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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/3/2009 7:21:28 PM |
Birth control is not that hard to figure out. And most of the women I have known who actually had something going for them got an abortion, gave it up for adoption, or didn't get preggo in the first place. Read, "Birth control is not that hard to figure out."
Are you one of those guys that its ALWAYS the woman's fault? Its the woman's fault that her husband started ****ing around on her after 20 years of marriage, or that he died, or some other reason.
Oh, its not your preferences that offends me "soldier" its you ideals, and your "I'm hot, that's all I need to get by in life" mentality. Try going to Hollywood, you'd fit in there... Maybe Paris Hilton will be your next girlfriend...
Now, excuse me, this "uneducated pathetic woman" has a test tomorrow to get an A on that I didn't study for. Some of us are naturally intelligent in our field of choice and don't need to study all night for a test.... | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/3/2009 8:10:34 PM |
Are you one of those guys that its ALWAYS the woman's fault? Its the woman's fault that her husband started ****ing around on her after 20 years of marriage, or that he died, or some other reason.
Maybe I'm wrong, but I always think that when people are discussing things of this nature, they are not speaking of divorced women, but are referring to women who chose to have children out of wedlock, often in less than ideal circumstances. | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/3/2009 8:22:19 PM | Did you ladies know one of the hottest erotic terms today is MILF? It stands for MOM I'D LIKE TO .....
Take my word for it. There's tons of guys out there who want to marry single moms. Not because they're pedos wanting their kids, but because the thought of a woman being a mother and sexy floats their boat.
The one reason I'd think a guy is missing out is that many moms won't be as wild as women with no children. I may be wrong about that, but I'd say that is one reason.
As for me, I would marry a single mom, and I would also marry a woman with no kids. If the personality isn't up to par, she'll meet the magical boot, kids or not. | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 12:31:26 AM | Are you one of those guys that its ALWAYS the woman's fault? Its the woman's fault that her husband started ****ing around on her after 20 years of marriage, or that he died, or some other reason.
Oh, its not your preferences that offends me "soldier" its you ideals, and your "I'm hot, that's all I need to get by in life" mentality. Try going to Hollywood, you'd fit in there... Maybe Paris Hilton will be your next girlfriend...
Now, excuse me, this "uneducated pathetic woman" has a test tomorrow to get an A on that I didn't study for. Some of us are naturally intelligent in our field of choice and don't need to study all night for a test....
Don't forget an old alchoholic who needed to pop out a kid in order to fix herself.
He he.
Strangely enough, I am not addicted to anything and don't have any drama in my life... and I didn't even need to get preggo to get there!
;)
Much love.
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PS. I was tested in the fourth grade and I am in the top hundreds of percents IQ-wise.
Additionally I have no problem stating that I am better than other people.
It's not because of what I was born with - but because of what I did with it.
All most of you know about me is that I don't like single moms. I have done great things in my life - terrible things as well.
Like bosox, I don't take personal pride in being born a superior human being. I'm faster (.02 second reaction time), stronger, smarter, more agile, and more logical than most other people in the world.
The difference between her and I? She's humble and I'm not. ;) I know I'm better than other people - I'm cocky as ALL hell... and guess what? Hot chicks like it. Hot women are drawn to self confidence like a moth to a lightbulb. Self conscious women hate it because it just illuminates how little they like themselves.
Wacka wacka wacka!
I'm crazy and I like it! ;) The mark of genius. You should see my study/workroom. | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 12:54:26 AM | PS. I was tested in the fourth grade and I am in the top hundreds of percents IQ-wise.
They throw out scores in the national percentiles until you reach the age of 14. Children naturally have a higher IQ than adults when tested on the same scale, which is why there are tests now specifically tailored for children and to compensate for the Flynn effect.
Unless you use the natural ability to think, think, think while you are young, your adult IQ will not be proportionate to the one you had as a child. I am in near the same percentile as an adult as I was as a child, but my IQ is not the same. My brother never uses his intelligence potential, and as a result, he dropped an entire percentile in IQ as an adult. He is still considered gifted, but no longer a genius.
Just some food for thought.
My IQ may be in the top 2%, but I share my particular IQ with 455,430+ other people of the last 50,000 years. Why should anyone be cocky about that?
1/50 people are in the top 2% of IQ scorers. Is that really that exclusive? | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 1:17:49 AM | I was post high school in every school subject in the third grade.
I was reading the Walstreet Journal at 7 years old.
My parents thought it was cute that I was trying to act like Daddy... and had no idea I was destroying my innocence.
I knew was rape was at 8 years old, and read about war. I knew more about the vietnam war than some vets at age 9. I could make booby traps and knew how to make gunpowder at 10 years old. I wrote my first short story at 9.
I have been consistently quicker and more knowledgable than my teachers since I was about 7 or 8 as well. All the way into college. I was put in the gifted program in elementary school and it bored me to tears.
Still, I don't take pride in that. I had no control over what I was born with. What I DO take pride in was how I have used it. I have saved lives. I've saved lives both literally and metaphorically. I've stared true evil in the face and kicked the shiz out of it. From offering a stranger a ride out of a bad situation, to saving the life of a child at the pool, I've always done what had to be done.
I am a fukcing warrior. It was what I was born to do. I no longer believe that my path is in the military... my job is to be the person at home... the "real man" that people can go to in times of need and not be turned away.
Ever since I was a child, I have protected those who could not protect themself. I was the geek who destroyed the bullies picking on retarded kids. I was the boy who told the other boys that I would stick my pencil in their eye socket if they innapropriately touched the girls in class again. I was the man who the girls in college felt safe around, and who kicked the dogsiht out a man who was trying to rape a girl behind my apartment complex.
I am a sheepdog. I have a heart for the helpless - this is why I feel so strongly about children's welfare, and why I think it's so sad that so many kids are not given a chance in life. I have chosen to use my gifts to help people. I have healed hearts, and allowed people to overcome their problems with a single conversation.
I have to be strong because someone does. I have to face the dark because if I don't, who will? I have to do the icky things that nobody else wants to because I fukcing REFUSE to let any more people I know, or even don't know get hurt by evil. I REFUSE! If it kills me I will stand between the dark and those who do not have the strength to protect themselves.
I am taking this time in exile, this dour time in WV as an opportunity to sharpen myself. I am a tool of the Lord, a weapon, and I will recreate myself as deadly as possible to destroy my enemies.
I let myself get soft and weak... and I could do nothing to help the people around me. The people dearest to me. I will NEVER let that happen again. Chivalry is not dead - nor is the soul of a warrior poet. The mark of a real man has nothing to do with who he dates... and everything to do with whether he will stand up for what he believes in.
I believe in justice. And I will see it realized.
;) There ya go. That's a little bit about me that does not involve, "yay for vasectomy." | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 1:32:27 AM | Soldier;
You do not need to run down who you are to me, I already like you. The point I was making is that being cocky about an IQ test taken in elementary school, or at all, is not the mark of a genius.
Even everything you've just written lacks so much humility it is just so sad. I'm glad you've helped people, but isn't the purpose lost when you broadcast how great you are because of those things?
All through school I thought I was better than everyone else because I got things fast, taught myself college-level algebra in the 2nd grade and numerous other things I was asked not to do to skip ahead because I could. I should have been put in a gifted school but my mother wouldn't allow it. Instead, I alienated everyone around me by sleeping during class, never doing the homework and then my tests scores caused everyone elses' to be lower because of the Bell Curve. This was even in AP courses.
I was incredibly witty, intelligent and beautiful and I had 2 real friends. TWO. Why? Because I was breezing through with no regard for the people around me, not realizing how hard they were working. Not caring how much I disappointed my teachers by never studying or doing the work they asked me to do.
I didn't get it. I do now. I hope maybe you can, too.
It's not other people's faults that their IQ isn't as high as yours. They didn't ask to have a tougher time than you in understanding things, just like you didn't do anything but get some good DNA to help your brain function on a higher level than theirs. Be proud of what you are, but don't rub it in others' faces. If someone talks down to you because of your intelligence, stand up for yourself, of course, but outbursts about how wonderful you are because of your IQ are downright arrogant, especially since you don't even know what it is.
I like you, but you honestly need to learn some humility or your IQ will never increase, and no one will care if it is the highest IQ in history; 203. I went through a time period where I thought I needed to pretend to be dumb to make friends, and I've since learned that humility is the greatest compliment to any IQ, low or high. I am learning to be more compassionate, and I think that's something you should work on, too.
What does a high IQ matter if no one wants to listen to what you have to say? | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 3:50:10 AM | ^^^^
Humility is overrated.
I don't do it well.
It's one of my few character flaws but it's a big one. I don't take offense when people don't like me. I realize that I am not an easy person to live with.
That said, I have redeeming qualities. I just am too intelligent not to know my own self worth. I am getting back into shape too so I will be physically superior again.
I relate to your time at school... I really do. However, we are different genders. The way people perceive us is different, and the standards are different. My college professors get really angry when I sleep during class.... and HIGHLY irritated that I blatantly ignore them and then get the highest grade in the class.... true. This has been kind of a recurring theme in my life.
But most people find my irreverence charming - even inspirational.
Some people thrive on my self confidence. Just being around me has been enough for people I've known to grow a backbone.
Arrogant people are generally called either b*tches or azzholes. While we often hear, "Hot women only like azzholes!". One seldom hears, "Hot guys only like b*tches!" I would contend that if I were any less arrogant, I would not get the attention from the opposite sex I get, nor the opportunities in life I have been handed.
I like who I am. A lot of other people like me too. I am well regarded just about everywhere I go. Women tend to throw themselves at me on a consistant basis... and I'm happy!
Why in the world would I want to change myself in any possible way? It's a serious questions. Just to be more acceptable by the standards of society? Additionally, WHY do some of those standards even exist? Or should I stifle myself and not point out to my collegues that the world is not flat, and is actually round like a ball?
Keep in mind too that one's posts are not the measure of the man. I have a certain amount of charm and charisma. Additionally, I actually do give a crap about the people around me. Which is more preferable - to be the humble man who turns a blind eye to the suffering of others.... or a ridiculously arrogant man who tries to make a difference? | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 6:23:02 AM | Oh shit...I knew I went to bed to early last night.
Soldier...my 10 year old nephew tested genius about 2 years ago. The worst thing my sister ever did was TELL HIM that he did this. Now he has this superiority complex that he in no way deserves. We tell him all the time that all that test tells you is that you have the ABILITY to learn at a higher aptitude then others might. You can still be dumb as a bag of rocks.
Keep in mind that my nephew asked us if he could really have robot legs after the Grandma's House movie and carried a plastic spoon around all summer once as his companion.
Now I only took around 4 psych classes in college and it isn't my cup of tea. I'm a numbers girl...black and white but you sound that you have self esteem issues no matter how much you scream that you are so confident. Lets see...you were fat as a child, 27 and working at a gas station, divorced and objectify women. It is understandable that you have issues. Hell...if you still lived with your mom (do you? ) I'd probably put you in the likely serial killer category.
PS- My husband is a confident, sexy man. I swear confidence just seeps out of his pores. He is the sexiest man I have ever known partially because of this. Your type of "confidence" does not do that. Your type of confidence is good at picking up drunk chicks at bars and mall rats. | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 7:14:05 AM | All these "I know I'm a genius because.." posts are making me thing.
I have one good friend....because I don't really care for people and it's too much damn trouble friendship is. My one friend feels the same so neither of us feel butthurt when the other one is just like "I don't feel like doing that" and cancels plans.
One year in high school I forgot my locker combination about half way through the year and never bothered to get my books out and made A's.
I read War & Peace in 6th grade and wrote book reports for fun.
In 7th grade I taught myself how to play the clarinet but seriously...how fun is that?
In college I have never "studied" and have NEVER actually read a chapter. Pshhh. Who has time for that? Give me the assignment and let me turn it in already. And when I was actually attending classes and they passed the law that they couldn't fail you due to absences Oh what a glorious day!!
I performed Heimlich on a friend in high school that choked on his sausage biscuit one morning in the cafeteria.
I stood beside my friend while she pulled out and lost control of a motorcycle slamming into a metal gas station pole. Causing all her teeth to fall out of her head, breaking the bottom bone of the eye socket and her eye falling out. And while the pool of blood gathered I immediately had the ambulance on the phone.
Damn....I'm a genius.
Oh did I mention I started out life with cerebral palsy and took 8 years of speech therapy and 6 years of physical therapy because my muscles did not form correctly? No one would even know it now and if I ever do bring it up they are shocked. Why don't I bring it up more often? because I don't remember it! Usually it happens when someone brings it up and I'm like "Oh yeah...I have that" or if an acquaintance is distraught that their child has just been diagnosed with it and to bring them some comfort. It doesn't sit in my mind at all times to pull out like a weapon like your so called genius does.
I've never taken an IQ test because I don't CARE. What does that get you in life except for a superiority complex? I have better things in life to concern myself with other then how smart I am. | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 7:59:43 AM | | Soldier, your post made me sad for you. Bosox you are a very intelligent woman, it is stated from your posts, not because you breezed through school. Fab-mom you on one hand talk about Soldier's superiority complex, which he undoubtedly has, but your next post you talk about how great you are too. I won't even begin to talk about myself or "how great I am", but the urge is there; I asure you. One question, if you are all so smart, why is there so many errors in your grammar and spelling? No time? | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 8:07:20 AM | Lol. I did it on purpose. To show we can ALL post about the great things we did in our life. I am not normally the one to stand up and be all "Woohoo Look at me and my awesomeness" I in no way even THINK I'm awesome. I'm a normal person that waste the work day posting on a public forum. How smart can that be?
Ok...I do take back that I don't think I'm awesome. I really do. Lol. But I also think most people have their own awesome attributes and it's like comparing apples to oranges to try to say one person is "better" than any other. | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 8:13:54 AM |
Oh did I mention I started out life with cerebral palsy and took 8 years of speech therapy and 6 years of physical therapy because my muscles did not form correctly? No one would even know it now and if I ever do bring it up they are shocked. Why don't I bring it up more often? because I don't remember it!
Wow, did you really have cerebral palsy? I had no idea it was something you could cure or grow out of. That's amazing. | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 8:17:37 AM | No I said later in the post that I HAVE it. You do not necessarily grow out of it or cure it. It's just that my complications from it are so minimum that I don't really "feel" like I still have it. Like I have almost "grown out of it" I don't notice the affect of it in every day life. Kind of like it is in submission. lol.
*edit to add* I have been told however that it will more than likely cause complications as I age. And ever since I can remember I've been in some form of pain (back, legs etc) but you just kind of get use to it I guess. I can't compare it to other peoples pain because I can't feel that but I've always felt that I hurt more then a person my age should.
Hmmm...maybe that's why I'm so b!tchy...Lol | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 8:21:21 AM |
No I said later in the post that I HAVE it. You do not necessarily grow out of it or cure it. It's just that my complications from it are so minimum that I don't really "feel" like I still have it. Like I have almost "grown out of it" I don't notice the affect of it in every day life. Kind of like it is in submission. lol.
That is still pretty amazing. I'm glad to have learned something new about this terrible affliction. | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 8:24:36 AM | That's part of why when I've had girlfriends that have had children diagnosed with CP that i make sure to reach out to them. I have always been met with tears of joy and seen the hope in the parents eyes. It took a lot of work on my part and so much sacrifice from my parents and my siblings but in the end it turned out ok.
i will add that on my medical records it does state that it was a mild case. But it was bad enough I guess.
Oh! My best girlfriend found out only last year when she text me during the Miss America competition about one of the contestants having CP. She was gorgeous and further proof that you can have a normal life!! | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 8:30:16 AM |
Even though I enjoy all of their posts from time to time, I wondering why if they were all so smart they are “arguing over the internet” surely they’ve all heard that old saying
I am all about this. That's why I posted about myself:
I'm a normal person that waste the work day posting on a public forum. How smart can that be?
Entertainment. Just like reality tv
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 8:44:45 AM | Bosox you are a very intelligent woman, it is stated from your posts, not because you breezed through school. Fab-mom you on one hand talk about Soldier's superiority complex, which he undoubtedly has, but your next post you talk about how great you are too. I won't even begin to talk about myself or "how great I am", but the urge is there; I asure you. One question, if you are all so smart, why is there so many errors in your grammar and spelling? No time?
My post does not say how great I am. I said specifically I had TWO friends. I hated myself for how great I perceived myself to be when I was a CHILD, because all it did was alienate everyone. What I said was how great I WAS NOT. I was born with character traits that I had read into as making me the most wonderful person on the planet. I didn't understand how I wasn't. Now I do. I still have flaws, and I'm not longer proud of things I didn't work incredibly hard to get or accomplish.
When I was illustrating my breezing through classes, I wasn't pointing out that I could. So can many, many others. I was pointing out how rude and arrogant it was. Now even saying how I've learned to be humble so that I can be a better person instead of running around being proud of the DNA I was born with I'm saying how great I am.
I've also never stated my IQ, and I wish you didn't know that it was at least 132 on the Wechsler scale. Just remember though, that BILLIONS of people have had an IQ that high over the last 50,000 years. 1/50 people you meet will have an IQ that high.
By the way, I haven't taken an English course since I was 19 - and I have been programming every day since then. That's why my punctuation and grammar has suffered. Like I said, my IQ doesn't make me do anything. If you don't have or try to gain knowledge ("smarts") your intelligence is basically worthless.
I'm done with this forum, because of this very reason. Speak whatever you will of me, I no longer care.
Thank you to those that complimented me, and those of you who read words that weren't there, you need to evaluate yourselves. Insecurity is just as bad as misplaced egoism. | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 8:45:56 AM | Oh and Bosox my replies were totally directed at Soldier even though I do think I pulled some of your examples. Not towards anything you said. Or not intentional anyways.
And I believe you'll be back :) The single parent board Is like the crack of forum boards. | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 8:58:59 AM |
Oh and Bosox my replies were totally directed at Soldier even though I do think I pulled some of your examples. Not towards anything you said. Or not intentional anyways.
I thought that was the case. I was a little confused on a post about "How I was an egotistical little beeotch who had no friends," would be misconstrued as thinking I was great.  | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 9:01:09 AM | Lol. No I swear it wasn't towards you 
And I want to add that i am normally not this b!tchy....give me a couple weeks and I will have the nicotine completely out of my system and be back to normal. I normally don't lash out at individuals but ideals..but hey...it's keeping me from strangling my husband by taking out my frustration on POF for now. lol
But yeah...I do realize I have been overly bitchy the past 2weeks probably. Sorry. | |
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| How are Men missing out, If they choose not to Date sigle moms
Posted: 8/4/2009 9:19:07 AM | I just am too intelligent not to know my own self worth.
You aren't intelligent enough to know that constantly assuming that you are superior than everyone else isn't very intelligent. I honestly feel like you stick to this forum to maintain your feeling of superiority, which seems more like insecurity to me now. I wonder how the IQs of others here match up to yours.
It needs to be above 100 to have the ability to learn 12th grade material, it has to be at least 120 to be taught up to the 4th year of university. 125 to be educable up to a PhD. An IQ of 132 has no educability limits, and this includes character traits you can learn.
Humility is a learned quality. I wonder how you perceive our IQs to be compared to what they are. I almost wish you knew how many people here are gifted and possibly it could be humbling and you would recognize how important that is.
Which is more preferable - to be the humble man who turns a blind eye to the suffering of others.... or a ridiculously arrogant man who tries to make a difference?
The humble man wouldn't turn a blind eye. The arrogant man would be perceived to be doing it for the wrong reasons, and his intention would be lost. When self-confidence turns to egoism, most people stop listening.
Lol. No I swear it wasn't towards you
And I want to add that i am normally not this b!tchy....give me a couple weeks and I will have the nicotine completely out of my system and be back to normal. I normally don't lash out at individuals but ideals..but hey...it's keeping me from strangling my husband by taking out my frustration on POF for now. lol
But yeah...I do realize I have been overly bitchy the past 2weeks probably. Sorry.
Good for you quitting smoking! Genius! :) | |
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