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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/4/2007 11:46:49 PM | | Well, do you think that Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise, or George Clooney ask out "average-looking" women? Nope............I certainly don't think it is reasonable for an average-looking or homely-looking person of EITHER GENDER to to expect to hook-up with Mr. or Mrs. Universe.........Personally, I am not a vain person and I certainly don't think I am "all that", therefore, I consider myself to be "average-looking" at best, and thus I tend to prefer "average-looking" women. That is what I feel most comfortable with, and what's more, that is what I belong with. Sometimes you just have to concede that certain people are out of your league, so to speak. I have dated a couple of women that some might term as "knock-outs".........but looks don't make up for personality or what is in a woman's heart. I was also fooling myself if I ever thought that things would work with someone of that caliber. Ever heard the old saying, "Pretty IS is pretty DOES"? I'll take an "average" looking woman any day over a "knock-out" or "supermodel" type.........There are lots of hot-looking "average" women out there for sure. (Just don't tell them that they're hot, because then they will think they are out of YOUR league, LOL)............ | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/9/2007 11:05:21 AM | You think Brad and George are hot..lol. Now Orlando Bloom that's a hottie
But I understand what you are saying ktodd. I just had to tease you about the Bradd Pitt and George Clooney thing. Me personally don't think they are hot but some women do. I guess everyone has their own opinion of what's "hot" but as a woman I want someone who is husband material. I want a man who is financially and mentally together. I have not had much luck in finding these two qualities together...LOL.  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/9/2007 11:21:08 AM | | Well, Lorethian, this is what I do. I dont pick up beauties with no brains. And my idea about pretty girls are, they are arrogant unless otherwise proved, it worked for me most of the time. So I go for a nice girl rather than a nice looking girl | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/9/2007 3:17:47 PM | | The do give you a chance. But maybe you are of average intelligence too, and you just don't notice. I hope you can understand this. Seriously, the most beautiful women are not with the most beautiful men. The most beautiful man to a woman does not contain "looks" in the equation. I have known some beautiful women, and they are not here now, maybe I should try to be more average, then I would have as much of a chance as you do. | |
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htarw
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Joined: 6/29/2007
Msg: 808 | |
| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/9/2007 6:49:05 PM | | just because they are hot, doesnt mean they know how to make smart choices. As a matter of fact, most people don't even know what's good for them and just pick the wrong type of people. It's truly baffling, but that's life! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/9/2007 7:17:52 PM | i honestly believe they think they can do better. they have been told time and time again how hot they are and they know it. they know that looks alone are enough for them. a guy is more willing to go out of his way and pamper a beautiful girl compared to an average looking female. in her mind, she believes she deserves a hot guy and not an average looking one. very seldom do u see many mismatches like dat. i know there have been times where u have wondered "how da hell did he get her?" well, after living in cali for a while, money usually has something to do with it. so, u either need to be a handsome man or a rich one if u want the very hot girl.  | |
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miffys
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Joined: 2/22/2006
Msg: 811 | |
| Who do you ask out?
Posted: 3/1/2008 5:49:28 AM | | I don't know if I'm considered "hot" enough to answer this question, but I only date average looking guys. I'm not into the Brad Pitt Hottie look. Not my style! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/1/2008 3:15:07 PM | A few hot girls may be good people. The reason even they mite not give a chance to average looking guyz is they suspect that the average looking guy has self esteem issues and may show problematic, possessive behaviors later on. They assume that something is wrong with this guy. But, let truth get out. There is somethign always wrong with the good looking guyz!!!
The better a guy looks, the more likely he is to be a liar, cheater, or simply emotionally immature and cowardly. So, for hot girls, the hot guyz are the ones to really look out for. Those are dangerous!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/1/2008 3:50:25 PM | | That's true I think. I didn't think about it much until recently. I don't want to sound vain because I"m not, but I recently realized I rarely see any good-looking guys out there. If I were uglier maybe I"d see some guys that I "like" but I don't usually. I have a nice face but I don't usually see any guys who have a nice face, too. Almost all guys I've met are nice, however and so I give anyone a chance who fits my criteria (eg. around my age, has a job, polite, etc). If there were more gorgeous guys around I'd probably have more guys hitting on me. | |
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| Who do you ask out?
Posted: 3/9/2008 8:13:19 PM | | Why don't average guys give less-than-average women a shot? Oh, only males can aim higher. | |
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| Who do you ask out?
Posted: 3/9/2008 8:23:10 PM | thats not true piscescoda! I think im an average man! I give less then average women a shot! And I will say that I prefer them more sometimes! | |
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| Who do you ask out?
Posted: 3/9/2008 8:26:32 PM | I ask out redheads & brunettes that don't do drugs or have felony rap sheets longer than one page.
Blondes are only trouble and not worth the time it takes to blow in their ear so they can thank you for the refill.  | |
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| Who do you ask out?
Posted: 3/10/2008 7:08:14 AM | Ever hear of beauty on the outside, ugly on the inside. I prefer balance with a hot naughty streak.  | |
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Wimmer
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Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 820 | |
| Who do you ask out?
Posted: 3/10/2008 9:45:50 AM | Both are but a mere perception.
What is hot to one may not be to another.
What is average to one may just be someone's gem. | |
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| Who do you ask out?
Posted: 3/10/2008 9:53:43 AM | | Maybe if you took a trip to the Playboy Mansion... You'd be sing'n a different tune Buddy ! Hot Chix, Fat Chix, Smart Chix, dumb Chix... Women are women.. I know plenty of hot chix who love Dorky dudes.. I think they even have a shirt that says " I love nerds" Good luck ! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/10/2008 10:29:54 AM |
Ever hear of beauty on the outside, ugly on the inside.
Yes, but there certainly are people who are beautiful both inside and out. Average or below average looking people often try and convince themselves that every physically beautiful person must be a **** or a jerk, and thus not worth dating. Of course, this is really just a way of rationalizing the fact that most beautiful people won't date them because they are not beautiful like them.
And yes, we can go on about how "Beauty is all subjective, and is in the eye of the beholder." But that is only true to a small extent. Human perceptions of beauty are actually quite objective in nature.
If beauty truly was only in the eye of the beholder and totally subjective, then just as many men would find Rosie O'Donnell hot as find Angelina Jolie. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/10/2008 10:54:26 AM | This topic is close to many others: why do people discriminate based on weight/height/age/hair/income/whatever?
Usually, the person asking the question is pissy because they've realised they don't have what it takes to get what they want--and yet instead of doing something about it, they sit and whine about their misfortunes.
Whining is not attractive. Confidence is. Keep in mind, though, that wanting something totally unrealistic is going to end terribly. | |
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jf468
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Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 826 | |
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