| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/16/2007 9:10:21 AM | **OT** Heck no!! What's to be afraid of??
I am addicted to the forums and have met many wonderful people thru them. I Love it here!
So educational and it helps to pass the time and to learn from others about that which burdens us.
Great site! Great people(Mostly)!! 
God Bless
Scott
P.S. Hey Wolfie!! How go's it? Aren't you supposed to be somewhere?? Like in the "Southern quotes" forum?? LOL!! Just pikkin on ya!! See ya there!! | |
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/16/2007 10:24:28 AM | [I am addicted to the forums and have met many wonderful people thru them.]
Funny you should say that eagle, I have met a man on here and don't get me wrong I read the forums and enjoy them and I have posted a couple of times, but I think my man is addicted to these things too cause he spends more time in here on these forums then he does talking to me. They seem to come 1st. I'm not jealous, but it does bother me just a little.
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/16/2007 12:57:05 PM | Well, when I say addicted I mean when there's nothing else to do. I'm sorry for your situation however if I had a S/O these forums would be the LAST thing I'd be spending my time with.(Respectfully)
I am addicted due to too much time on my hands every now and then.
Best of luck and God Bless
Scott | |
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/16/2007 2:46:26 PM | I am addicted due to too much time on my hands every now and then.
He doesn't get on them when I am with him, only when we aren't together, but he will get on here and stay for awhile before he ever even thinks of, calls or comtacts me in anyway. As stated before, they come 1st. Like I said I'm not jealous, just seems strange. His profile on here is hidden and so is mine, cause I am not looking anymore and he says he isn't, but this matter just kinda confuses me. I guess I just want to be 1st before a computer website forum.
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/16/2007 8:12:53 PM |
[I am addicted to the forums and have met many wonderful people thru them.]
Funny you should say that eagle, I have met a man on here and don't get me wrong I read the forums and enjoy them and I have posted a couple of times, but I think my man is addicted to these things too cause he spends more time in here on these forums then he does talking to me. They seem to come 1st. I'm not jealous, but it does bother me just a little.
sparkles,You need to leave him now...If (and it should bother you) you are bothered by it now.It aways will bother you and it will never change until you talk to him.Or leave his a$$.The computer is the #1 cause for divorce these days.I myself,I like the forums and alot of the people.But if I get serious with someone I will unplug my computer and thats a fact.I think the good people iv met on here could understand why.Peace-Out
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/16/2007 8:54:02 PM | I enjoy the forums. My new fella knows that I come here to read, debate, vent, laugh etc. Now that he is in my life, I don't get to post as often, but I do try to read. I share with him the insights I have gained.
Addicted (who me?) Nah, never, unh unh, no way, not me, wouldn't dream of it.........
methinks I doth protest too much!
Hell Yes I'm addicted! | |
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/17/2007 7:55:54 AM | [sparkles,You need to leave him now...If (and it should bother you) you are bothered by it now.It aways will bother you and it will never change until you talk to him.Or leave his a$$.The computer is the #1 cause for divorce these days.I myself,I like the forums and alot of the people.But if I get serious with someone I will unplug my computer and thats a fact.I think the good people iv met on here could understand]
Thanks there Wolfie, as you are probably right, I should leave him now. I have made comments about this to him and it does no good. He says I'm being silly and not to be that way. Even tho our relationship is still fairly new, I have read some of his post that he has made recently and he has made remarks like that if he had a S/O he would do this and that like I don't exsist. That really bothered me, so I guess it's time to kick him to the curb. His profile is hidden, but that don't stop him from looking at the profiles of others and contacting them. NOW with that being said, I wonder. I guess I'll move on. | |
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/17/2007 3:12:50 PM | ^^^ I have to agree with wolfie on this one. I have been corresponding with a guy for about 2 months now, and he saw something I posted on a forum and got really upset about it. Not that we are a couple, just if you are trying to build a relationship, you need to limit your time on the forums and be careful not to hurt their feelings. I explained my comments, and all is well, but I do watch my comments now.  | |
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/17/2007 4:04:12 PM | [ just if you are trying to build a relationship, you need to limit your time on the forums and be careful not to hurt their feelings]
Well I totally agree with that. That's what is confusing me, he knows that I read the post on here, I don't know if he realizes how often tho. I don't know it is still so confusing to me, only because it is a new relationship. I have written in my profile that I am not looking anymore, and I'm here for friends and occasional forum post, and my profile is hidden, and so is his. However, I've noticed he has added new pictures to his profile and no mention that he has found someone at all. It does say he is here for friends only tho. When we spend time together he is very attentive to me and the forums aren't a problem he doesn't even get on them. We do have some distance between us, so I usually have only managed to get to see him on weekends. It's just he is the 1st man in 2yrs that I have went out with more than 1 or 2 times because of the chemistry between us. Sometimes I think I am just being selfish and insecure about this. If you read his profile you would think he was a great guy and to my knowledge (besides this forum thing) he is. I know, I know, talk is cheap and the things that he has said on these forums and the amount of time he spends on them is what scares me that maybe he is a player in disguise. I guess I'm in denial, but I'm not gonna settle for the BS if it bothers me so bad and he continues with the comments like I'm not even in his life at all. I guess he is doing it that way just in case someone better comes along. Because he has mentioned getting emails from people even tho his profile is hidden and he likes it. Don't know when or how I'm gonna handle this, but it will be sooner than later, for the sake of my peace of mind and heart, and maybe I'll cast my line back out, but I'm not gonna hide from him or anyone else to do it. And I will be done with him when I do, I'm a 1 man woman and I don't play games, not of the heart and mind anyway.
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/17/2007 7:03:58 PM | Sparkles, when I first started reading this thread, I thought, "so the guy still reads the forums, what's the big deal?", but as you've divulged more and more details of how this guy is treating you (IMO, he's being very disrespectful of you), I've come to the conclusion that you really do need to get rid of this guy. By continuing to update his pics, and some of the comments you've alluded to that indicated he might be still "fishing," he's showing you no consideration. And you know what? If he's like this so soon in the relationship, believe me, he'll NEVER get any better. Remember: people treat you the way YOU expect them to! People will treat you only as badly as YOU allow!
I hope things work out for you, good luck!
Tony | |
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/17/2007 7:42:42 PM |
People will treat you only as badly as YOU allow!
AMEN!!
hey thinga...like your pic...good catch! lol
you have nothing to worry about.......can't believe you didn't want to put one up!
Much love
J | |
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/17/2007 8:09:49 PM | Hey Tony and JLove, Thanks for your comments. You are so right on with that, oh how I wish I could say who this guy is but I have more respect for people than that. He builds hisself up on his profile like he is a 1 woman man and he is looking for his soul mate and he don't play games of the heart and he don't want to be someone's play toy!! Well I guess its o.k. for him to do that tho. DANG!! I knew it was too good to be true. It's like I've always heard if ya gotta brag about it you must be trying to convince yourself and fool others to believe it cause there isn't much there to start with. I'll be o.k. I am used to finding losers, but I am working on that and I think I'm doing a pretty good job of it. I am recognizing them before I get too attached. I have talked to him a few times today and he knows that there is something wrong with me, I just haven't found the opening to lay it on him yet, but I will. I have already mentioned this to him before as I stated before, but I'm not gonna beat a dead horse. I do like him and wish him the best, but like you said he has no respect for me and I can't be with someone like that. I will keep ya posted. It's so nice to have others to talk to and get an unbiased opinion.
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/17/2007 10:39:53 PM |
Oh crap! I was trying to send that to someone privately, to show off my fish! How did it wind up on my profile?!
I dunno......but it was a good one!....
Guess it was just meant for me to see it...don't I know you?? LOL.........
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/24/2007 11:56:25 AM | My question is this **Sparkles**
Are you sure he is "your man"? or are you assuming such due to the fact that you've been spending time together? Have you discussed whether or not you both want a relationship? If so and have decided against it, then it is open ground as long as you are both monogomous and honest with each other in the regards of meeting another.
I believe it's a two way street and I am in no way defending his actions but to apprehend conclusions based on the facts given would seem rather taboo to me. IS he seeing other people? Is he a player? Why can't you just simply share these feelings with him instead of tearing yourself up over it?
As far as posting new pics and such, big deal! I know of many, including myself that change their pic's around regularly, doesn't show motive or intent and proves nothing.
I have friends on POF that are married, engaged and/or in a relationship that juggle photos regularly and fail to see the significance in this in correlation to your dilemna.
It's simple, if you have insecurities about the forementioned and/or him and his bahaviour, then I think you should bring it to the fore of his attention and nip it in the bud.
Also, by stating aspects of his proclaimed nature and intent in know way condemns him to being the opposite!
I take offense to such statement for what my profile states is FACT!! With a million references to back it up! Am I a player too?
NOT!!
Give it some thought...No offense or disrespect intended.
God Bless
Scott | |
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/24/2007 12:15:19 PM | Good post, Scott.
Ummmm.......didja notice that Sparkles came on long enough to whine about her "man", then deleted her account after making a few posts here?
Not worth offering advice to, since there are NUMEROUS posts about this same subject matter in the Global forums.
But, again, nicely worded post.
I must say, what a breath of fresh air to have other regulars here that know how to put a sentence or two together.
cheers~~ | |
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| Are people afraid to post in the Georgia Forums???
Posted: 1/24/2007 12:26:47 PM | **Blu Byu**
Thanks, the funny thing is, none of this has anything to do with the original topic! 
But it DOES answer the OT in a sense, who's afraid to post in the GA forums?? Not US! LOL!
God Bless
Scott
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