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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 5/29/2006 7:22:43 PM | Personally, I used to like goin to the cemetary..Just after my grandfather died I used to visit his grave often...This was when I lived in Hawaii..the cemetary he was burried at was beautiful..he was buried almost at the top of a hill, so whenever I sat near his grave, and just looked around..All i'd see was the beautiful mountains..it was peaceful..I'd sometimes pack a lunch and have a picnic there...It was just relaxing and peaceful......better than yoga..lol............
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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 5/29/2006 8:14:48 PM | I think it is an awesome idea. I personally enjoy reading old tombstones and looking at family patterns and wondering about the people and the families. much more interesting walk than just on a sidewalk, and a great way to icebreak. i would be impressed. but mostly, if you were happy and felt good after the date, then that's all that matters. the only question you've got to ask is do i want to see that person again because I enjoyed their company/attracted to them, etc.
but seriously, cool idea! bravo for a bit of spunk and originality. | |
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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 5/29/2006 8:24:39 PM | By the way this is my very first posting in forum world, how did I do?
You did just fine. It's kind of an odd date but if it didn't bother you then what the hell. I think that a first date depends upon what you discuss prior to the date. If someone expresses an interest, even an odd interest, and the other person creates a date around that interest what's wrong with that? Just make sure that your second date isn't at the morgue and see where it goes. | |
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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 5/30/2006 7:10:23 AM | You guys rock!!!..I enjoyed reading all the positive feedback and actually the neagative peoples comments as well! I would like to give you all a bit more info at this time too...I did know this tombone man since around Novemberish? My friend met him on POF and we hung out a few times as a group. I guess it was comfortable to talk to him on here seeing as we had already met and hung out before. We didnt stay at the cemeterey too long but did take some pictures and read aabout 100 stones, finished our ice cream (i had my very first drumstick) and left for the casino. Neither of us did well at the casino. He lost $60, I lost ten, but that was cause I was too chicken to lose anymore of that. I dont know if I would ever go back to the cemetery as a place to have a date, but I definetely would go back with my kid cause it is quite interesting there and I would enjoy sharing a walk there with here for something to do with her. You have to be a lil imaginative to have fun in life (and to get on the same page with a teenager daughter). For the funeral man, he would like to take me out for dinner on saturday, and I am wondering where, I hope it is not going to be Chucky Cheese....lol Thanks you for all the funtastic comments!!! | |
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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 5/30/2006 4:27:41 PM | First date at a cemetary... would really depend on the person and situation. I personally like a cemetary as I grew up with a very large one I could see not only from the front of my house but the back. It was nicely landscaped and quiet... nice to ride a bike, run, walk and think. I wasnt much into the spooky aspects of it as I saw it everyone there was dead so I had little to worry about. It would really depend on the person and situation... I would not want to go there and someone get spooked or start getting depressed or something thinking about a friend who died. I figure we all die... so I dont think of it as spooky... but I do get to wondering what they may have died from...
There is a famous cemetary in paris... too bad you couldnt go there for first date :) | |
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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 5/30/2006 11:28:45 PM | hahha...car wrecks, that is funny dude do i sound like one of those Crash movie fans OMG, maybe i do! I also really enjoyed the Titanic movie, does that make me sick?
can someone tell me why these forum postings do not show in my profile like in others profiles? | |
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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 5/31/2006 6:57:11 AM | | I don't think there is anything wrong with this date, its great you was so open minded enough to just go with the flow. Im known to go to cemetarys with my camera looking for paranormal activity, maybe thats what he was doing and admiring like you said the landscape and markiers, some of them are amazing art work. While im sure some will say yuk, gross and weird. If you had a good time and like him then keep going with it and have fun. | |
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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 5/31/2006 6:59:06 AM | | I don't think there is anything wrong with this date, its great you was so open minded enough to just go with the flow. Im known to go to cemetarys with my camera looking for paranormal activity, maybe thats what he was doing and admiring like you said the landscape and markiers, some of them are amazing art work. While im sure some will say yuk, gross and weird. If you had a good time and like him then keep going with it and have fun. | |
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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 5/31/2006 12:00:07 PM | What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 5/29/2006 8 57 PM it could be worse he could have taken you to a pet cemetery . woof woof
I don't know if you realize it, but that is a rude thing to say to her... | |
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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 5/31/2006 4:48:28 PM | Heart Breaker Salt Shaker, if you asked me to go to a cemetary, i'd probably go. But if you showed up in black, you'd definitely have to tell me what was going on at some point during the date.
I don't think it matters where you go or what you do, so long as you have fun and don't put yourself in any danger. | |
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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 6/1/2006 5:25:01 PM | have any of you got some interesting date places to share?
i have also met someone at the aution before, that was pretty different as well i like it a lil original and then it is more memorable | |
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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 6/28/2006 4:16:22 PM | Personally, I love cemetaries. there's one in Auburn Mass that is absolutely gorgeous and even some of the more dilapatated ones have a charm to them. You said the date was cool, so that means you enjoyed it and you didn't make any mention of his making you feel uncomfortable at anytime, so I don't see any reason why you shouldn't see him again, if that's what you want to do. And I think you did fine with your post. | |
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| What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 6/28/2006 8:14:37 PM |
What do you think about a first date at the cemetery? Posted: 5/29/2006 857 PM it could be worse he could have taken you to a pet cemetery . woof woof
I don't know if you realize it, but that is a rude thing to say to her...
I don't know if you know it, anewchapter, but you are probably the only person who read that, took it that way, and tried to make it sound bad. Jeez, I just had nice creepy images pop into my head when I read it. Feeling a bit negative about things, are we? | |
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