| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 6:11:12 PM | | While many guys like the thrill of the hunt, I find it unpleasant. You meet someone, and they fall for you, and you aren't able to reciprocate those feelings.. then that's a bruise to their ego and self-esteem. That's always been the toughest part for me to deal with. I can handle rejection, but hate doing the rejecting. Of course, there's normally a little drama associated with it too. Don't get me wrong.. My standards aren't so high, it's just that i'm looking for that person who "completes me," to quote Jerry Maguire :-) | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 6:26:20 PM | "... i gave up. hence the foray into the fishpond lol."
Maybe that's the best thing you can do at this point. I reflect back on when my relationship of 14 years took a dive, and how I felt soon after the divorce. Despite the fact that I pushed for it, I struggled with the idea of taking her back, cuz of the loneliness I felt. It took nearly a year before things started to feel right again. I wondered if and when it ever would. I really believe the old addage that "things will come to you when you least expect them to, and in the most unlikely of places." ... So I wait. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 6:33:10 PM | | Oh, and daddysgirl- Kudos to you for being so grounded as to go with what's in your heart, and not letting those on the outside to influence you. Friends can really push the boundaries of friendship, sometimes. Maybe they will learn from it and apply it to their own lives. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 7:03:32 PM |
lateforsupper- It's what makes us tick... assures the survival of the human race. There's nothing stronger than the need to find another
No disagreement here, bro'
The fact is, ....my scenario is more consistant with what "drives" us..... on an evolutionary mechanics level.
My point was:
ALL women are potentially,
hot
Unless one eschews the mechanics, ignores the truth, is bound by the constraints of a Madison Avenue template. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 7:38:07 PM | WAIT A MINUTE THEIR ARE AVERAGE GUYS(myself included)and they can get hot girls .i have three little magical wrds for you!!!!GROW A SET!!!!!.Dont be intimidated if your interested talk to her .granted its not alwys that easy to do d*mn tounge gets tied in knots start to sweat.so by the time you actually try to talk to her you look like some sort of stuttering sweaty perve.So what try again,be yourself dont assume you know what shes looking for and try to emulate that you'll look like an ass.Also why do you have to be looking for a super model most of them seem to go through relationships,as often as eating disorders.TAlk to all kinds of women really find someone you are attracted to on more than one level youl have much better results and possibilities.
OH yeah, and change that sweaty shirt you look like a perve......LOL | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 7:50:33 PM | | i always thought no girls liked me!!! and i didnt really care much for the girls in my area. then i later discovered my love for hispanic and other exotic women. and they much more like me than the typical females around here.so i guess it works out in the end. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 7:52:35 PM | @22
I believe just about all guys do,thanks to playboy,S.I.,MISS AMERICA,....ETC...
But at some point we grow up and realize that their is more to life and love than just the physical..
before all you guys jump on me i still read playboy,and the S.I. swimsuit issue.....yadda yadda yadda,BUT I REALIZE THEY ARE JUST FANTASY YOU KNW LIKE WRESTLING...LOL | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/20/2005 8:13:31 PM | The fact is, ....my scenario is more consistant with what "drives" us..... on an evolutionary mechanics level.
And so too is it the reason why the "Home for Unwed Mother's" is forever seeking contributions.. Umm, I meant monetary contributions. Maybe higher standards for both genders would help subdue this trend. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/26/2005 11:39:05 AM | | I would like to start off saying that don't think only men think that way....Lots of women think that way as well....and what you think is "HOT" someone else might see them as average.. were all attracted to different types of ppl..everyone is attracted to different things whether its a persons body type, hair color, eyes..or personality.... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/26/2005 11:58:18 AM | | Yo Jazzy Trumpet... Keep'n it real !!! Unless your in American pie 2 kick'n it with Shanon Elizebeth, your sterotypical hot girl is just not gonna kick it wit a dorky dude. Not anything more then friends anyways. Yeah women say that looks and style are not important, but these same women are the ones who lust after the LL Cool Jay's and Vin Disels of the world..How many women do you know fantasize about Bill Gates ? Or Dr. Phil ? Other then probably spend'n their money !! I'm not tell'n you to change or nuff'n cus the number one thing is to be yourself and to love yourself. But at the sametime there is nuff'n wromg with add'n a lil style and flare to your wardrobe. Watch the movie "Hitch" I'm sure you'll be able to relate to it. It should still be play'n at your local movie theater !! GOOD LUCK WIT THE LADIES BRO !! I'm pull'n for ya ! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/26/2005 12:07:41 PM | | that quiestion could be turned around also, as to why does a hot guy never give a average looking girl a chance, i think looks or age shouldnt matter in a realtionship, but to some ppl it does, personailty and a sense of humor should be first way before looks, because if u end up with a beautiful person on the outside but they have no personality then you are in for a boring relationship, and there looks will fade in time, but there sense of humor and personilty will remain!! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/26/2005 12:18:28 PM | | This is very true... alas we as humans always want the "shiny" Things .... Kids don't eat veggies cus they look gross. Yes whats on the inside is very good for them the vitamins will help them grow big and strong. But.... as children we'd rather have candy !!! It looks sooo good so glamerous but yet it rots our teeth and can turn us into fat obeist adults... We work so hard in our adult life. If you dream of driving 2005 Ford focus please rais your hand ? Its so reliable on the inside won't give you any troubles great car ! Now if you dream of drving a 2005 Lexus convertable please raise your hand... Hmmm I'm see'n a lot more hands. Both cars do the same thing they take me to freak'n work ! Sorry to say this but to humans whats on the outside REALLY does matter ! Thats why today when you went to the grocery store buying apples you but back the apple that had a dent in the skin and picked up the real shiny red apple ! | |
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