) have had pictures of themselves posing all over the place with mouth open or with revealing clothing. Others have had one or two pics and they describe themselves and then you can just tell they're shallow by the content. Not to mention the ultimate ending of 'must have a picture.' If someone is saying that men are more shallow and gives no evidence or reason, they are just being silly (and ridiculous). Again, it is always going back to the attention factor. I can offer a 'different' angle than most since I don't just say, 'hey, how r ya?' and don't flatter or send typical lewd msgs. But, one doesn't have a picture so that's about it. The personality is not a factor but money and image is. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/9/2007 4:05:28 AM | worldbystorm is correct a hot woman or man doesn't have to settle for an average guy or gal. Honestly now how many times do you see a really hot guy or gal with an ugly to average guy or girl ? I am not saying it never happens but not very often .
I would like to think though that even if i was a hottie i would still be enough of a deep person to look at someone as a whole instead of just their looks. Hotties tend not to not have a whole lot going on in the personality department as they never really had a need to develop a good one . I am not saying all the hotties are like that , but sadly most are . | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/9/2007 6:02:28 AM | god i have read some garbage in my time but some of these messages make me so angry, i am not a hot babe but do get a lot of messages and a lot of those messages are from men who has only sex on their mind and one of the first things they say is how big are your boobs. i look for a man who can make me laugh , i would not trust a "hot man" as far as i could throw him. maybe a lot of you men out there should have more on your mind than sex  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/9/2007 10:51:54 AM | Hellooo
All we can do is just 'post', hope and pray that we send a nice message a so called "miracle message" that shows the extra reasons for dating us or for a hotty with an 'average guy' fettish to show up- heres hoping 
Dave - "Below Average - Average category" | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/11/2007 3:17:30 PM | I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder absolutely so you date who you find attractive for whatever reasons but it also goes way beyond looks. Although it may not be a person who is attractive to a lot of other people, you see things in them that draw you to that person. It's the chemistry you have with them and it does not always make sense, but you either have it or you don't. I also think some very attractive women will date men who are less attractive than them and this happens much more often than the other way around. MOST men put more emphasis on looks, whereas women tend to emphasize personality more. We will think to ourselves "Well he is not really good-looking but he is so funny, smart and nice." That is more important to most women than looks, at least to those of us who are smart and not superficial.
Remember guys: be yourself, be nice, and approach a woman who you think is out of your league so to speak and be sincere. Most women appreciate sincerity. AND if you then go on to date a pretty woman tell her! She may know it, has heard it all her life and other men pay attention to her when she goes out, but she wants to hear it from you! So tell her she looks nice, her hair looks good, she is pretty, she smells good, she is hot, her outfit is nice, etc, etc, etc. It's nice to hear and women want to hear it from the person they are with because it means the most coming from them! Also, tell her you miss her, are thinking of her, ask her about her day, remember if something is bothering her and ask her about it and then just LISTEN. Do little romantic things for her like buy her flowers (don't have to be expensive roses either, you can get a nice $7 bouquet from the food store), plan a date she would like- someplace she's been wanting to go to or something she's been wanting to do and surprise her, tell her you miss her, are thinking of her, rub her back, cook her dinner, sit there and talk while listening to music and just be together. Oh and show lots of affection- hug her, kiss her and touch her in an affectionate way often! All these things will make her want to stick around, trust me... So if you want to keep her around do them! Some guys think once they get the girl then that's it, but it's only the beginning for both of you. It goes both ways too, of course, and you each need to keep doing things for each other to keep it happy, fun, and interesting. The everyday little things really do mean the most.  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/11/2007 3:24:35 PM | | Probably because their egos are so hight. They think that they are beter than the guy. They are so stuck up; their noses are so stuck up in the air that if it rained they would drawn. It leat this has been my experience. I will change my opinion if there is one woman out there that can prove me wrong. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/11/2007 5:27:15 PM | What's hot to me may not be hot to you...
Come to think of it, I rarely see a hot girl with a hot guy. Lots of hot guys with mediocre women and vice versa. I see thousands of people a day so I know what I am talking about, lol!! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/11/2007 5:47:57 PM | The hottest women I'VE MET have also been the most insecure ones because they have so many men after them that they can't decide for the love of them who they want to be with and then wind up being with a guy who .........'Talks Nerdy to Them' and stuff ,or worse yet,they end up with an ''IT'S PAT!........from SATURDAY NIGHT LIVE'' type of character.
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/11/2007 9:31:03 PM | Why is it that hot is so important anyway? Why is it that you never see a thread saying....damn, why is it that hot guys ALWAYS get the smart women.....
I tell you men, a large part of your problem is that you create such a hype around these women that you think are hot and in turn their egos are through the roof.....then they can choose to toss you aside because there will be another drooling man close behind.
If you want the idea to perpetuate and ultimately cause your dating demise, then keep obsessing. If you want a decent girl, look around, next door even, some of the best women i've ever known fly under the radar. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/11/2007 9:49:18 PM | all u guyz if u were born gorgeous u wouldnt waste ur time on average girls and THATS A FACT so just QUIT ur killin me...with the blah blah blah
y dont they go for average? cause they dont HAVE to...hello? Men r no different...only human nature and saying 'hot' as u say girls are uneducated...THATS A RIOT!! and wrong....but if it makes u feel better to knock these young beautiful girls u speak of then whateva makes u feel betta
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/11/2007 10:52:45 PM | First of all, define hot versus average-looking. Define a good beer.
To me, Guiness is the epitomy of goodness, and yet a woman I once dated told me that "it looks like you're drinking motor oil." It's true, a woman once condemned my beer of choice and our chances of a second date for making such a ridiculous comment, all in one breath. For the record she was drinking Blue and she wouldn't have known the difference if she was drinking Canadian mixed with a quart of urine.
When it comes to women, don't come first -- come after.
Also, did you know...
Never write anything on the internet about yourself that is true or it can be used against you. Lies are generally acceptable, because they're difficult to prove -- take this posting for example. Not one thing I have written is true.
And I really think someone should tell Pacman he's cut-off. He's been like this ever since Mario and Luigi beat him up after he was kicked out of Atari and tried to sneak into their Nintendo.
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/11/2007 10:57:08 PM | First of all, define hot versus average-looking. Define a good beer.
To me, Guiness is the epitomy of goodness, and yet a woman I once dated told me that "it looks like you're drinking motor oil." It's true, a woman once condemned my beer of choice and our chances of a second date for making such a ridiculous comment, all in one breath. For the record she was drinking Blue and she wouldn't have known the difference if she was drinking Canadian mixed with a quart of urine.
When it comes to women, don't come first -- come after.
Also, did you know...
Never write anything on the internet about yourself that is true or it can be used against you. Lies are generally acceptable, because they're difficult to prove -- take this posting for example. Not one thing I have written is true.
And I really think someone should tell Pacman he's cut-off. He's been like this ever since Mario and Luigi beat him up after he was kicked out of Atari and tried to sneak into their Nintendo.
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