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Posted: 7/28/2009 1:12:27 PM | Just because some older women like younger men, doesn't mean they are going to have sex with them.. Any younger guy that feels that way is a moron!
I value friendship first with anyone I meet, and I take it from there, if we are compatible, I get to know the person and see if we have any kind of a future together..!
I like quality people, not whoremongers..!
Meaning I deserve to be treated with respect, and if the person doesn't show me respect they will not be in my life for long..!
That goes for any woman or man whoever they meet in their lives..!1 | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/28/2009 2:34:49 PM | | Well over in England you shot them all. Cougars are a cat that is also called a mountain lion and primarily it lives is the mountains in the west but they have been spotted in the rural parts all across Canada and the U.S. I thought this was a dating site. When did it turn into National Geographic? | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/28/2009 6:30:43 PM | This is way tooooooo funny !!!
I don't know where your cougars are from, but here in California they are Gorgeous
physically fit women in their late 40-50!! Geez I think we gave it the name~~
LOL
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/28/2009 6:44:43 PM | | I am so lmao. Daydreamer, that was way toooooo funny . guess he didn't know this was a hunting grounds too lol. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/28/2009 6:58:23 PM | Cougars...bah. (I'm 42.)
Now, ask me the question 20 years ago...they weren't called cougars then, but as a young GI, I very rarely dated women under 35. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/28/2009 8:12:41 PM |
I don't know where your cougars are from, but here in California they are Gorgeousphysically fit women in their late 40-50!! Geez I think we gave it the name~~
Thats wonderful daydreamer. Now all you got to do is send some of them here to the east coast.
Just Kidding.
Go Cougars!
And may the younger ones keep loving us older guys!
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/28/2009 9:54:21 PM | cougars favorite spots:
country music club
Calgary stampede
merritt festival
carlton club
my neighborhood,lol | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/31/2009 2:02:38 PM | | why is this such an issue .. age is a number... my mom was with a man 14 yrs her junior for 25 yrs ... till death did they part.. he was the best thing that ever happened to her .. and since her death 7yrs ago he has remained single | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/31/2009 3:39:28 PM | | Hey, I guess you would say I'm a cougar> I am 56 and prefer a man my age, but most of them in my area can't keep up with them (seriously). I am active and like to get out and prefer men around 10-15 years younger. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/31/2009 4:06:22 PM |
why is this such an issue .. age is a number...
To me, this sounds kind of unrealistic. Age IS a number and age IS a reality and age IS an attitude. There aren't many of us that would date a 10 year-old or a 90 year-old. There are many people -- of either sex -- who act much younger than their chronological age and those who act much older.
And, as a man of nearly 60 years of age, I can tell you that there are mighty few 30-something women that would even get a second thought from me. If a woman doesn't know the Beatles, Father Knows Best, or flying before 9-11, it's not likely we'll have much in common.
Me thinks those young males who are attracted to what a "cougar" has haven't grown enough to understand that what attracts them is confidence, experience, and the knowledge to use both. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/31/2009 4:19:43 PM | | All my friends used to get on my case for always going for the younger guys all my life,well not that I wasn't preyed upon as well.I guess you can say I was and am still a "cougar" waaay before it was fashionable! | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/31/2009 5:45:30 PM |
I am 56 and prefer a man my age, but most of them in my area can't keep up with them (seriously). redflower314: I agree with you dear. Most women my age can't keep up with me! So I know how you feel.
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/31/2009 5:56:07 PM | My friends know to shoot me if I ever some how lose mah mind and embrace the "cougar" lifestyle. Where Im from, it isnt a compliment to be called one!!
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 8/1/2009 7:49:26 AM | message 443:
I don't think there is a "cougar" lifestyle...it's a derogatory term used by immature guys and women who don't realize just how derogatory it is.
There are younger women/older men, older women/younger men and people of similar ages. That's how it should be...whatever works for the couple.
If a younger dude wants to date or sleep with an older woman...there's nothing new in that...it's been a "rite of passage" I'm sure, dating way back. The media just placed a condescending label on it.
And for message 426, BigDaddyVI...I don't know if I've read a more rude, crude, lewd, low comment...ugh. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 8/2/2009 6:20:27 AM | | Why is it a compliment to be called a cougar? Someone needs to explain it, because I'm offended when twenty-somethings approach me and they are very BOLD. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 8/2/2009 9:42:27 AM |
Why is it a compliment to be called a cougar?
I don't think it was ever meant as a compliment. Goldigger, sugar daddy, cougar, etc., isn't complimentary. But, those who fit into those categories need to place some sort of positive spin on the title.
A person can choose to date who they want. I think it becomes most degrading when they demean/degrade others as a means to justify their behaviour and distract them from the real issue(s). For example, I know of one cougar in particular who claims men her age can't keep up. The truth be told, she suffers from depression. In order to combat her depression she keeps herself busy and distracted. Thus, taking her pills every day and dating young guys gives her that opportunity to fight her depression.
She's hiding the issue rather than coping eith it.... I've known her for ten years-plus. She is an emotional wreck.
It's not that all cougars are this way. It really comes down to the psychological affect it will bring years down the road. I've always stated to many, including my daughters, "If you don't respect yourself you have no right to insist others treat you with respect."
Not only cougars, but others who think being sexually active with many partners is something to aspire to, isn't really thinking about their own emotional well-being for the long term. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 8/3/2009 6:26:30 PM | Actually, it is a coined term by Linda Franklin,the real Cougar woman. Check out the website. Cougars are classy 40+ age women who have their age together and younger men are attracted to them for that and their self confidence (plus they are MORE expereienced) | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 8/3/2009 6:55:34 PM | i would not mind being a cougar...maybe somebody with a five years gap...woman have power ...it is wonderful....my friend has been with a younger man for over fifteen years..she is married with two kids...good luck | |
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