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| Would you forgive your EX when they've committed Adultry?
Posted: 1/11/2007 5:22:18 PM | | One of the main reasons I thank God I never made that leap is because when you stand before your God and make those vows to honor and cherish til death do you part..those are supposed to be sincere words of oath. All I can say is thank God I didnt marry those in my past as yes they were big time cheaters. I am a one man woman and a serious believer that if you are not happy with whats at home, clean out the closet & move on. It makes no sense draggin someone else into an already unhappy environment. And yes like all the others said, once a cheat, always a cheat. If they cheated on someone else you can best believe they will cheat on you. And I say hell no..dont forgive that ****...she deserves nothing but your disgust. She broke the vows not you. She's the trash that a whole lot can say they had not you. Leave her in the dust and ride off into the sunset. Believe it or not there are still some decent women out here that are loyal, and trustworthy like me. I dont believe in cheating. And will never associate myself with cheaters, homewreckers or anything like that. Ask any married man on here that has tried to contact me...he will tell you I put him in his place real quick...so..be strong and forget that trash..ok...either way, if kids are involved, they will survive...as long as they know you love them, thats what matters..take care | |
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| Would you forgive your EX when they've committed Adultry?
Posted: 1/12/2007 5:22:14 AM | I am so sorry to hear what you went through i on the other hand went through the same thing but married for 25 year to my high school sweetie we dated from when i was in 9th grade married after we graduated the first 20 years of our marriage was fantastic but then he got a new positon where he worked had a female boss that was pretty in a sense i guess his excuses was that he had to work late one night i decided to surprise him at work bring him some dinner well in his office he and she was both there (alone of course) i walked in his office lord behold they was both there not working but complete nude holding each other they both was in shock to see me but i just stood there with nothing to say hurt and empty i dropped the bags slowly walked back out the door drove home not crying but just confused i guess or maybe shocked he got home about 15 minutes later tried telling me it is not what it looked like i told him it is ok it is his life he can do what he wanted to i ended up moving out the next day went back to Ga to be with friends and family never told none of them what happened up here in michigan i filed for a divorce (that he did not want) he said we can work it out well in my eyes and heart mind there is no working out nothing once it is done it is done there is no turning back pages or acting like it never happen i believe if they do it once they will do it again again they will tell you what ever it takes to turn the table to make you look like the bad one when they are so you need to stop and seriously think it out before you file for the divorce make sure it is what you want and if you do stay with her how does that make you look to your self not others we do not really care what others think we only care about what we think ourselves. Good lick on your choice.
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| Would you forgive your EX when they've committed Adultry?
Posted: 1/30/2007 10:47:36 PM | | I personally believe that marriage is something that you enter into once. The ONLY and I mean only reason (for me and many people that share my faith) for divorce should be that your spouse has commited adultry. Divorce is so common that it is hard to find someone who hasn't been married, but 4 times?! She is a habitual divorcee. She has probably had similar situations in her other marriages. I tend to live by the "Once a cheater, always a cheater..." phrase. You need to forgive her, but not forget what she did. It is possible that she would do it again. This is totally a decision that you need to make on your own. No one can tell you a right answer, because it's different for everyone. Just don't get caught in her web of decite. She's sad now, because he didn't work out, but what if he had...would she have thought twice? God bless, and I wish you well! | |
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| Would you forgive your EX when they've committed Adultry?
Posted: 1/31/2007 4:57:33 AM | | Greydragon, I totally understand what you went through with this. I was married for 30 years to a minister! He drove semi during the week and I guess he figured, out of sight out of mind, during the last 11 years of our marriage he had picked up over 50 hookers and I knew nothing. Its a sickness inside of these people who can shut a wife or husband off and do what they want to do, then come home like nothing is happening, and say "I love you". I forgave, forgave and forgave, but soon realized he was not going to stop lying. You have to think of yourself here, not her, she didnt think of you and your feelings when all this happened, she thought of herself, the new guys wasnt what she thought he was, etc. It seems like its all about her in her life, a marriage is putting the other one first, when you are married two people become one person, not just 2 separate people doing what is only best for them. In my experience, the hurt was so bad I nearly took my life over it, I was in total shock and all that time he was my hero and I had no idea what he was doing. After 3 years of separation I divorced him, this whole thing hurt his kids and grandkids, so its time for people to think of other people and not be selfish. I hope you can get past her and find a woman that loves only you. I will keep you in my prayers. | |
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| Would you forgive your EX when they've committed Adultry?
Posted: 8/15/2008 6:33:08 AM | Forgive.. but never forget. Once i divorced my ex.. i can happily get over it.
Really.. i sleep better at night.. no more hard feelings.
Then again.. i havent forgiven "the her" in the mix.. But i dont have to share kids with "her" either.. The SLUT..  | |
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| Would you forgive your EX when they've committed Adultry?
Posted: 8/18/2008 6:39:47 AM | you know. i have sympathy for men who have been given the cold treatment by thier wives.. Some feel like they are being held hostage by guilt. It really sucks .. BUT
Just dont ask me to get involved in the mess your life is in. I dont need that sort of shame. Guilt and shame passed on.. lovely relationship that would make. | |
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| Would you forgive your EX when they've committed Adultry?
Posted: 8/18/2008 8:48:54 AM | | ^^^^^why would you stay with a woman that you no longer make love with?...a twenty foot red flag for both sexes...at our age you'd think we'd of learned that by now...kids, bills, house etc. no excuse | |
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