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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/11/2007 11:30:39 PM | | OK, first of all who decides what Hot is? Hot to you may be average to someone else...secondly if you THINK a woman is hot and consider yourself "average" you just answered your own question: Self confidence, a great smile, and a smashing personality are the sexiest things a a person can wear.... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/12/2007 12:42:03 AM | I disagree. The perception of women has changed more than the reality.
The problem is that many people confuse what they see on television with reality, and so it becomes their "reality." Television is censored by the government (control) and the government is influenced by the corporations (control). Television is the most powerful brain-washing device ever created -- by a man.
Women have always worked -- just not all women. That hasn't changed. The only thing that has changed is men's tolerance for women in the workplace -- somewhat. Yes, there have been some notable success stories, but men still have the final say in every major political and business decision that is made on this earth.
Take sports for example. In more recent years, there seems to be almost an equal numbers of boys and girls who join hockey leagues, and an almost equal percentage of those boys and girls who will grow up to become professional hockey players. What is not equal, however, is the amount of money they are paid. A professional woman hockey player makes an average of $50, 000 to $60, 000 per season. A hockey team in the NHL is not allowed to pay any player less than $500,000 per season, but the average player make approximately $1.5M per season. So while the men are golfing every summer, the women are very likely working at other odd jobs or running small businesses on the side, or they're married to the men who are golfing in the summer and "stay at home with the kids."
If politics is more your game then you're really in for a reality check. 79% of the seats in the House of Commons are occupied by men (21% by women), and yet 52% of the Canadian population are women. In the 2006 election, there were 373 female candidates. 200 women have been elected to the House since first earning the right in 1921, or, the past 86 years.
Of course, let's not forget about the wonderful corporations who have successfully created and marketed a different coloured pill for every problem in your life, and have the power to pursuade government administrations to engage in war and sell-out their own supporters to protect their own interests. That might sound crazy -- but it's reality. Media companies own the news stations that you watch -- do you think they're going to bring up the subject on an episode of 60 Minutes? According to a recent survey by Burson-Marsteller, in the United States, 99.6% of the CEOs are men. 99.6%.
How much do you think has changed now? | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/6/2007 8:02:42 AM | Dude......I think you need to take another look around......All the hotties are being taken by the NERDS....and GEEKS.....Remember the movie "Revenge of the Nerds", well it was the foreshadowing of a Destiny that was to come......and now it's here!!! Wake up!!! Grab your "NERD-HERDER" BLOKES!!! We need to stand unified and defiant against all that is "NERDY"....Oh, don't forget your "SNIGLETS" book...it helps with nerdy language translation....And throw rocks at the "Geek Squad" mobiles....(WARNING: NOT REALLY, YOU WILL BE JAILED)
They are taking are hot women....
I'm just Joshin'....I get carried away when I speak about lovely ladies..
You just gotta walk up to a hottie.....and "Tell her about it!!!" Just like Billy Joel used to say!!!
Tell her she's captivating and amazing to look at....ask her name....chit chat....It's a numbers game...but if ya don't try.....than don't cry......Oh, it helps when ya got an Aussie Accent too......Oops!! forgot to mention that.....Cheers!!! LOL  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/6/2007 8:24:21 AM | If 'super hot' is attached to 'super high maintenance", then I don't mind super hot girls keeping their distance. They are nice to look at, but thats about it. If you have nothing in common with one, chasing one just because they look 'hot' is just dumb.
Give me a cute 'girl-next-door' type over a model anyday. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/6/2007 10:37:45 AM | What's "hot"? How do you define it?
and why is it so important to you?...do you mean "hot" to other men? Are you whining because the women you think are "hot" don't want to go out with you? And why should they...? I've never understood this question... if you consider yourself average... then why would you not want to seek others you consider average? What's wrong with them? Would you really be comfortable with a woman who was drop dead gorgeous and getting hit on by tons of men all the time. Really I think, if you consider yourself "average", you may end up with issues over that after a while. I know I might be a little uncomfortable if women were drooling all over my guy all the time. I guess I'm not as secure as I would like to believe...hmmm.(?) Isn't the ultimate goal to find someone who loves you for who you are, and vice versa? You know what...real love is rare... be thankful when it comes to you...the package is not the most important thing.
I see all kinds of people with partners that may not exactly "match" them physically, both men and women. Why is that? And it isn't about cash... or anything. I also see a lot of couples who seem to be pretty close to the same in the looks department. It really isn't something that is fixed in stone.
I read somewhere that people are firstly attracted to people who are close to their attractiveness level...then there is also the fact that a lot of women are also looking for other qualities...and it isn't about power, or money...or even dominance..though some of these things are attractive to some people...ultimately we fall for someone who makes us feel good about ourselves.
Why is it so important that "hot" women find YOU attractive? That's what I'm wondering... | |
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| Who do you ask out?
Posted: 10/6/2007 10:40:51 AM | And I have to disagree with the dimwit who said "hot" women are basically poorly educated.
There are plenty of "hot" women on here that are very well educated. Don't know where you are meeting women... probably the bar. | |
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| Who do you ask out?
Posted: 10/6/2007 1:48:24 PM | | a generalization (always, never) cab be disproved by only one counterexample. 1. three weeks ago i went on a date with a woman i had met on pof who was hot AND intelligent, humorous , and selfconfident, so, i might say she was HOT in every notable respect. that disproves that all hot women are of lesser intelligence. It turned out to be wonderful date. 2. as i consider myself average looking (if i but knew what the average is based on) and i am also advanced in years, that proves that some hot women DO date average looking guys even when they are no young stallions. what do i conclude? looks may not be the only decision factor, and generalizing as has been done in this thread does just not capture reality, but maybe hints more a poster's psychological distress. By generalizing we set ourselves up for failure most of the time. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/6/2007 2:13:40 PM | yada yada yada can I SAY you are wrong why tar everyone with the same brush you are small minded....... everyone is not the same.... sort yourself out...I love a good personality... sense of humour and someone who can stimulate my mind over a pretty boy anyday.... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/6/2007 4:09:39 PM | I consider myself pretty average in looks, but some rather beautiful, sophisticated women answered me back.
It happens. Not all women are shallow...but I would sway away from the ones who are posing in lingerie or doing other "attention whore" type things.
That and the women who describe that they want a hot athletic guy with other characteristics that say he would be "eye candy".
Still...there are women here who aren't shallow...and yet they are quite beautiful. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/9/2007 9:06:40 AM | Female hockey players SHOULD NOT get equal pay as men. Its damn boring to watch! Why should they get paid equal $$$ if they the level of competition is below the NHL? PLUS they do not generate the $$$ that the NHL does. If you want the $$$$, step up the competition baby!
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| It is just keeping up with the Jones's.
Posted: 10/20/2007 6:15:12 PM | Many women (and men) are tied to a type of lifestyle where they want to live completely up to their means or beyond. That is true in money, power, influence and the things they own or control or appear to enjoy. Everybody wants the Good Life.
Therefore if a women is rated a 9, she wants men at level 9 or above. Basic human nature. But nature tends to screw humans. The attractive rating sezs nothing about the skill levels, abilities or characteristics that are under the hood.
So if you are the average dude with a "Looks Rating" of 5, you may not be missing much if the hot girls aren't beating down your door. Many of them tend to be vain, high maintenance, insecure and many other nasty characteristics. Plus just because they are good looking doesn't mean they are great in the sack.
The average dude may also be missing out on a very fickle creature that can make his life miserable. The hot babe has to be guarded and pampered way too much in many circumstances. I have had my share of girlfriends, none of them was the Super Hot Sexy Lookers. Can't say I missed much, not sure I ever really wanted one. I far prefer brains any day to looks plus a nice even personality. Like most guys I like the ladies to be attractive but Average Babes have so many advantages over the Hot Babes.
About like that song goes, "if you want to be happy all your life, make an ugly women your wife". At least it is far easier to get one. Hopefully she has the act together.
Man, talk about bad vibes if she is ugly and has nasty characteristics, Lord give me shelter.  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/20/2007 8:38:31 PM | | I think Danny has the right idea. Chemistry is important in a relationship, and sexy isn't always about looks. You need to get to know someone in a casual setting before getting around to dating. That's what I hated about these websites to begin with---too many expectations at a first meeting. So now I just approach it as an opportunity to meet new people to hang out with. If something develops from there, great. If not, no harm done, no feelings hurt. But a couple of other good points were brought up here too: the guy is average looking by his own description, yet is asking out "hot" women. Maybe he should give average looking women a chance? It comes down to this: what do you have to offer somone? Looks, intelligence, sense of humor, success---gotta be something there, and combination of all of the above is best. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/3/2007 5:30:18 PM | | Why are you concerned about dating a real hot girl? These women have a lot to choose from. These gals get overwhelmed by e-mails from guys. They are taught by their "Daddy's" to be choosy. You can be the "Average Joe" however, you better be set in your career & 6 figure income... These women are smart, not stupid & uneducated. Why should they settle? You want the real "Hot Girl" think about it.... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/3/2007 8:26:17 PM | | Lol just an average guy here that was with a super modle for about 3 yrs. they want to make an average guy something sweat and mold them have some selfconfidence and be yourself and go with the flow. Have some self respect guys don't be a lap dog. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/4/2007 7:04:34 AM | Well I for one think the thread theme is BS
I am average looking, 5,11, ok looking, not ugly , not a hunk Just plain and simple average, Most of my girlfriends have been "hot " as you put it and I mean extremely hot by society standards. Not just to me, My friends comment on it..How does an ugly **stard like you...
I will tell you one thing, I know several "super model" level girls and they always had problems getting dates as guys wouldnt hit on them at bars etc because everyone presumed they would have to be taken..or ..she wouldnt date a guy like me..
Go to any bar etc and check out the "hot girls" and you will realize they arent being hit on as much as you would expect
Mens appearance to women is not based entirely on looks, Self confidence is the biggest factor. An average guy becomes mega hot when he has confident. I dont think many women at all would date a guy solely based on looks. ( within reason, ) If you are average looking, but take pride in your appearance you are in. If you have already decided she will shoot you down,.. dont even bother trying..self fulfilling profacy
Hell look at Vin Diesel, the man by any standard is ugly and there is not a women alive who wouldnt shag him in a heart beat. He reeks of confidence...
Owen Wilson..That nose is a train wreck..ladies love him .. well did before sept ,, | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/4/2007 9:18:50 AM | My word, this is a hot topic. It goes all the way back to 2005.
I have dated "hot" men and I have dated very average men. There has to be a attraction.
when I say attraction, I mean more than just hot looks! Not all woman and men are shallow. One of the best relationships I had with a man, was with a man that was LESS than average looking. He wasn't attractive at all. Well, in the eyes of others I guess, but to me he was one of the most wonderful men in my world. The man and I could laugh till the sun came up. He let me cry when I needed to. the sex was out of this world. I loved that man.
I don't know, guess we all can babble on about looks till the end of time, but if there isn't something more to the person than that, I will look elsewhere. Give me a man that can make me laugh till my sides hurt, has a brain and a good heart... and it's all good.
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/4/2007 11:46:42 AM | | Most people care about looks to some degree. Now some women ( and men ) will care about looks more than others. Therefore some hot women, average looking women, and even some below average looking women only want the hot men. Other women would date an okay looking man if he has a great personality. The reverse is also true. I don't expect anyone to date someone who they think is unattractive. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/4/2007 2:15:09 PM | Two guys claim the opposite of the original poster? Yeah, nice try.
Confidence is just one factor and it usually already follows what most hot women are looking for. Status, image and money. The guy will probably be well established financially or already is considered attractive. The women are shallow and making excuses doesn't change the facts.
If status, image, money, etc. isn't as crucial or perceived as ultra important, then personality and character might be more of a factor but the reality is that it isn't. It's usually overlooked or it's something that provokes a hot girl to consider the guy a 'friend.' Such things aren't usually valued. They might insist and say that it is but it's the same old story: what the girl says and what she does is two different things. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/4/2007 4:55:38 PM | Well, I will like to say "hot" girls do give an average looking guy a chance. But most of the time the average looking guy does not know how to treat a good-looking girl. You would think that if he was so into this girl he would do what it takes to keep her around. From experience he tends to mistreat her so maybe she thinks I would be better off with a good looking; regardless of how he treats her. I don't know if that makes any sense but I am just giving my opinion. OP, I wish you the best of luck in finding that special someone.  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/4/2007 8:07:49 PM | Confidence is just one factor and it usually already follows what most hot women are looking for. Status, image and money. The guy will probably be well established financially or already is considered attractive. The women are shallow and making excuses doesn't change the facts.
what is wrong with wanting a successful guy ?Nothing shallow about it, Who would you rather date.someone who could take you out to a nice restaurant, or fly down to a island for a week....Or a guy whos idea of a good time is a sports bar or the house to drink beer and watch the hockey game...
Courtside seats for the nicks, or couch in basement watching the game..There is absolutly nothing shallow about dating a successful man as long as they actually like them and arent just using him for the money.
If you want to get down to genetics , a succussful man can provide a better environment for her offspring......no different then cave man who were the best hunters..
What do women see in bikers??Samething , physical strength and power to protect the offspring. | |
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