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jf468
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/10/2008 1:21:37 PM |
Not ALL hot women would turn down average looking men especially if an average looking man has something else to offer such as intelligence, personality, shared common interests etc.
That might be true, but wouldn't it make much more sense to find a hot looking man who has intelligence, personality, shared common interests?
It's easy to pose a theoretical and say that you'd date an average looking man, but actually doing so is a different story.
I remember a co-worker who was an extremely attractive women saying that she wouldn't be opposed to dating a short, balding man if he had a great personality. Of course, every boyfriend she's ever had in her life has been tall, dark and handsome. So, she was trying to portray herself as being very open minded, while knowing fully well that she'd never actually have to follow through on that statement.
So, IN THEORY, most attractive women will tell you they'd be open to dating an average guy. But, short of ending up alone on a desert island with one, it'll likely never happen. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/11/2008 8:23:05 AM | Hot girls are very much into their looks and spend a lot of time on it. Because of that, they want to be around a man who views life like they do (and with their same values) and also want a guy who spends a lot of time on his looks and appearance: hair, clothes, face, muscles, etc.
Hot-looking couples are together because they have similar values or views about looks. The same way religious people tend to date people with the same religious views. It is not wrong.
Some people who are very attractive and marry even put in a pre-nup about if the spouse gains weight or doesn't keep up with certain looks requirements, they'll divorce.
A man who wants a woman who can wear evening gowns at the opera and just as easily wear sweatpants and scream at the top of their lungs at a sports game wouldn't be right for me because I am neither of those things.
I do tend to date men who are equal to me in looks, values or lifestyle. Let people choose who and what they want and what works best for them. Would an "average looking guy" want to date a woman who is a nice person but weighs as much as Shamu? All people have standards. We all judge. Even 'nice guys'. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/11/2008 9:55:01 AM |
Women are gold diggers!!! It is just a fact of life. If your nice and have no money they dont want your. Sorry but its true.
That's something I've found to be true in majority case.
On to topic at hand. It doesn't matter much what people look like, the body is just a shell for the mind and soul. If you actually talked with a lot of women who were ugly, then a lot who were hot, you'd see that there's no real way to know what they are like without getting to know them. I've only seen the whole airhead hot girl deal in very specific situations, in everyday life however it's very different. Though I've still yet to find the beautiful gal with a personality befitting of a goddess outside of my dreams. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/11/2008 11:22:31 AM | | loll here is some advice for you,get some baggy draws put a ball cap on sideways and hook yourself up with some fancy nikes and a gold chain to put around your neck,with some blunts in your pocket and rent a benz they will come running.It seems woman go more for the bad boy type and not the nice type although the nice type is more unlikely to get them in prison or in some sort of other trouble,they will say that isn't the case but it is ,for others they live in a dream world because of there beuty and often used more times than they will care to tell you,but that isn't to say all are the same but for a high percentage it is.Sometimes we are to snobish and judgmental over others in saying oh no way I'm just to good for you when some need to take a long look at how ugly they are on the inside,and the stupid ones they really go for that they think are all it.Give me a medium built sexy woman to a nice bbw anyday over hot barbie looking chick in my view they are more real and twice as cute. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/11/2008 11:52:22 AM | I dont know what age group of "hot" you are looking at, but being "hot" as you put it, requires work after 24. Diet, excercise, skin care, upkeep in general. Alot of woman who are "hot" generally strive to excell at alot of things like there career and character as well. Taking care of their looks just goes along with that. And all of this is what makes a girl HOT!!!
And "hot" girls will date average looking guys as long as he brings other things to the table, like a career, good character etc....
So face it, if you think you are average looking, and you want a "hot woman", you better start working at improving other things in your life.
date "average" women who have similiar interests to you. I promise you there is nothing hotter than someone you like looking at you and saying "I like you so much"!!!!!! after a few dates. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/11/2008 1:13:28 PM | | Yes that is true but also a lot out there are just as I had said they are,case and point I took out a hot babe I had a good job I was also in special forces and a ranger in the army during my time in the service,after that I worked as a policeman for the railroad then moved onto the private industry,the hot one I took out seem to be more into getting with Mr Thug,another one I took out thought she was gods gift to man and acted like I was scum,she went for this other guy on our date, a few months later I seen her with him she was walking around with a black eye and him screaming at her but thats what she wanted was him.A third one was just totally interested in what she could get out of me and money,yea I seen where the love would be there loll,as said to the OP not all are that way but there are a good percentage that are and to be fair a lot of Ken type men are just as bad.My point is stupid judgment can cost you because you think your hot and gods gift with a snot attitude. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/11/2008 1:36:40 PM | | well average guys are usually a body build i'm not attracted to and i can't date someone i'm not sexually attracted to...i can hold on the sex but they have to be good looking at least for me to take an interest...and besides i confuse myself with my own self so i'm better off single... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/11/2008 3:17:22 PM | Eventhough this smells of a pity thread, I do believe in generel terms the OP is correct. But the same can be said for 'hot' guys dating average girls. The groups that got established in High School tend to run together for most of your life. The popular people, the jocks, the nerds...but most fell into what I call the 'Gray Masses'..just the plain old average folks. Once in awhile someone will stray from the herd and date outside their little group, but not often. And odds are they take heat for it from their friends. However, it comes down to a personal choice on their part. Most 'hot' guys and girls I know as friends pretty much demand to date someone of equal looks. Just like someone athletic prefers someone else athletic and a very well educated person would rarely date someone with a GED. It's life.
Oh I do have to laugh at one thing...a few of the women saying they date average men, aren't really that 'hot'. but neither am I...I just know it.  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/11/2008 4:48:45 PM | Some of the girls stated some accurate things but many claimed the same myth, "there has to be a spark or some chemistry. There has to be something else on the table." Sound familiar? Yet, when you compare the attractive guys who date/marry average-looking girls, what is the reason? Chemistry and personality. This isn't always the case with "hot" girls. Career, money, status etc. are often reasons. I doubt most guys really care what the girls possess or what career they have. They aren't judging on a bank account or whether she drives/owns a car.
This discrepancy and difference is often ignored or neglected. Just something to keep in mind. | |
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Fab302
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Joined: 8/19/2007
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/11/2008 7:17:55 PM | If the basis of the topic is formed from experiences on this website, i'll say that it's because girls are here to find the best looking guy possible. I have messaged some beautiful girls as well as some average looking girls, and generally the response rate is quite low. The whole "looking for a nice, honest guy" routine is severely strained at the moment given that most of the girls who say that have no intention in digging up that "kindness and honesty", unless of course the guy is a model.
The only way that an average guy will meet a hot girl that will like him is random chance. It won't happen at a bar because people are usually there for a lay with the best looking person that wants it, and it certainly won't happen on this website because profile pics are often the prime decision factor when deciding to respond to a message.
Attraction counts for a lot and for those of us who are not very photogenic, the chances of being noticed by a beautiful POFer are virtually non-existent. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/11/2008 8:00:56 PM | Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - and what one person finds attractive and "hot" is not the same as someone else. So - what's hot to the original poster - way back when - may not even be hot to them now!
Women are gold diggers!!! It is just a fact of life.
We are? Damn - I missed the memo again! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/11/2008 8:49:56 PM | Well then slow down dude! I think you should probably get to know some girls, develop a relationship and THEN ask them out. I have had a girl in my math class the past 2 semesters and I can't wait to ask her out. I probably should have asked her out about 3 times by now, but the thing is maybe you just don't have the relationship with these girls to ask them out. If you are asking out too many, it probably means that these girls mean nothing to you. Now I am sure that that is not the case for all of these girls, but I say that you should pick the ones that you like the most, try and be as unstalkerish (because girls hate stalkers even though I like to call it "persuing") and kind as you can. They should start coming around... at least the right ones. Good luck bro... and just put your heart in it aight? Peace
-Danny-
Danny got it right.
If you're asking them out before you're building a repor with them..its likely they'll say no.
I may not be considered "a hot girl" lol, but if someone asks me out within the first 5 days I talk to them..it ain't gonna happen. Now if they wait a couple weeks to get to know me..it peaks my interest...and then I WANT to be asked out. :) | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/12/2008 12:04:27 PM | | Most hot girls won't even give a(n) average guy the chance to get to know her or even consider he might be interesting or someone she might like. I don't even know why any girls are trying to explain it or claiming it's different the opposite scenario. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/12/2008 1:59:29 PM | ive read so much my eyes are straining i think its true that women have this huge list a resume lets call it while im sure the guy even myself just wants a girl he can have a fun time with and love..sounds sappy and before i get shot down with we know you want sex!! sure i love sex but that doesnt mean im looking for it in the first date someone who i care for at least!! anyways its too bad media wether shows magz or whatever have left the average guy behind its true y a know..ok beofre i start to sound like a whiny baby , i wish both sexes could get past the stereotype and meet up and really get to know the person before they judge!! peace and love people!  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 3/12/2008 3:45:24 PM | I just noticed something
It doesn't matter what men or women say is their truth or experience...some people are going to believe myths no matter what. (example) It's like the thread(s) about women only caring about money... 100 women will say that's not the case..a few will admit that for them it's true, but some guys aren't listening.. they just go on believing what they want to believe. If you really want to LEARN..let go of your bitterness and preconcieved ideas and LISTEN for pete's sake.
It seems a bit ridiculous to me for people to ask questions and then reject the answers. And it makes for redundancy and extremely boring threads that go round and round.
Just an observation
As far as "hot women" giving "average" guys a chance.. why should they? (I really can't speak for hot women but I'm sure there are a few who think this way) Average is boring... if you want something to change in your life then do what it takes to change the one thing you have control over....YOU. It is NOT all about looks.... it's about charisma, personality, energy, ambition...personality. I've always wondered about all these profiles of men who describe themselves as "an average" guy... which to me reads as boring, dull and basically not very interesting. NEXT. Not a very good selling point... maybe a course in marketing might help. | |
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