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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 9:15:42 AM | The guy who started this thread is clueless.
He needs to quit being so nice, and start being confident about himself.
All you have to do is start watching other men who DO get the hot women, and emulate them. Pretty easy answer.
The subject of this thread is a lie...it is the attitude of confidence that will get you the hot women, if you want them.
You must act desperate or nervous or something that triggers the red flags.
If you act like a girly man...then you get what a girly man deserves... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 10:27:57 AM | Has anyone even seen the discovery channel? Sure, it's mainly about animals, but they do occasionaly discuss courting habits of humans.
Men and women inherently look for features in each other that suggest the best possible partner for mating and for carrying on their genetics to further generations. Men are born with many more sex cells than women and are intrinsically drawn to spread them, making them less picky about the mate they choose. Whereas women produce one egg cell per month and are more aware of their choice of mate because the person they choose as a mate will be the one who will help them care for the child they create.
Women tend to go for men who
1) Have clear skin, full lips, white teeth, taut skin, clear eyes and a rosy complexion, these are indicators that a person is healthy, young, and yes, fertile.
2) Expressive faces seem to rank very high on people's lists. Surveys indicated no one was particularly aroused by a dull and lifeless-looking face, even if it was beautiful. A communicative face seemed to appeal to everyone.
3) Kindness, sensitivity, intelligence, modesty, and sociability are among those characteristics that are most often sought after by women. But I ranked that three, cause we all know about the bad boys and their appeal to women. But gernerally, these things are also important. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 10:28:09 AM | Has anyone even seen the discovery channel? Sure, it's mainly about animals, but they do occasionaly discuss courting habits of humans.
Men and women inherently look for features in each other that suggest the best possible partner for mating and for carrying on their genetics to further generations. Men are born with many more sex cells than women and are intrinsically drawn to spread them, making them less picky about the mate they choose. Whereas women produce one egg cell per month and are more aware of their choice of mate because the person they choose as a mate will be the one who will help them care for the child they create.
Women tend to go for men who
1) Have clear skin, full lips, white teeth, taut skin, clear eyes and a rosy complexion, these are indicators that a person is healthy, young, and yes, fertile.
2) Expressive faces seem to rank very high on people's lists. Surveys indicated no one was particularly aroused by a dull and lifeless-looking face, even if it was beautiful. A communicative face seemed to appeal to everyone.
3) Kindness, sensitivity, intelligence, modesty, and sociability are among those characteristics that are most often sought after by women. But I ranked that three, cause we all know about the bad boys and their appeal to women. But generally, these things are also important. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 10:45:38 AM | this is a deck of cards the gods have dealt you,maybe you were a bad person in a former life,my best advice to you is to leave the ladys to the big boys,dont worry about the ladys jr.,get your self a mail order bride from south east asia,and be happy that you have an instant family.    | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 10:46:32 AM | | Steve, thought you may have a point. The things you discribe people find attractive are more a result of socialization then natural instinct. Once on realizes that, we are better equipped to determine what we choose to be attracted to. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 10:56:06 AM | | I have dated quite a few "hot" girls in my life (where are they now?) and many of them were more trouble than they were worth. They were very self-absorbed, needed to be the center of attention all of the time, and if you didn't want to play along, well, they would just find somebody who would. The really good ones didn't realize how pretty they were, and had good personalities as well as educations, and were very happy to be treated well, and not as an "object". I hope that anyone who is lucky enough to latch onto a woman like this is smart enough to latch onto her and treat her with the utmost respect, because a good woman is rarer than gold. I have been stupid enough in the past to let a few get away, but no more. I just hope there is a next one. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 12:05:05 PM |
Steve, thought you may have a point. The things you discribe people find attractive are more a result of socialization then natural instinct
I tent to disagree. 2 Million years of evolution builds some pretty hard core traits into all beings.
If that weren't the case:
Babies wouldn't pay more attention to "prettier faces" telling stories (human behavior studies)
Single Cats wouldn't naturally gravitate to litter boxes or teath without an example to follow.
I won't discount your theory entirely, learned behavior is also very crucial, we had a rabbit who thought it was a cat.
Regardless, people polled from all over the world overwhelmingly share opinions that are consistent with Steve's argument.
It's unlikey given the many cultures / beliefs / customs that humans favor the same traits our of coincidence. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 12:39:20 PM | I couldn't resist putting in my two cents little brother
Your life is yours - if you want something go get it and do not be intimidated by the obstacles, no matter WHAT they are - believe completely in yourself - when this happens the girls will see you in a different light my friend.
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 12:45:44 PM | We have to be realistic . While it's easier to communicate through emails, it's not easy to ask a girl out. It does not mean you guys are not nice nor unsincere.It just so happen opportunists and a lot of deceivers are out there looking for victims, bitter people to vent their frustation on others and so on and on.
My suggestions are to be honest right from the start, be sincere, take things slowly, be patient and most of all be friendly and respectful. Trust must be established before a girl will go out with a guy and this is the hardest to attain as there is no personal interaction.
I believe there are a lot of real nice people in the internet and a lot who became victims also. Some of these victims are out there to get back but by so doing will just complete the vicious cycle of distrust.
This vicious cycle must be broken by starting with ourselves. Just keep on trying, you may be lucky next time.
As to my case, I socialize and there I find some real nice girls, although at this time I still have no love interest. Socializing means having time which is not easy since many of us are working hard to earn aliving. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 3:17:04 PM | Hey, we could also take the inputs i gave and give them a negative attrbute. Let's say we take Brad Pitt... I use him cause he won the World's Most Beautiful face, or something like that. Let's say we gave him a ruddy complexion, bloodshot eyes, bad teeth, and umm.. thin lips. Let's go further and say his face is devoid of emotion... and lastly, let's make him a real a-hole. Would he still be where he is, and maintain the title as Most Beautiful...?
I guess if you want to appeal to women, you should correct the things you're lacking, or just wait for that rare opportunity of finding someone where looks matter not. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 4:19:09 PM | First of all, you sound like your just going for "hot" girls. You may want to try and broaden your horizons to maybe gorgeous, or attractive or substance filled girls.
I'll never say that looks plays no part in attraction, but first you might want to work on your's. When you get heads turning your way you'll feel alot more confident and then when a girl says, sorry your not my type then you can just lift your head up high and ask the next one. Seriously though, you have to look at what you're up against. I'm sure there's something deep down that once she finds out , she'll fall in love with you, but it takes a while for that to happen sometimes. When I'm at the gym and I see this gorgeous brunette who looks like she can bounce 45 lbs plates off her toosh I just think. Heck I know there's tons of guys in there that are more attractive and more muscular then me, but I make myself confident in what I have in my life. And sometimes a 5 foot confident guy might get the lady over the 6'5" body builder.
So just stay confident ...that is all | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 4:34:07 PM | really, i think that's all this forum is about. if it were about anything different, it would be "why haven't i found my beautiful, intelligent, down-to-earth soul mate?" lol course there are no men on here looking for that...or else they don't post threads about it.. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 5:51:20 PM | "...getting laid by gold diggers. your're jealous of that?"
Doesn't bother me in the slightest. I'm hardly near being rich and have had no problem attracting pretty women. What's difficult for me is finding someone whom I have a chemistry with. Someone who understands the demands of being a single parent. Someone who has those characteristics that I lack, i.e. we compensate each other's weakness's with our own strengths. That's what makes a good partner, and that's what I find so d*mned hard to find. A pretty face will age with time, and you be left with what's on the inside... Her inner beauty. So let that be what matters most. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 6:04:23 PM | | ok i want to say something in here but its all going to have to be done delicately. I personally do not think Im "hot" not by any stretch ...kinda cute LOL the man I am with is amazing and we click just ohh so well ...now.... i have and he has had run ins with his friends that go like this...u are so attractive why in the hell are u with him?? and he has had dude shes hot how the f*ck did u ever get her. Now I cant tell u how much that pisses me off....and I mean immensly...first off its incredibly rude secondly who the hell cares...as long as we are happy isnt that all that matters?? even my gfs have sounded in on this and it ticks me off. and now i am stuck with a man who constantly comes out with stuff like ur too good for me and why are u with me when there are so many others that would be better for u ...other peoples opinions are starting to get to him...and that hurts. I love him because he is funny, sweet, treats me like a queen, is incredibly affectionate, gets me...and believe me thats hard, is just as bent as I am and really we compliment each other sooo well. In my eyes he is the sexiest man alive...and he is able to back that up behind closed doors. So honestly u know what it doesnt matter what u look like guys,,,,to some woman u will be her greek god even if u dont think u are...and wether she is hot or not will never come into who can fall for u and who cant | |
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