| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 8/3/2009 8:07:59 PM | MY FANTASY CAME TRUE !!!
I was 19 she was 35 . it was about the time MY TUTOR came out. I wanted the older woman, and I got her. She was married and flawless (and frankly still is, I see her ever so often).
There are tons of guys after young girls so why not women after young guys. I lived my fantasy, help some chap live his!!! | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 8/4/2009 3:00:59 PM | | I checked out the website and I have to admit I was surprised, it's not what i thought. The real cougar is an attractive, and confident woman who can be herself and proud to be just that. She is not limited in her thinking and thus attracts men of any age, because of her vitality and zest for life. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 8/4/2009 3:54:12 PM |
I don't think there is a "cougar" lifestyle...it's a derogatory term used by immature guys and women who don't realize just how derogatory it is
It is a lifestyle. How many men or women who date younger people are actually seeking and expecting a long term relationship to result from their relationship? Many admit it is a phase they are going through - just like older men buying the proverbial "sportscar".
There are younger women/older men, older women/younger men and people of similar ages. That's how it should be...whatever works for the couple
On the other hand, the success rate for a long term relationship is minimal. And in many cases, the relationship ended because one of them have gone back to seeking someone their own age. I wish there were statistics (unbias) statistcs available. I am aware of four current relationships where there is infidelity - three of them are cougars who hooked up with a secure older gentleman while screwing several of my younger "associates".
Trusting a cougar (or a man of the same lifstyle) is a different topic. But, from my vantage point there are credibility issues based on the behaviour associated with this choice of lifestyle. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 8/4/2009 4:27:07 PM |
Cougars are classy 40+ age women who have their age together and younger men are attracted to them for that and their self confidence (plus they are MORE expereienced.) oops, I meant to say have their ACT together---
Well, they also have their age together! That's what makes "older," age-appropriate women so attractive.
An understanding of why men my age want women my daughters' ages has been beyond my grasp for a very long time.... | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 8/22/2009 8:46:55 PM | | Well, this is what I like to read - the truth. This message contains the true definition of a 'cougar'. It's a shame that we have to use labels, I admit that I'm not crazy about being known as a cougar; I'm a woman who happens to mostly prefer younger men. That's it, folks. As one matures, you find out exactly what you like and dislike whether it is food, lifestyles, clothes, jobs, you name it. I've found out finally that I adore younger men - not every younger man, but there are just so many that have a certain spark and are so very open-minded. Just because I'm a cougar, does not mean that I'm not fussy about who I will date. Everything else stills applies...intelligence, personality, morals, etc. I am still surprised at the wonderful younger men that I've been meeting. And will continue to meet! | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 9/22/2009 1:05:49 PM | | I overall favor cougars to all other girls. my ex that was 34 was the best one I had the others were 20-18 | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 9/22/2009 2:34:19 PM |
The real cougar is an attractive, and confident woman who can be herself and proud to be just that
It seems as if having sex with someone younger is just an ago boost. Afterall, if you need to have sex with someone in order to feel attractive, confident, etc., I think there is a lot more to the issue.
I've experienced many women my age (49) dating much younger guys. I don't have a problem with that. I think it's the disrespect and rude behaviour they show towards men their age (especially when cougars are with the younger group) that truly exposes their mentality and their emotional state of mind.
Steve Harvey put in words quite comically. Paraphrasing, it went like this:
"You are all lovey dovey and stuff. You can't keep your hands off each other and the sex is great. The young guy is appreciating the maternal side of the older woman until the inevitable happens....... she starts to incur health problems and/or change of life issues. When a woman needs the support most these young guys bail out; they go seeking a younger cougar."
I would not feel the least bit attracted to a woman (when I'm in my 50's) who has lived that lifestyle and decided, as she got older, to settle with someone her age. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 9/26/2009 9:48:48 AM | | Cougers are great because they bypass the mind games that younger women play and get straight to the point. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 9/26/2009 10:15:12 AM | for a guy in his early 2's she would still be a cougar of sorts if she looks for young men for sex, and i would take the bite.
sometims i wish i could look younger to get the attentions of a cougar,i would give her a real nice time. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 9/26/2009 10:27:34 AM | | I don't mind banging a cougar...as long as she's not some goldigging single mother on welfare abusing the system. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 9/26/2009 12:35:54 PM | | Although our parks and wildlife department contends there are none in our county, the workers at the power plant say there is a cougar near the 2,000 + acre cooling lake. The lake and surrounding land have been a part of the power plant since 79, and much of the surrounding land must have reverted to pretty much wilderness. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 9/26/2009 12:44:17 PM | Ive actually had a lot of invites from younger men. Some of them as young as 22. Now here I am ,44. What would I do with him? I suppose its flattering but not when you realize that its not really actually YOU that they want. Its the fact that you're old and they want to try someone more experienced. Plus, its the Hollywood thing to do.
*rolls eyes
Id just like to find a nice fella my age or older and show HIM mah..... experience.
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 9/26/2009 1:11:29 PM | I have never dated anyone younger than me, but I might give it a try someday. However, what is considered too young? If someone says, "Your son looks like you." The poor guy is history.  | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 9/26/2009 4:08:16 PM |
Although our parks and wildlife department contends there are none in our county
Played golf on a slightly remote course a few years ago, about 20 miles west of me (I'm 40 miles west of Philly), first light tee time, and the feline tracks across the sand trap at the second hole were more than 6"-wide depressions, and much too far apart to be any bobcat. The whole northwest quadrant of PA is all woods, very sparsely populated except in the corner, and the cougar sightings are posted on the billboard at the Fin & Feather, the local everything store, but the state insists there are none here either. They're lying, of course.
I'm waiting for whoever took the last timber wolves from that stretch to put them back. Might drown out some of my nocturnal emissions. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 9/26/2009 4:29:56 PM |
If someone says, "Your son looks like you." The poor guy is history. lovinlifeat44: I totally agree with you. If someone asked me if the woman I was with was my daughter it would make me feel uncomfortable. Even further, if when one goes to meet his/her father and mother, and they are younger than oneself, this should raise a big question mark of one's judgement as well as be a serious reality check. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 11/14/2009 2:02:06 PM | I met a younger man (19 years younger). He and I have a great number of things in common but we chose not to start a relationship but to simply be friends. The reasons---he has 3-5-10 year old children and the relationship would be short lived. When he is 50, I would be 69. When his 3 year old is out of college, I will be 78 years old. Quite frankly, I could not imagine being with a 78 year old man right now.
It can happen. It does work, I can throw the numbers around but the bottom line is that I don't want to be responsible for a 3 year old at this stage of the game. If he didn't have the children (don't get me wrong--he is and should be responsible and I applaud him for that), I might rethink it, but I still think the longevity would ot be there. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 11/14/2009 4:37:12 PM |
What do you think about cougars?
I think everyman should own one! Just kidding. :-)
Cougars, Mustangs, Age is a non-factor.
What difference does it make as long as EGO is left at the door. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 11/14/2009 4:59:36 PM | Most younger people just don't have their shit together in general. I dated only 1 girl much younger than me(14 years), and the drama and imaturity was too much for me. Sure they have a nice body, and the sex is good but the rest i can live without.
I can't imagine why a woman can't find a guy around her age or a few years younger and be happy with the similar life experiences, maturity, etc. Someone who has to have someone 10 or more years younger than themselves constantly , has some issues, IMO. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 11/14/2009 5:15:51 PM | I am one rockin cougar, or so I've been told. The only difference between me and the rest of my pack, is that I am actually wanting a relationship. Most of the younger guys I meet just pop the label cougar on me tho, and remove my humanity with a cougar stamp that apparently says: "Cougar: wants sex only" 
So I am a sad and confused cougar who is looking for real love! 
And yes girls, sex gets better in middle age! mos def. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 11/14/2009 5:20:48 PM |
So I am a sad and confused cougar who is looking for real love! "Cougar: wants sex only"
Yes Barbyanne2, I know the feeling. I'm looking for love too, but guess I'll have to settle for sex.
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 11/14/2009 5:22:14 PM | | They are supposedly gone from around here, though the people at the power plant claim they have seen one in the woods around the cooling lake. | |
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| What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 11/14/2009 5:37:20 PM | | I really think its a derogatory term. Just cuz I'm over 40, to assume I'm a cougar isn't fair because I'm not out "hunting" and certainly not looking at men 20 years younger than me. Besides, how many 20 year old dudes know what they're doing? I'm not gonna waste my time trying to teach them. | |
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