| | Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?Page 6 of 8 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8) | | The biggest factor is probably that most of them are growing up in broken homes, pecieving that daddy left, when in reality, mommy gets favored in the custody battle. | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/24/2012 7:51:38 PM |
Mary-Ann from Gilligan's Island, or Jeannie, or Princess Diana, or Jaclyn Kennedy,
I love this list. I would like to add:
Betty from the Archie comics.
Velma from Scoobi Doo (oh wait, she was the smart one. sorry)
Cinderella and Snow White.
As for the real people on the list, Diana and Jacqueline Kennedy, they were just real people with pretty innocent faces and piles of money to do good deeds with. I'm sure they weren't always happy with the pedestals that they were placed upon. | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/24/2012 9:00:17 PM | I have a general idea of what you're saying OP, but I think obviously the majority of women you're going to see are the party girls if you're picking them up as a taxi driver. I don't think this subject goes too much beyond that. Teusweet also makes a good point,
<div class="quote"> Nice gentle kind women like myself own my own car and dont need a cab! I was going to say that too.
I also feel like on a general scale there's an imbalance in self confidence between the male a female genders. From my experience, it seems like males as a whole seem to have a lot less self confidence in their female counterparts. Women nowadays seem to be exuding confidence, especially younger girls in their 20's. Why? And where do they get it that males don't? Where ever they get it, I'd like some.
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She's sitting in a chair outside family court, waiting for her ex to explain to the judge why he can't pay child support.
This also makes me sad. I've seen so many people destroyed by their spouse or each other after a premature marriage. It f*cks things up big time. And it's not fair when there's a victim. But I have a quick fix. I feel like we should raise the marriage cap to 25. Yup, illegal to marry until you're 25. Perfect. | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/25/2012 9:32:26 AM | | Maybe you shouldnt date your customers. It's hard to peer into a persons soul with a rearview mirror. This might sound totally insecure, but if I met a guy and started dating him by way of riding in his cab, I would think my date/boyfriend would be tempted to be with other clients. Yeah, I would be insecure.. anyways. There are a lot of people who get into a cab when they are not capable of driving (I've done it), and you might see a bad girl at this time, but this might be a once a month/week thing. So, yea, she might be a good girl in most ways. We all act "bad" every once in a while ;) | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/25/2012 2:23:41 PM |
The biggest factor is probably that most of them are growing up in broken homes, pecieving that daddy left, when in reality, mommy gets favored in the custody battle.
Let's twist that one around a little, most of them are growing up in broken homes perceiving that daddy left because he never bothers to visit or call. Still not sure what that has to do with being sweet, innocent, gentle, caring, kind and little shy.
Or how about, she is an idealized model of male oppression from the 1950s? Just as likely as the either of the above statements.
How about, she was never real?
Or, she's not taking cab's home after last call at the clubs?
I like women who are gentle, caring, and kind, and a little shy.
This describes my son's fiancee when she was younger. Guess what? The gentle shy young lady wouldn't ever take a cab. Shy she might have shy, but she still wasn't all sugar and spice and everything nice. OP you want something that doesn't really exist! | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/26/2012 8:30:18 AM | | Good grief, sweet and innocent girls grow up and become mature women who have to live in the real world of creeps and bums and sexual predators. Are you looking for girls or mature women?? Yah silly YETTI. | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/26/2012 8:33:20 AM |
Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Some moron abused of her goodwill and turned her into a bitter and gold-seeking paranoiac 
Most people, men or women, start out good. It's life that makes them bad. | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/26/2012 11:45:22 AM | Do people really believe that maturity and innocence are mutually exclusive.. ?
I guess the answer to my question is self evident according to the responses here. | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/26/2012 12:37:32 PM | The sweet and innocent girl got punched and hit by the 'not so sweet and innocent guy' and now portrays an image of aloofness mixed with ' don't talk to me creep' vibes...
Clearly the story will be different for each used to be 'sweet and innocent' girl but the females I see who used to fit into this category are now worldly wise and trying to navigate a harsh world whilst maintaining some small portion of their innocence.
Oh and Shakti... I stole your sentence and threw it on my profile - hope you don't mind but it really rang true to me :)
Glad you don't mind - I thought it was worth saving :) | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/26/2012 12:56:57 PM |
I like women who are gentle, caring, and kind, and a little shy. Angelic might be the right word. A little fragile. You know Mary-Ann from Gilligan's Island, or Jeannie, or Princess Diana, or Jaclyn Kennedy, or most definately the woman that was choosen on, if happened to watch it, "Joe Millionaire". You the ones who volunteer, take their gramma shopping, is kind to everybody, and dresses conservatively.
However, I'm meeting a lot of oversexed, harsh, maneaters (that may be to harsh a word, more man battlers), bitter women, or airhead partygirls that should be in a girls-gone-wild-video.
Are all these sweet and innocent women in hiding...or what?
LOL Hate to tell you but your "Fantasy" woman doesn't exist...
Hahaha, WROOOOOONG!!!!!!!!!!!!
Go OVERSEAS! Or hunt the new arrivals in your area!
To the OP, I know what you are talking about. SOme hints at why you need to focus on foreign born and raised ladies in your area or by actually looking outside the US. Reasons and differences are as follows:
1)Foreign women are very feminine and proud of it. They dress, look and act feminine, and do not try to become masculine like their American counterparts, which is not attractive to normal men. They act sweet and modest, and are proud to wear skirts, dresses, and other feminine attire - which many American women find oppressive and degrading. Foreign females keep their hair longer to look feminine, which every man prefers, rather than cut it short like a man's hair, which no man likes. When they step off or onto a vehicle or train, they are glad to take a man's hand, whereas American women are too proud to do that.
2)They are sweet and modest, appreciate niceness, blush and giggle, and like to hear compliments. Such qualities are inherent in true femininity - but absent in American women. Also, young foreign girls (especially from Asia) commonly blush and giggle, a trait long gone with American and Western girls - who are too tough and masculine to do that. But all normal men love it when girls blush and giggle while interacting with them, and in response to their compliments. It lightens the mood and is very sweet, cute, feminine, and attractive to guys. It also makes guys feel young and desirable, like school boys again, which they like as well. Moreover, blushing and giggling are indicative of a sweet, modest, and feminine nature, which men like because it naturally complements them. In short, guys simply feel good around such girls
3)They still believe in old fashioned romance. The kind of romance you see in films from the 50's and 60's still exists in the minds and hearts of foreign women - whereas modern American women see that kind of romance as an unrealistic childish fantasy (obviously because it doesn't exist in their hearts anymore). But foreign women are not jaded toward romance. They still have a certain purity and innocence within their hearts and spirits that is open to "love" the old fashioned way - which has become lost with Western women. This is good news if you are a guy who still believes in and longs for old fashioned love and romance. | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/26/2012 1:03:01 PM |
Such qualities are inherent in true femininity - but absent in American women
I think I'm going to be sick. It happens when I see people still living in the 50's and not realising we're in 2012. | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/26/2012 1:03:33 PM |
The sweet and innocent girl got punched and hit by the 'not so sweet and innocent guy' and now portrays an image of aloofness mixed with ' don't talk to me creep' vibes...
Ahhh, yes, that reminds me. I left out one more piece of info, the old "men are creeps" that ONLY exists in the minds of American ladies.
Opposite of the American women's "men are creeps " mindset
Foreign women generally treat men better and appreciate them. They admire and respect men, and do not carry an attitude of disdain and contempt for them, nor harbor a "men are creeps" attitude (unlike American women who deem every man as a "creep" unless he proves otherwise). They seek relationships with men, rather than resist them. Men feel more relaxed around foreign women because they are authentic, down-to-earth and not so defensive or paranoid. It does not feel like walking on eggshells when you are around them. They do not twist your words around and use it against you. | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/26/2012 1:10:26 PM | I think I'm going to be sick. It happens when I see people still living in the 50's and not realising we're in 2012
I agree 100% minus the "sick" coment. What the OP and many men are looking for is the qualities women had in the US prior to the 60's which still exists in 90% of the world's cultures (i.e. Latin Am, Asia, former soviet republicss) . But that dont exist in the feminazi cultures of the West which happen to also top the divorce rate charts by the way. The statsiticsal correlation of feminism and divorce rates are just a coincidence right? If you believe that fine. :)
For men like capn america who love the modern feminized woman, more power to ya bro. Many other guys have posted in these forums how they prefer otherwise :) To each their as they say.
Well, OP is obvious in that camp so I am replying to him then. :)
You can get the same fantasy on a 6.99 a minute 900 line.
Yes, in the minds of most Americans it is fantasy. Stats show that something like 95% of AMeircans dont even have a passport much less have any experience abroad. So how could you know. It remains only fantasy. What they know of the outside world exists from watching the boob tube :) | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/26/2012 1:20:45 PM |
sweet and innocent, is boring,(to me)
you can have my plate....
I will take naughty,and wild lol
Ha ha ha. Good one. Well, for playing around, the US is a great place to sow your wild oates and hit the bars and clubs for 1 night stands. Hit it and quit it is the US culture now days. Social psychologist Jean Twnge did state that the USA has now become a hook up culture.
Another cultural-level manifestation of the narcissism epidemic in relationships is the trend toward “hook ups,” aka “friends with benefits,” and other commitment free relationships. These types of sexual encounters are perfect for a narcissist who can get what he wants but then easily move on to the next partner, no strings attached. (The Narcissism Epidemic, pg 224)
Narcissists favor short-term relationships. That may help explain why hookups have become so popular. We cannot say for sure that one causes the other. All I can say is these are two trends that go along with each other. (Jean Twenge - Newsweek)
Overall, it is striking just how many symptoms of narcissism appear in the trend toward hookups, including lack of emotion in relationships, physical vanity, and antisocial attitudes and behavior. With hookups, it often plays out with broken hearts when one partner wants the hookup or “friends with benefits” arrangement to evolve into a real relationship, and the other doesn’t.
Yes, the US culture teaches men and woman to be whores. Great. Lets have fun and maintain our WORLD LEADING DIVORCE RATE and out of wedlock births. (Arnt out of wedlock briths around 60% in this ocuntry now)Marriages at ALL TIME LOWS too. No need for marriage anymore. We can just hit it and quit it and go from relationship to relationship. Its great! | |
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| Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/26/2012 1:25:11 PM | you have a good point.. women these days give it away.. I see it all the time in the bars I work in.. why do we have to marry you anymore, it use to be that a girl kept something sacred...or she was real discreet. now women have sex like men do or we use to... yeah for women.. and guess what... I dont want anything to do with women like you
And its just not younger girls.. I see the older women on the prowl too | |
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