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 Me Leona

Joined: 7/31/2008
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Posted: 6/23/2009 12:31:34 PM

[Can anyone tell me what is supposed to be so bad about Scorpios ???

They're supposed to have very bad stingers, so if they don't like you, or they get mad at you, or you hurt them, they can hurt you badly, with words or with actions. They are very passionate about everything in life, both positive and negative, there is very rarely indifference about anything. They are very secretive and will want to hide things about themselves from you but also very probing and questioning and will want to know your every darkest secret.
 buzzy9876

Joined: 12/3/2008
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Posted: 6/23/2009 12:32:32 PM

The "great in bed"....haha...ehh they're scam artists. They can "perform", but it's all for "show"...and they're only "GREAT" in bed once.


It has been my experience that all women are disease ridden, cheating ****es. Don't ever go to bed with a woman, you'll wake up with a knife in your back. You all smell and taste like dead fish down there.

You see how stupid that sounds? You need a therapist to help you deal with your anger towards men.
 michael feir

Joined: 5/15/2007
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Posted: 6/23/2009 12:42:50 PM
Dear lord! I hope not. I don't believe in astrology or horoscopes at all but that does happen to be my sign. Wouldn't that just royally suck? Blindness, unemployment, frustration born of writer's block; No problem. Born October 29th, *HUGe* mistake. Sory, chum, but I'm afraid I'll have to dismiss you right out of hand given that life-altering blunder. Doomed to loneliness by an archaic system for attempting to do the impossible. I guess there probably are some women who would think that way but you'd have to do a heeping lot of digging to find one. Horoscopes and such are nothing more than vaguely amusing at times. Whatever sign you are, best of luck to all of us searching for that greatest of all fortunes.
 woobytoodsday

Joined: 12/13/2006
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Posted: 6/23/2009 3:42:32 PM
Not going to worry about this too much, and never have really. But. Over fifty years of making and getting relationships broken, I'd have to say, there *are* signs that I, personally, don't do very well with, and others that I do.

Had a good friend, once, who gave a party for all the peeps she knew born on September 18th. There were seven of us, lol! And on my own, I know and am deeply fond of, two others with the same birthday. . . .

Flip side, my longest feeling relationship (ten years marriage plus nearly 40 years of friendship) was also a Virgo. When I did his chart, the poor guy has EVERY SINGLE position in Virgo! Too much for me.

Sag's and Aquariuses have never made it as far as a relationship -- they feel terribly detached and disengaged to me. I've had great friends, scads of 'em, who were Pisces, but no lovers. Libras are too analytical for me. Aries and Leos, too greedy (can't bear to let others shine). The good, better, best of my life have been: Geminis, Cancers, Scorpios, and TAURUSES. Geminis -- good solid workmanlike lovers; Cancers, sweet and driven; Scorpios innovative, serious, skilled and fun; and TAURUSES. . . . Tauruses are simply perfect. Wish I'd discovered them sooner, lol!

Virgo, Libra Rising (Moon in Aries). . . .
 bryce1965

Joined: 2/19/2009
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Posted: 6/23/2009 5:00:54 PM
Yes, Next question!! lol
 spicynicegirl

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Posted: 6/23/2009 6:33:54 PM
Message 523 I never said that Scorpio and Taurus were a good match for a long term relationship (my ex husband was a Scorpio) however it is well known that those 2 signs are extremely compatible sexually......................now surely that couldn't hurt could it?
 strawberi50

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Posted: 6/23/2009 8:31:34 PM
Yep....I've read several things about that compatiblity even though they are opposites and find I am drawn to the temperment of a Scorpio, as well as Cancers...I'm not all into astrology but do find it interesting reading between innings at the baseball field. Just have to find which sign is a winning home run for you....! That is .... if you.... believe it is the only basis for a relationship.
 BrickCharm City

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Posted: 6/23/2009 11:03:39 PM

They are very secretive and will want to hide things about themselves from you but also very probing and questioning and will want to know your every darkest secret.

Yep, my best friend that I spoke about a couple pages back is like this. He wants to know what's going on in my dating life but getting him to tell me what's going on in his is like pulling teeth.
 ShadwEagle

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Posted: 6/24/2009 10:58:46 AM

I never said that Scorpio and Taurus were a good match for a long term relationship (my ex husband was a Scorpio) however it is well known that those 2 signs are extremely compatible sexually


sexually.... yea, but you cant stay in bed all the time. hahahahahaha
actually, they make great friends too, just not good partners. still friendly with both my ex/w's.

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 Cleopatra_63

Joined: 3/28/2009
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Posted: 6/24/2009 5:58:16 PM
Yes..i agree with you on that..They seem to want to be the center of all attention..
Secrets''For sure..Very secretive..
 SandraB56

Joined: 10/16/2008
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Posted: 6/28/2009 2:38:37 PM
Depends upon the woman I suppose. A Scorpio is supposed to be one of my "matches" in Astrology and I do have 2 best girl friends that are Scorpios. We go back a long way and have a huge connection. I have found Male Scorpios to be highly sexed and very passionate which suits me right down to the ground.
The ones I steer clear of are Geminis - they never can make up their minds and are always checking out other women. Makes you feel quite insignificant.
 MrPatient1101

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Posted: 6/28/2009 2:53:32 PM
Im a scorpio and I must say whenever a girl asks me what my sign is and I say Scorpio, I get a reaction thats puzzling to me. I have to admot though the passionate, sex driven, jealous part is true. Now before we delve into this jealousy thing let me explain. Every man/woman has a little sense of jealousy (and you know what I mean) but its all in how you handle it. With that said, Im not secretive at all. I will tell you anything you would like to know about me.

Oh so passionate though.. I put it behind everything I do. Freaky in bed, definetly guilty of it hahah
 Gentle Aura

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Posted: 6/28/2009 4:43:35 PM
I dated 2 Scorpions and got stung by both so I decided to date an Aries :) Although my BFF is a Scorpion and I couldn't imagine life without her. I guess dating one and being best friends with one are obviously 2 totally different things huh? I'm just saying. BTW please don't tell me you live your life and base your dating choices on astrology because that's just crazy!
 Abbicci

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Posted: 6/28/2009 4:49:29 PM
I avoid anyone who takes astrology seriously.
 Me Leona

Joined: 7/31/2008
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Posted: 6/28/2009 5:15:10 PM
Do Women really avoid Scorpio's???

It's not just the men scorpios who have a "reputation" and yes, some people avoid them but... it's not based on their sun sign so much as people's actual experience with them. HA HA. So the answer to the question is no, most people don't avoid them, in fact, most people are drawn to them, despite their inner warnings and flashing signals to be aware... or beware rather... they are too compelling and irresistable to really avoid.
 Severin78

Joined: 6/20/2009
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Posted: 6/28/2009 5:26:19 PM
Not that I believe in it, but it is a funny little novelty.

That being said, traditional scorpio behavior is a pain in the rear to overcome. You should read Linda Goodman's classic "Love Signs" for a starter, it's pretty much the coffee-table at-home standard for astrology/love.

From my personal experiences, if I were to consider me and the women I've dated whom are scorpio (including my mother), then it would lend a lot of credit to the whole Scorpio stereotype. Mother aside, the women have always been excellent lovers, and LTR, but generally their baditudes (which are bad to them, of course, it's just them exerting their will/independent nature, hah) dampen things, and really starting narrowing any passion with the person.

But, honestly, it could just be you. :)
 Metallguru

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Posted: 6/29/2009 1:55:14 AM
Just found this thread-
I'm Venus and Mercury in Scorpio, Moon conjunct Pluto. I love intensely, deeply, its hard not to be so light about stuff. The sex (I don't think of it as sex- it's my way of communicating with the inner part of another soul) is ALWAYS great, the periods between always too long.
Please lighter signs, make space in your hearts for the Scorpio, its an affliction, The Passion.
 Me Leona

Joined: 7/31/2008
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Posted: 6/29/2009 7:18:01 AM
You should read Linda Goodman's classic "Love Signs" for a starter, it's pretty much the coffee-table at-home standard for astrology/love.

Severin, I love Linda Goodman, I read Sun Signs years ago and later read Love Signs and now have a couple as collector's editions. When I read her writing it's not like reading about astrology, to me it's more like great insight into human personalities but beyond that into the psyche and soul behind appearances, with so much love and acceptance for all humanity.
 ellenmag

Joined: 6/26/2009
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Posted: 6/29/2009 3:17:20 PM
I am a Scorpio and like the messages above I have dated 2 Scorpio men in my life and would you believe one was way to quiet and drove me mad the other, just a big teddy bear yet full of passion and divelment............... Do men avoid Scorpion women and am I destined for a lifetime of spinsterhood?????????

I DONT avoid Scorpios at all, maybe that is just the mad side of me coming out. Think they are the best but hey, everyone to their own.............
 *Just Jim*

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Posted: 6/29/2009 3:48:47 PM

Message: from Abbicci; I avoid anyone who takes astrology seriously.


Here! Here! Yes, me too. Now I enjoy reading the horoscopes from time to time for the"shits & giggles' but to me it's like reading a fortune cookies,taro cards, listening to snake charmers,etc. Example; it your work hard your life is be better. True, good advice.
Now, If you pick a loser[no chemistry or other strange habits ] you might not be happy later. omg It must be him and not me, right!cuz of his sign?.....

And just reading a few of the last pages here of those you blame a sign that was the reason their relationship failed makes me only shake my head.

P'S. I give ya a little hint, if you find someone with similar beliefs,goals and interest,[but not all]a person who is happy and content, honest and respectful,that my dear,
to me is the "Best Sign" of all.

And don't forget to 'kick the tires' before driving away.
 Brunette Girl 425

Joined: 11/24/2008
Msg: 546
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Posted: 6/29/2009 4:08:41 PM
I avoid Scorpions, Brown Recluse, Tarantulas and anyone that puts too much stock in astrology, mythology, and gynecology. I'm all for the Black Widow....she ROCKS!
 OKRob

Joined: 6/4/2009
Msg: 547
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Posted: 6/29/2009 4:56:13 PM
22 pages of varying opinion about star sign matching have concluded that some people are happy with Scorpions and some aren't. Not all Scorpions are the same, not all Librans are the same. Nne of us are the same. Having a bad experience with one star sign surely can't be a guarantee of a bad experience re-run should we end up with somebody of the same sign?
 sexygirl6482

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Posted: 9/3/2009 1:03:01 PM
Maybe you need to learn how to spell properly...I am a Scorpio female.
 M_luv_E

Joined: 8/13/2009
Msg: 549
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Posted: 9/3/2009 3:53:54 PM
Why would I avoid another Scorpio ???


Singing " Just Like Me"
 minako79

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Posted: 9/3/2009 5:47:21 PM
lol i happen to be pisces... scorpios are supposed to be my number one soulmates next to cancer :) lol, astrologies are fun, never meant to take seriously.

i look for in the heart, not by their birthdays
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