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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 10:21:38 PM |
I think it is because I am too ugly looking for any of the women here on POF I can send a message to one and i look a little bit later and it was deleated or gone unread.
Have you considered growing you hair out somewhat and possibly a mustache and or trimmed beard? Also kinda know what kinda girls might be in to you. You gotta be proactive. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 10:40:14 PM |
I see hot women with average looking men all the time. But I don't see the opposite much... Now when I think about it, I don't remember seeing a hot guy with an average girl...ever...hmmm insteresting...
good observation.
I feel that, as previously stated, the "hot" women with average or below looking men may be with that man for financial reasons. So why wouldn't the opposite be true? Why wouldn't a hot guy be with an average woman who is wealthy? The fact of life is that most men cannot get over the look factor...while, women, certainly can... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/15/2009 10:50:54 PM |
LOL well If i could grow my hair and have a beard I would be a happy guy! Due to work i can't have long hair and well I don't have enough hair on my face to even have a beard or mustashe Sorry man.....I didn't necessarily mean long hair but just 'longer' | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/16/2009 4:28:05 AM | lol....Work in a prison and see a ton of what you might call "hot" woman visit these scum bags....its either the bad boy thing or they have a ton of money stashed...figuring they might get a little.....oh then theres the ones that have children by them...never could figure it out....alot is intimidation...then theres the females that think their something...as in stuck-up or cougars.....have only run into a couple of those....and just walked away...laughing.... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/16/2009 7:22:00 AM |
^^^lol, What a fr*ckin clueless idiot. Umm where in my post did I even mention that I was a nice guy? Are you even replying to the correct poster? Or do you just have reading comprehension problems?
And btw miss genius in my original comment, notice how I said "some" and not "all"?
Jeepers...you couldn't ask for better advertising than this.
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/16/2009 7:25:51 AM | | who wants hot chick anyway, Id rather have an average lookin chick any day. I find alot of the time hot chicks think they are IT, just because they got a pretty face and big boobs, when most of the time they have a personality that completley sucks! Plus shes got guys hitting on her constantly. Average looking girls aint see full of themselves, they enjoy a compliment better and are more faithfull. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/16/2009 9:59:36 AM | Do women even go out with anyone on this site. Seems to me it's just an ego stroker, how many emails, responses ect.... the hot ones just need the affirmation and the average lookers are not sure of their looks and are gauging the response. Pretty sad actually! Better off to try your luck at the local grocery store, frozen food isle perhaps LOL! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/16/2009 10:22:20 AM | ^^^Yes, just not with you! Kidding kidding.....the fact that you say it is an ego stroker makes me think you are only contacting the hot women. My affirmation comes from the men I meet in the real world as photos are screwy anyway.
Also kinda know what kinda girls might be in to you.
Impossible to gauge online. The men that are usually interested in me in the real world will not answer my emails on here either.
Online is NOT the be all-end all. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/16/2009 11:30:56 AM | I dunno, i'm an average looking guy and have always been able to find an attractive partner. Why? I'm not afraid to ASK! Realistically that's what seperates, lots of people assume "hot" women get hit on all the time, truth is they get hit on LESS.
Plus, you know....i'm just awesome
Also, Best line from one of my favorite movies.
You know, there's a million fine looking women in the world, dude. But they don't all bring you lasagna at work. Most of 'em just cheat on you.
-Silent Bob
Truer words were never spoken. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/16/2009 11:38:57 AM | | "Hot men and women" are stuck on themselves, think very highly of themselves and not always, it is the only thing going for them.. Hot men and women that expect more then looks and have the intelligence to go with their looks understand that and seek for a more fulfilling experience... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/16/2009 12:14:32 PM | girlwPriOriTies,
Why wouldn't a hot guy be with an average woman who is wealthy?
For a fling? Sure, if she's going to be a sugar-momma. But guys don't expect a lady to buy them stuff. Girls looking for sugar daddies will expect that some guys are like that. Culture difference.
The fact of life is that most men cannot get over the look factor...while, women, certainly can...
LOL! I completely disagree with you. Women are into looks JUST as much as men are. Studies have shown this. What people say they want differs from what they gravitate toward. For the long term, both are into personality a lot. When it comes to the foot in the door? LOOKS. When both aren't looking for an LTR? LOOKS LOOKS LOOKS.
That doesn't mean personality doesn't play a role. But for everyone, looks is a requirement. You don't know their personality beforehand, so which way you going to go? Better looking one, of course! When someone is really great looking and gives you that "sham wow" feeling, what you'd call personality flaws in someone else will be cute quirks in them. You become less picky.
Now don't get me wrong... many gals will take status & money to help compensate for looks (like that isn't superficial). And guys like status more than people believe, too. And there are desperate-to-be-a-desperate-housewife types out there who will take an average Joe in looks for good lifestyle cash.. and some women intimidated by looks, just as guys are... but excluding exceptions, it's looks being the strongest quality. Doesn't mean it's everything, but it's the strongest. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/16/2009 2:22:29 PM | | when i first meet someone and i am not totally wowed by their looks i still hang around and see if they have a good personality...if their is something else there i can get into them for some other reason besides good looks...on the other hand, i have met men who i thought were nice looking but when they opened their mouth i was turned of by what came out of it ..so looks alone do not make the man... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/17/2009 7:22:55 PM | I feel that, as previously stated, the "hot" women with average or below looking men may be with that man for financial reasons. So why wouldn't the opposite be true? Why wouldn't a hot guy be with an average woman who is wealthy? The fact of life is that most men cannot get over the look factor...while, women, certainly can...
So, are we supposed to admire women over men because they'll compromise on looks if a guy has money? I'm not so sure this is something to brag about, nor does it make a women more open minded. It just means she's traded in the importance of one superficial quality (looks) in favour of another (money).
What would be far more impressive is if a hot person (male or female) gave an average looking person a chance based on their personality and quality of character. Obviously that does happen, just not very often. If it did happen a lot, it wouldn't catch our attention so much when it does. It would just be part of the normal. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/18/2009 8:18:33 AM | Oh please! I am very average looking, but I've dated models, strippers (that hid it from me), actresses and just beautiful people in general. Trust me, they give average looking guys chances. Online or otherwise. Show your personality, some flair! Oddly enough, a lot of them that found me online... found me, not the other way around.
Here are my experiences:
A = a model that was young and gullable, I felt more like a big brother telling her what to avoid and the ins and outs of dating and shady people.
B = a model that found me and 6 years later, we still know each other. She travels the world modeling.
C = an beautiful musician. Our ages were just different. She dated me 3 months just because i was a nice guy and that's what she needed. We met through my client that wrote her songs.
D = a beautiful fetish model that found me and turned out to be a user
E = found me and told me she was a night watchman, 2 months into the relationship, she admit she was a stripper.
F = found me, never told me what she did, until after she lost interest and told me she was a stripper
G = a B-movie actress that found me. She was very plain Jane until it was time to be in movies. She turned out to have a lot of issues.
H = a model and actress since she was 9 that found me through A. She went on to completely lie about things | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/18/2009 2:16:42 PM | Hmmm.. hot girls not giving a chance to an average looking guy? Maybe he only thinks he's average and the hot girl thinks he's HOT so she's intimidated? I didn't read all 41 pages, so I don't know if someone's come up with that possibility yet.
I've seen guys I consider *hot* with average looking girls. I wonder, sometimes...then I just figure he's tired of the nutty hot girls and wants a gal who is more normal (in attitudes and outlook on life) and not focused on her looks. I've found that a lot of girls (and guys) who fancy themselves to be hot walk around like they really are the sh*t and that is really unattractive.
I can't speak for hot girls....their thought processes depend on what age bracket they are in. Looks are IT when you are younger, and when you get older you tend to focus more on other things (imho). I go for what I feel is attractive to me.....and that's subjective. It also depends a lot on what comes out of their mouths! Lots of people speak drivel when they try to carry on a conversation.
Of course, some people think they should be able to get anyone to out with them at least once because *they are just so great*! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/18/2009 2:47:43 PM | Enchanted
I'm getting over not getting over not being able to get anyone out just once.:p
You're right "Hot" is in the eye of the beholder. I prefer a "look" as to looks. A tan, leggy blonde in a black slinky dress is my weakness. I do enjoy funerals too much | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/18/2009 3:29:50 PM |
I didn't read all 41 pages, so I don't know if someone's come up with that possibility yet.
41 pages over the course of 4 years at that. That's some SUPER necro action right there.
My answer to the question is that women set their standards and refuse to settle...regardless of whether or not the fit the bill for the kind of guy they are looking for.
Just because he is worth her time, doesn't mean she is worth his. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 10/18/2009 10:16:58 PM | Enchanted Skies,
Looks are IT when you are younger, and when you get older you tend to focus more on other things (imho).
No, you're right. The older one gets, the more personality has a stronger force of attraction or repulsion. I used to think when we got older, our standards for looks went down, but actually, I think for the most part we want people we truly "click" with... and with too many people letting themselves go after their early 20s, one's perception eases too.
I go for what I feel is attractive to me.....and that's subjective.
Well, in terms of looks (not just picture-looks, but full animation looks), yes and no. There is an objective baseline in general, but yes, subjectivity is injected into it that smears it from being too universal. It's far and away not purely subjective when it comes to looks, it's an additive which for most people, isn't massively different. Personality? That's much much more of a subjective call that's going to vary more.
hot girls not giving a chance to an average looking guy?
In general, "hot girls" don't give chances to an average looking guy, if there are great looking guys in there eyes around. True, there's plenty of fish in the sea... where there will be that hot girl who's chord is struck by an otherwise average looking guy by 99% of the population, but that certain "look" or "swagger" (both visual) got her. Or if the guy "isn't bad looking", and she's gotten to know him a bit thru a circle of friends, and she's really picky and angry about most guys' persona but just loves his, sure, she'd take that up over a better looking guy that gives her a bad vibe like most others.
But all in all, looks is the dominant factor. A social hot girl who brings a lot to the table and isn't considerably unique from the rest is going to most likely to only take resumes from above-average to "hot" guys, and all other things considered generally equal -- the better looking guy gets picked much more often than not. It's just nature! | |
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