| What do you do when he calls?
Posted: 5/24/2006 5:35:14 PM | I'm sorry dear, but he doesn't trust you, and hasn't for a while. You've done many things to try to prove to him you can be trusted, and it's not enough. I'm speaking from experience here......it will NEVER be enough! You can cover your body from chin to toes, dispense with the makeup, engage in every phone conversation on speakerphone, and have him screen your e-mails, and if he's the jealous type, he will STILL find a way to accuse you of being untrustworthy.
If you were your own best friend asking yourself whether to turn yourself inside out yet again to give him time to decide if you're worth his time and commitment, what would you advise you? You need to love and appreciate yourself enough to say ENOUGH!
Can you be trusted? If so, don't let his issues cloud that certainty for you. Let him go and be neurotic with someone else. You don't serve yourself by being with someone who makes you feel like you have to constantly take the temperature of his level of trust for you. You'll only convince yourself that you're not good enough for him, when in fact he is not sufficiently evolved to commit to you.
Give yourself a break. And tell him thanks, but no thanks.
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