| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 8/2/2009 6:45:41 AM | | solderfalcon8, I don't know why you think it is amusing to laugh at someone's comment when they do not agree with what the majority of the people that YOU might have met think. I know a lot of women who find average looking men to be wonderful, as long as the man have maturity, manners, intelligence, and other important traits to bring to the table. Some of these women would have been considered to be hot when they were younger, but at my age, they are totally turned off to any man who says he is looking for a "hot" woman, and if he is all about them being good looking and notices nothing more about them, they will not date him. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/7/2009 4:52:53 AM | | ..............and it still amazes me that Middleaged Balding Beergut is looking for a women 20-30 years younger than he is but he won't accept a women 2 years older. Talked about screwed up logic!!! Everyone wants the best piece of the pie, but some people need to learn to understand what is possible. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 9/7/2009 5:59:24 AM | It never stops these guys from trying:(:( Yesterday I went to lunch with a group of singles and there was one guy to several women, so he had his choice of who to talk to. I had seen him go in the restaurant on my way in and thought oh I'll finally get a chance to talk to him. hrmpgh:(:(:( There was one girl already in there; someone I had not seen before so I wouldn't have known she was with our group if he had not been attached to her hip talking to her:(:( So I stood to the other side, perused a newspaper, went back out to my car for a minute and came back in. There were others there then, so I tried to find somebody else to talk to. The girl moved over to sit somewhere else and then later another new girl showed up and he latched onto her. The first girl left. At the table, I ended up across from the guy and the second girl he had latched on to. I totally ignored both of them. He was about my age or older, a bigger guy who has lost alot of weight and is definitely doing well at working on his weight and diet. These girls looked 20-30 at the most I had been kind of attracted to him, and I'd only had the chance to say maybe one thing to him before that day. So, still fishin' | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/14/2009 7:44:21 PM | I would say don't take it personally. 85% of the women here wouldn't know a good thing if it hit them in the head. Personally I would think they would want a good guy but from experience it seems most don't know what they want and seem to pick guys that are least good for them. Its all just a big baffling world to me.....
^^^No shit, then again some of them probably wouldn't even notice a 10 inch ding dong if it was t hit them in the head too. When you say they seem to pick guys that are least good for them, Im assuming you mean the a**hole type. Yeah that seem's to be the new trend these days.
OP, you want to know why they never give anaverage looking guy a chance.That's becausesome of them have their heads up their stinkholes, still searching for their "Mr. right" in shining armor. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 8:12:50 AM | I would say don't take it personally. 85% of the women here wouldn't know a good thing if it hit them in the head. Personally I would think they would want a good guy but from experience it seems most don't know what they want and seem to pick guys that are least good for them. Its all just a big baffling world to me.....
^^^No shit, then again some of them probably wouldn't even notice a 10 inch ding dong if it was t hit them in the head too. When you say they seem to pick guys that are least good for them, Im assuming you mean the a**hole type. Yeah that seem's to be the new trend these days.
OP, you want to know why they never give anaverage looking guy a chance.That's becausesome of them have their heads up their stinkholes, still searching for their "Mr. right" in shining armor.
And here we have it...some "nice" guys telling everyone what's wrong with women.
It's interesting to me that the women that "nice" guys berate are women that
they wouldn't have anything to do with anyway. So it appears that their anger
stems from the fact they are unsuccesful with the women they are interested in,
as even they aren't interested in them.
At some point you have to really throw out the whole "no one wants me because
I'm too nice" theory and look at yourself and figure out that maybe it is you...and
maybe it's not because you're "too nice".
I don't really know anyone that actively seeks out someone that is mean to them
or treats them badly. I seriously believe they see something in this person...and it
turns out they were wrong.
Maybe all the good guys need to figure out the vibes the "bad" guys are giving off
and follow suit?
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 8:27:09 AM | "they see so many gorgeous girls with "ugly-ass guys"."
I second that motion, but it works for me... :-)
I haven't read all these pages, but I guess the biggest turn-off is the drooling. Why would anybody want to be with a brain-dead, penis-driven drooler who will likely brag about every detail with his friends just because the girl is hot? Even an ugly woman wouldn't like that, but she is not in that position. If you pay less attention to her figure and her make up and instead listen to what she says, one of two things will happen: You connect with her despite her hotness or you suddenly don't find her so hot anymore. Women are much more forgiving in the looks department, but they want the 'upstairs light' to be on when they talk to you... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 2:24:56 PM | Well last time I checked the government hasn't yet taken over dating.
So no social, equal opportunity-esque programs for the average guy.
Sorry.
Women are still allowed to hire and fire based on whatever the f--k they want.
Especially the hot ones.
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 7:36:41 PM | And here we have it...some "nice" guys telling everyone what's wrong with women.
^^^lol, What a fr*ckin clueless idiot. Umm where in my post did I even mention that I was a nice guy? Are you even replying to the correct poster? Or do you just have reading comprehension problems?
And btw miss genius in my original comment, notice how I said "some" and not "all"?  | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 8:24:47 PM |
Umm where in my post did I even mention that I was a nice guy?
Did you ever think that this could be part of your problem? You blame women for being clueless and not knowing a good thing when they see it. If you were having success in dating, or even if you weren't and didn't care, I doubt you'd be making these b*tchy posts all the time.
I think a lot of women know an unattractive man with a bad attitude when they see one. Regardless of how much said men b*tch about it. Hell, being single is better that being with an ugly guy( who thinks he's Gods'gift) who has the disposition of a fisher cat with heartburn.
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 8:45:49 PM | ^^^ I was just clarifying something with her since she was obviously confused. But of course you had to throw your two cents in here. I'm not directly blaming anybody for anything. And again let me REPEAT myself....I said SOME, not all.You know it's funny how you didn't respond to the other poster, that I replied to.
Now I don't know what b*thcy posts you referring to, considering the fact Im not the one that get's riled up over others comments. I would assume that if one think's that another person's posts comes across as b*tchy, or as how you put it....then I guess its safe to say that the other person found those posts offending in some sort of way...wouldn't you agree?
You know it never ceases to amaze me time and time again how some people always worry and b*tch about what others say. Worry about yourself lady, don't worry about what others think, or post for that matter.
p.s.Not once did I mention or say the word CLUELESS. Here's a tip...next time try to actually read a post more clearly, before you respond. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 8:55:12 PM | It's interesting to me that the women that "nice" guys berate are women that
they wouldn't have anything to do with anyway. So it appears that their anger
stems from the fact they are unsuccesful with the women they are interested in,
as even they aren't interested in them.
That's non sequitur.
One could "berate" someone based on a principle, whether or not the principle included them or not.
At some point you have to really throw out the whole "no one wants me because
I'm too nice" theory and look at yourself and figure out that maybe it is you...and
maybe it's not because you're "too nice".
I have actually put some overly nice women, immediately in the "friend zone", so I wouldn't summarily discount those claims.
I don't really know anyone that actively seeks out someone that is mean to them
or treats them badly. I seriously believe they see something in this person...and it
turns out they were wrong.
In my case, it's not a question of finding someone who treats me badly in comparison, but rather, finding someone who I feel, won't one day feel neglected or resentful because I can't entirely reciprocate their level of attention and devotion to me.
For example, someone might be a career driven workaholic. If you were to pair them up with someone who longs to spend lots of "quality time" together, you have a mismatch.
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
I know plenty of "hot" women who simply are not that focussed on their looks, or on the looks of the guys they date.
There's no correlation between a woman's looks and her desire for a "hot guy", or "average guy".
I also know plenty of women who swear off "hot guys" for the reasons that they have been cheated on before by them, or are afraid that there is a higher risk of cheating associated by guys who are universally "hot".
And plenty of average, or below average women who only focus on hot, hot, hot guys.
Most "hot guys" are very much more focussed on dating "hot girls" than vice versa. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 9:05:35 PM | You know what I'm tired of how people treat other people. There are A LOT of good people out there. Few people are what you would call 'unsightly' unless they have a physical defect or are extremely overweight etc. Listen..people are people. What separates the super hot from the average is of very very little significance other that visual appearance. We all still have essentially the same brains and bodies with the main difference being LOOKS (specifically facial features). Come on people, some ladies and guys need to start appreciating people more.
Stop this grass is greener shit....learn to appreciate what you have or what's around you. Quit being so shallow. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 9:17:29 PM |
^^^lol, What a fr*ckin clueless idiot.
That was post 1039. You are shown as author. Do you have problems with your short term memory?
I've seen quite a number of your posts that complain about women and their methodology,whatever it may be, in choosing dating and relationship partners.
Pretty good, you can tell me not to worry about what others say, while you freqently post complaints about women's dating choices. If they aren't choosing you, might there be a reason that ISN'T all their fault?
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 9:23:57 PM |
but rather, finding someone who I feel, won't one day feel neglected or resentful because I can't entirely reciprocate their level of attention and devotion to me.
That's a very valid desire,but it requires a person who is very secure in themselves and does not require "measure for measure" reciprocated love all the time for validation. These kind of people don't exactly grow on trees, I know. Because that's exactly what I would like to find.
Cindy O | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 9:55:41 PM | I haven't read the last 40 pages (debate over this is ridiculous, might as well ask why don't guys want to date fat women), but the reason is because people prefer to date people that are attractive.
If I could date an average guy or a hot guy, guess which I'd pick?
Unless I found that hot guys are all lacking in personality, in which case I'd be forced to date the average guy with a good personality. But of course saying "all hot guys have bad personality" is totally false and stupid. | |
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