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 RapunzelRapunzel

Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 26
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Are you worried about family and friends knowing you are on this site?
Posted: 5/23/2006 8:53:38 AM
Shoot naw, the folks at work know I have had more than a few internet dates. I don't broadcast my affiliation here mainly cause some of my forum posts are pretty open and, though I really have nothing to hide, they might think me crazier than they already do!

Mel
 anni

Joined: 3/10/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 5/23/2006 9:00:03 AM
I don't care who knows I frequent this site.

Some of my friends know and are tempted to try it themselves.
 BrownEyedLeo

Joined: 1/5/2006
Msg: 28
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Posted: 5/25/2006 2:35:02 PM
I do not live my life to please my family and friends. However, nothing I do/don't do would shock or surprize my family and friends. They accept me and love me for who I am. Why should me being on a Singles Site matter to them?
 tralala

Joined: 1/3/2004
Msg: 29
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Posted: 5/25/2006 7:56:38 PM
No..... and i know someone who is reading this
 FantasyFlavor

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 5/26/2006 2:06:51 AM
No,I'm not worried about anybody knowing or seeing me here.
I have both family & friends on this site,some that I introduced
to the site.I have nothing to hide & no shame in being here.For
the most part,it's been nothing but a positive experience for me!.......
 nipoleon

Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 5/26/2006 2:22:01 AM
One quick tour through the forums gives a good idea of what POF is all about.
I try to encourage my friends to join.
 catluviv

Joined: 5/6/2006
Msg: 32
Are you worried about family and friends knowing you are on this site?
Posted: 5/26/2006 5:53:48 AM
I joined pof because of friends talking about(a negitive way) how could people do this.
I hope they all are reading this. They think it is terrible, well let them, I love this site.
 shellsmack

Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 5/26/2006 6:09:35 AM
I went on a date last night with a local man from another site. I asked him: DO YOUR FRIENDS KNOW YOU'RE ON THESE SITES? He said, "Oh no, I don't think the town of blah, blah, blah would appreciate it."



OK. Then why are you even on these sites if you're embarrassed or afraid it might ruin your reputation? My goodness.
 diggerbob1

Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 5/26/2006 8:13:05 AM
All my friends know that I am on this site. Some of them think I'm nuts. Well nuts to them I have made some good friends on here and will continue to do so untill I meet the right one for me.
 picker_grinner

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 35
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Posted: 5/27/2006 10:00:17 AM
Yes, that is why I encrypt my profile and my forum posts.
 widowsdesire

Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 36
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Posted: 10/1/2009 8:40:37 PM
I am not embarassed by this site. In this day and age online "dating" or more appropriately online "meeting people to date" is commonplace. I have met some really great people here, and met my current beau here.

A majority of the single adults I know and have talked to about dating have tried some form of online dating at some time or another.

As far as I am concerned it beats meeting someone in a bar on a Friday night.
 DivineBovine

Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 37
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Posted: 10/1/2009 8:41:55 PM
geez, no!

i've got co-workers on this site!

 Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 10/1/2009 8:59:56 PM
Nope. They are amused as am I.
 kari135

Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 39
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Posted: 10/1/2009 9:01:09 PM
All the ones who would be interested know. I keep them pretty much up to date on what's going on. I also know other people who have joined various sites. I wouldn't have told my mother, though - she absolutely believed the internet was the Antichrist, and she woluld have worn herself out praying for me.
 daffie

Joined: 8/1/2007
Msg: 40
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Posted: 10/1/2009 9:56:23 PM
what a pathetic thing to be "worried" about.

says more about how immature you are than anything else...
 sassy_scorpio

Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 41
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Posted: 10/2/2009 12:04:24 AM
My friends are married so they don't use sites like this.

My daughter knows and encourages me to send messages out.

I wish more people in my area knew about this site because it sucks that
most of the people are pretty far away. There aren't many profiles within less than 25-50
mile range.
 FriendlyFreeSpirit

Joined: 7/27/2009
Msg: 42
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Posted: 10/2/2009 12:45:47 AM
They know - and my teen daughter think it's "totally embarrassing, Mum".
It sort of is...
 Hearttune

Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 43
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Posted: 10/2/2009 2:25:37 AM
I could care less if they knew, but I'm not going to walk around in a POF t-shirt. And I like to retain a degree of anonymity on the internet. It's like wearing an internet condom to me. After all, what is more anonymously impersonal than engaging on the internet?

Maybe I'll go raw and put my pic up tomorrow.
 Sacharissa

Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 44
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Posted: 10/2/2009 2:32:29 AM
They know I’m on a dating site, but no way would I tell them which one. I’d be worried they’d look at my profile and tease me, or worse, pretend to be a potential date!
 cookie22222

Joined: 8/4/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 10/2/2009 6:02:40 AM
Friendly Free Spirit - come on now, you know that WHATEVER you do, it will embarrass a teen!!!

My boys know I'm online (not the specific sites). They find it worrisome, but since my fiancee died 5 years ago, and they are getting older - I've been fighting off the "it's our job to take care of you" thing...I have made headway on that! My extended family knows, and doesn't say anything (all married)...my friends of course know, don't you people tell your friends stuff like that? And my coworkers, well, those who are also single know and have been pointed in this direction by me!

Who cares?
 Gue$$who

Joined: 9/18/2009
Msg: 46
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Posted: 10/2/2009 6:29:18 AM
it's all about technology, is it the best place to find someone, at times I wonder but its still a possibility.
 outdoorgirlsunshine

Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 47
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Posted: 10/2/2009 6:34:56 AM
My close friends know I'm here, but I haven't told the police or our local newspaper yet.

outdoorgirl.
 rearguard2

Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 48
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Posted: 10/2/2009 6:40:31 AM

but I haven't told the police or our local newspaper yet.


Probably a mistake. Either one of those organizations would likely be able to rustle up a few good prospects faster than the internet....
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 49
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Posted: 10/2/2009 7:09:59 AM

They know I’m on a dating site, but no way would I tell them which one.

It doesn't matter which one... Google indexes the forums too... you can find POF postings just by googling a phrase and if the phrase is in POF it displays a link to the POF posting
 Childlike Wonder

Joined: 8/29/2009
Msg: 50
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Posted: 10/2/2009 7:15:04 AM
I haven't shared the link, but it's not a secret I meet all sorts of wonderful people via the internet. There's nothing in my profile or my forum posts I'd be embarrassed for someone to see. One of my coworker's mentioned once how often I seem to have lunch dates or after dinner drinks and I told her I meet men I've gotten to know here. She said, "Oh I could never do that." Too bad I guess; she's home with her dogs and I'm out meeting people and having fun.
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