| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/23/2009 1:21:16 PM | FORGET THESE FOOLS THAT ARE ANSWERING YOUR POSTS AND THIS IS THE FINAL ANSWER. The reason men like '****es' isn't because they're smart and confident, it isn't because they're attractive, it isn't because they're fun....why?
Because not all '****es' are smart.
Because not all '****es' are void of insecurities, aka false confidence.
Because not all '****es' are attractive.
Because not all '****es' are fun.
Many '****es' are ignorant, insecure, unattractive, and full of drama.
Does this mean I hate '****es'-- NO. Lol, I'm just Mr. Honesty shooting himself in the foot.
Why then?? It's because they fit the profile of being a sexual object!!! That's it. It's that simple, and no matter what any guy tells you... it all boils down to that.  | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/23/2009 1:26:07 PM | I actually like a woman who isn't afraid to put a man in his place at the appropriate time. Major turn on that she can stand on her own two feet!
I guess it depends though in what context the '****yness' presents itself. If its over your head in the no-fly zone then she runs the risk of getting shot right down! hehe | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/23/2009 2:18:36 PM | Some as*holes need a good b*tch to straighten them out every once in a while and give them a run for their money.
Some *nice guys* like to be martyrs.
Some men like the chase and are all about catching a woman who has ridiculously high standards.
Some men don't have any balls, so they need a woman who can lend them theirs.
It's just one more dynamic between people that some dig and some will never understand. | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/24/2009 3:58:53 AM | | Arabian: You can't actually know someone just by reading crap in here so it's kind of presumptuous to claim you know what I'm actually like. I am opinionated at times in here but that has NOTHING to do with temperment. I find it funny that when women run men into the ground in these forums they're just speaking their mind but when a guy is opinionated, he's "dangerous" or "undatable". Somehow because I won't put up with being walked all over, I have a "temper". What a joke. So much complete hypocrisy in here. Glad to see you were watching my every word waiting to attack. Creepy or what. I have a news flash for you, every man, woman and child has things that makes them mad. It's called bing a human being. Everyone has a temper to some degree...except you I guess because you're perfect right? | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/24/2009 11:56:57 AM | | there is actually a book out called why men love ****es by sherry argov-great book! but it wasn't about women really being ****es but about women being confident in who they are and being assertive. men don't like clingy needy women... | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/24/2009 12:19:30 PM | ^^
hmm, see is 'b1tch the female equivalent of the 'male a-hole jerk' type who most 'nice guys' think get all the women ?
does it really mean self-confident and assertive?
or a true b1tch ? (there are some of those around, but not nearly the number many people seem to assume) | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/24/2009 12:37:39 PM | I think it all comes down to perception. There are some men that are intimidated by a woman that can and will stand her ground. In order to retain their "manhood" then these women are bi*ches. But then again there are women out there that on one hand want that meek and mild mouse that will do there very bidding, and on the other want that man that will put them in thier place. Where is the fine line in all this? Well that is the real question here. Not whether men love bi*ches. Men love women period. Women love men period. Unless of course it is a man/man, woman/woman relationship. I think we are all trying to find that certain someone that has managed to figure out where the line is.... I know I am. I want that man that will not let me steam roller him, but at the same time will not try to steamroller me.
JMHO
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/24/2009 12:47:59 PM |
Arabian: You can't actually know someone just by reading crap in here so it's kind of presumptuous to claim you know what I'm actually like. I am opinionated at times in here but that has NOTHING to do with temperment. I find it funny that when women run men into the ground in these forums they're just speaking their mind but when a guy is opinionated, he's "dangerous" or "undatable". Somehow because I won't put up with being walked all over, I have a "temper". What a joke. So much complete hypocrisy in here. Glad to see you were watching my every word waiting to attack. Creepy or what. I have a news flash for you, every man, woman and child has things that makes them mad. It's called bing a human being. Everyone has a temper to some degree...except you I guess because you're perfect right?
CW35.....If I've come across as "presumptuous" then I do apologise. Your right I don't know you, I can only go by what I read ...below is what you wrote, and that to me sounds like a man with a bad temper...
I'd take an unattractive (that's all a matter of opinion though) woman who is quiet, sweet and kind over a beautiful b**ch any day. They irritate me and given my lack of tolerance for being verbally abused, I'd probably land in jail anyway. | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/25/2009 6:36:17 AM | | So, I have a "temper" because I wouldn't roll over crying or allow myself to get beat to death if somebody was verbally (or physically) abusive towards me? I'm confused. Is it just women who are encouraged to defend themselves in an abusive relationship? Seems like a twisted way to think. One more double standard to add to the never ending list I suppose. I'm such a horrible person. I want someone peaceful in my life that's going to be nice to me. What a complete a**hole I am. | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/25/2009 7:54:34 AM | Can't speak for "most men", but I DO NOT like ****es!!!
The only reason I can think of that a guy would put up with a **** is because she's a red-hot vixen in the sack. Maybe her psychosis is the very thing that makes her sexy. Maybe she's not a "****", just a sexually frustrated individual who needs to be f--ked hard and often, and becomes mean when she's not getting those needs fulfilled. Maybe that's why some guys like a "****".
I prefer a nice girl...WITH PASSION. Someone who is forthright and tells me what she wants when she wants it. I agree, shyness is sweet but only makes for lukewarm sexual relations. | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/25/2009 8:08:44 PM | Probably the same reason women have no use for nice guys...
If you're attracted to someone who falls for the self-centered, abusive type, you need your head examined.
Seriously. | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/25/2009 9:34:34 PM | Because a lot of the people who grow up with the looks and the smarts realize it pretty early, and what they can get away with because of it. Thus they get spoiled and turn into b*tches. Therefore there's a good chance that any particularly desirable girl is a b*tch. Guys don't love the b*tch part, just what comes with it. Same with girls.
I dated a total b*tch who had it all in every other department. If she came to me today asking me to take her back, I'd have a hard time saying no.
(Notice how PoF will censor posts, but not their subject lines?) | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/25/2009 9:49:29 PM |
If a girl is nice to you, soft-spoken, quiet, even shy but she
loves you and is devoted to you and would never hurt you,
why do you throw her away and choose an evil **** to ****
and then, after the **** hurts you, you complain that all women
are ****es even though it's your fault that you chose the ****
over the nice girl ?
Some of us also had to come to grips with this ourselves before we wised-up. I used to be a *psycho-hooker-b_tch-stripper-nut-job-head-case* drama - MAGNET. It seems I actually had some sort of *gravitational pull* on ONLY these sorts of women. They were all super *hot* looking, and of course that was my only real criteria back then.
Now I don't EVER go there anymore. I'm just not interested. I prefer sane women. I also prefer my own sanity. I prefer a nice woman who has some level of humility. There are some very *hot* looking - yet humble - nice women out there minus all the *drama* as I have discovered. I have no desire to go back to it again.
I have enough reminders of my past mistakes.
Mike | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/28/2009 10:01:01 PM | If Men Love Biitchees It because Bichees like or want them too ''
Women like attention ''' However ?
Does not mean they are gonna have SEX with all Men
Or even everytime a Guy wants to have Sex ....
How many times has a gal heard the infamous words ''' YOU think your
Kitty is made of Gold .
The B word
Usually comes after the words No No NO
utter from her lips To his Sexual Appetite and Proposals
''Then
He flips his Biche switch on ...
and screams the B word .
Not having Sex does not even imply or make her a Biche
The dreaded B word could be a B like this >>> a Beautiful Brat who looks Hot
one who thinks a guy should jump when she says how high ''or has Biche fit ''' she drags guy or guys arround by the nose
Cause she knows guys Hunger for more of her Beauty
........ or causes a lotta drama if he dont spend big big
bucks on her all the time .
Or wants guy or guys follow her arround like lost puppy or go fetch when
she throws a bone !  | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 2/28/2009 11:29:12 PM | A man will call you a Bytch when he doesn't get his own way....lol....and a whore when he does!  I'll have the bytch manual thank you. | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 3/1/2009 12:58:39 PM | If by that word you mean women who are habitually unpleasant, I do *not* like them. Any I wouldn't waste my time on any woman like that. For me, sweet and feminine is sexy--harsh and angry about every little thing is not.
If I can't imagine a woman liking little kids, or if she doesn't know how to be a lady, I may still feel physically attracted to her. But I probably won't think of getting seriously involved with her.
BTW, I don't think there's any correlation between a woman's looks and her unpleasantness. A lot of attractive women may seem b****y because they're not very good at dealing with unwelcome advances in a nice way. | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 3/1/2009 2:03:03 PM | It's a numbers game really. They're just so much easier to find than nice girls.
Besides... Self-proclaimed nice girls aren't always so nice. And women others call ****es, aren't always as bad as they appear at first. | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 3/1/2009 6:31:42 PM |
If a girl is nice to you, soft-spoken, quiet, even shy but she
loves you and is devoted to you and would never hurt you,
why do you throw her away and choose an evil **** to ****
and then, after the **** hurts you, you complain that all women
are ****es even though it's your fault that you chose the ****
over the nice girl ?
Hello Prey,
I have found that men don't like ****'es, they are just terrified of the girls who actually care and love them for who they are.
On a subconscious level men push away any girl who is willing to actually start a life with them. So on a subconscious level men seek out or feel more comfortable with a woman that they know will inevitably lead to nothing.
It's just a mater of self denial of the fear of little faces looking up to you as a father and letting a woman who is there for you no matter what, down. The same situation affects many women too. This is why there are so many dating site on the net.....sad to say.
What once was normal behavior for a man and woman, that being starting a family and facing the struggles of life, is now the abnormal. Life is much more simple in some ways now, there is plenty of food and work but the standard for actual success has bin elevated so people fear what fate would become of the children they bring into this world, where in the past how many children you had determined the level of success and survival of the family.
If people took the time to evaluate their behavior rather than that of others, this would would be much better off. Men would hold fast to the first love that came their way.
TA!! Izzy. | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 3/2/2009 4:57:51 AM | Why do women stay with guys that beat them up or are out and out drunks?Most are or dont see outside their little circles and either dont see or dont want anything better...and then theres the drama queens....lol | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 3/2/2009 7:23:53 AM | yeah, the label 'b1tch' is often applied by jealous women to other women who are prettier or sexier than they are.
just as some men will denigrate guys who are better -looking than they are with labels like pretty boy, etc. | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 3/2/2009 11:05:18 AM |
...the whole "nice guys / bad boys" thing has a female equivalent.
Mean People Suck. I hate being around a **** as much as most women hate being around a Prick.....And I don't care how good they look. There are a whole lot of women out there that are strong, opinionated and level headed and do it all without being a perpetual ****. I would take a low keyed sweetie pie any day of the week over a ****...But also knowing that my sweetie pie type of gal can also stand up for herself and me as well when things get tough....because as we all know, Life itself...can be a ****. | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 3/5/2009 6:01:35 PM | | It all boils down to self worth... if you don't feel very good about yourself, the tendency is to sabotage all good things that come to you. | |
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| Why do MEN love BITCHES ?
Posted: 3/5/2009 6:22:49 PM | well male humans tend to prefer ****es, and i heard female humans tend to get male dogs instead
personally, ****es are far more sharper and intelligent than male dogs in my experience and more warm too
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