online dating service

Free Dating Site    

REGISTER | MAIL/PROFILE | HELP | NOW ONLINE | SEARCH | RATING | FORUMS | SUCCESS STORIES
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest 100% free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Florida  > "AVERAGE SIZE" for females....      Mod Threads Home login  
Page 8 of 12 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12
 Author Thread: "AVERAGE SIZE" for females....
 aprincelyfrog

Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 176
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/12/2008 5:21:58 AM

So do you apply this same criteria to both a woman who is 5'10" and one who is 5'1"?

Didn't think so.

See where your "opinion" and others with similar "opinions" are flawed? Who is actually living in a media-induced fantasy world?

Ummm... thanks for answering that for me... I'm glad to know you have a firm grasp on how my mind works.

(Hey guys! It's the perfect woman! The kind we all long for: She can not only tell you whats wrong with your thinking but she can think for you! )

Personally, I believe that if the average dress size in the US is a 14 then the average woman is very much over weight... but then we already know most all men and women in the US are indeed overweight. The problem with adjusting our standards to fit what is, is that we ignore what should be.
 _Wanna_Dance

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 177
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/12/2008 8:18:53 AM
The easiest way to determine if our weight is appropriate to our height is by using a Body Mass Index Calculator (just google BMI Calculator). You just enter your height and weight and click.

If the result is less than 18.5 you are underweight, 18.5-24.9 normal weight, 25.0-29.9 overweight and 30.0 or higher obese. As long as the person is an adult the formula works for men and women regardless of age or body type.

For me, I find that when I get down to 21.3 my friends tell me I'm too thin and above 25.2 I feel I'm too heavy. Right now, I'm at 24.6 and dieting down to 22.9 (about 11 more pounds) so I would say my weight is average.

Not subjective at all. No "fudge" factor (pun intended). Just enter the numbers and click.
 Cajun3149

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 178
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/12/2008 10:04:43 AM
I have to disagree with that chart. When I retired from the USAF, I was at 210lbs. I had a 34" waist, 19" biceps. According to the Air Force charts, I was only a few pounds from being overweight. If you take a person that lifts with his/her legs and the thighs and calfs are muscle, that would make you weigh more, but, not have fat. At one time, I had to buy pants and have them altered to fit. Seems that my thighs were too large for the cut of the pants. That's why (personal experience) that I disagree with those type charts.

Now, I'm getting older, not exercising the same because of an injury, and it seems that my muscle mass has redistributed itself without my permission LOL. I might fit into that chart now, but, did not fit into it a few years ago. The chart also does not take into consideration bone structure, build, etc.

The charts used a few years ago said that I should have topped the scales at no more than 180-185lbs. Heck, at 195lbs and running my first 1 1/2 mile run in the military, I came in second out of 50 runners. I was in fantastic shape and according to the charts, I should have not had that extra weight.

Without taking measurements from head to toe, those charts are meaningless.
 _Wanna_Dance

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 179
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/12/2008 10:50:16 AM

those charts are meaningless.

It is so nice to hear from an authority that knows more than the CDC. Any advice on curing cancer?
 JustJohn561

Joined: 3/21/2006
Msg: 180
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/12/2008 11:47:55 AM

It is so nice to hear from an authority that knows more than the CDC.


Its funny you should mention the CDC...

Check out this article based on findings from the CDC :

http://www.consumerfreedom.com/news_detail.cfm/headline/2790
 aprincelyfrog

Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 181
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/12/2008 12:20:08 PM
I think that Cajun was referring to those height/weight charts that someone else had mentioned and not the BMI... which is funny because I started to reference that but decided instead to poke the "bears" (pun intended) with a stick.
 Cajun3149

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 182
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/12/2008 12:25:18 PM
those charts are meaningless.

It is so nice to hear from an authority that knows more than the CDC. Any advice on curing cancer?


Not an authority on that, but, I did manage physical fitness and weight management for my military squadron for 5 years. The question here is "what is average". May I say it again, the charts do not take into consideration many factors in weight.

As far as curing cancer, being sarcastic is not effectively contributing to the subject. You gave a link to a chart. I gave personal experience in dealing with such charts. I also just gave you my experience in the subject and the charts. Your chart would have a body builder overweight. You can have a person with thin arms and legs and a beer belly on the height and weight charts that would seem to be in contrast with the "average or normal".
 Dreamsasea

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 183
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/12/2008 12:32:22 PM
[ Any advice on curing cancer?] Other than making a pun on the "BMI" into a BMW.. haha.. yeah, I do. Look up Dr. Ernie Bodai, he created the first fundraising stamp in history, the women's breast cancer stamp. He's also trying to get his men's stamp out there. Support it and him and contact the man. Amazing human being. If you're a guy, espeically, you don't have the same dialogue women do with your doc about your health issues and I say that because all doctors tell me this in regard, especially to cancer. I've lost too many male friends because they thought things would pass or whatever would go away and then find out too late.

Back to topic of fat vs. thin... last time I tried on a size 5 or 7 it was actually a 0 (anorexic) or also known as a non-to a young teen size. In other words, the fashionistas promote eating disorders. No matter your weight, love who you are, no easy task and don't let some bloody machine tell you what's what or another person unless your doc says, "Need to add or lose weight due to health reasons."

Is there a post on men's sizes? Not height.. weight? LOL Let's have one on size of his head, with the little guys next to him. HA
 Cajun3149

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 184
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/12/2008 1:09:00 PM
love who you are, no easy task and don't let some bloody machine tell you what's what or another person unless your doc says, "Need to add or lose weight due to health reasons."


Thank you.
 SapphirePoet

Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 185
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/12/2008 7:38:26 PM
Well Dreamsasea I couldn't resist!
You are awesome, thank you for that! I almost pee'd my pants girl.
You hit the nail on the head once again and you get two points for that.
I think we should start a thread about the size of their heads allright, that would be interesting......

You haters need to learn to STFU if for no other reason than the "non fatties" will be reading your stinking nasty remarks on your profiles.
Oh no! Don't do that, please don't..... just let them see you for who you are, us fatties already do!
 makeupgurlee

Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 186
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/12/2008 7:43:46 PM
I don't normally post on these things, but considering this has turned into female bashing, I must say the sheer number of overweight guys on here that list themselves as athletic is overwhelming. On a female, they would expect athletic to mean muscular and lean, on them they have maybe nice arms but a big beer gut (this is typically my observation). Average is a subjective and vague word and yes as many say, in the eye of the beholder...
 Dreamsasea

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 187
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/12/2008 10:54:38 PM
TY Sapphire! Your response made me laugh... could start a nappy thread on the peeing in the pants... oh and anyone notice the OP doesn't have a profile to read? Come on Kilo (think that was it, too lazy to hit back)... head size... little boys next to it?

[When we men decide a face to face meeting would be good, most of us are looking forward to the girl in the description.]
Now that? SLAYED me!!! LOL When YOU men decide? LMAO Cute but not so informed, think that one requires two people as well and if someone's weight bugs ya.. how about them bald spots ladies? Ahhh think I'll catch some flack having some fun here... just see hum the words to 'Desperado' Balderado... fill in your patches... it only takes minutes to cover that dome.. I think that's where the term, grab him by the 'ears' comes from... woo-woo... ;)
 deb_in_tampa_bay

Joined: 3/31/2008
Msg: 188
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/13/2008 4:45:28 AM
I am going to ignore the continued ignorance of the poster at the top of the page and simply state that in a man, I definitely prefer some meat on him versus skin and bone. Give me a linebacker or teddy bear type any day of the week and I don't care if he describes himself as thin, average, few extra pounds or majorly fluffy...it's all good. It's also highly likely that his character, personality, disposition and what he deems important in life is more beautiful than the likes of those who have a serious distaste for real women with curves and instead prefer female bodies that look similar to 10 year old boys.

 SapphirePoet

Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 189
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/13/2008 7:41:24 AM
Deb,
I totally agree with you about liking a bigger guy...doesn't matter if he's short as long as he has some meat or muscle on him it's all good!

Now I do love a man who is honest first and foremost so if he blatantly lies on his profile then it's a turn off.

TC
Deb
 Dreamsasea

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 190
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/13/2008 11:30:04 PM
[distaste for real women with curves and instead prefer female bodies that look similar to 10 year old boys.]

Hmmm.. Debs.. now my mum has a full figure and Rubensesque, which I think is beautiful but I also find that many women complain about their backs and it's kept this slender one from getting fake boobs to make a mate happy... my son's father was a big man, not talking height.. as I've said on another post, I fell in love with his heart, not his height or weight.. funny how that works when we put beer belly's (seen women with those) aside and stop making a slender or slim women into a little boy. That's like saying a larger woman is a Shrek's mate... 'eh? Simpler put, call me skinny, I call ya fat, same insult and I wouldn't call ya that. And muscle? haha Depends on where you're talking it's at.. Ooops.. lol
 someonesx

Joined: 9/25/2007
Msg: 191
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/14/2008 6:24:26 AM
Hmm, yet another thread on the "average" debate... personally, I'm more of an original type than boring old average type of gal... I put prefer not to say, because one man's fat dog is another man's few extra pounds or average size dog... I do disclose to those who might be interested in meeting me that I have a shape; but don't have what most consider to be "in-shape" type of shape.

I certainly can respect that people have preferences and I don't have any issue with my body size or shape not "fitting into their preference" (yes, pun intended)

However, I do take issue when people are ignorant and make generalizations or assumptions that just because a person isn't a particular size or weight that it's all due to lack of willpower, over eating or being lazy...

While SOME people may not be their ideal weight because of such types of behaviors, not ALL people indulge in those types of "behaviors". Some people have metabolic or hormonal disorders so no matter how little they eat or how active they are, they're not going to be able to attain a weight that is remotely close to "average" based on whatever medical chart you like to use... Maybe, that person is on medication which has added weight to them-seen it happen to friends-went from a size6/ 8 to a 12/14 due to medication issues-not over eating issues or maybe they were in an accident and can't be as physically active and have gained weight because of not being able to do what they previously did...

So the Next time you want to insult a "fat chick"...just remember, that person is most likely someone's mother, sister or daughter... and ask yourself, if my mother, sister or daughter had weight issues, would I want someone to treat them with such ignorance and disdain simply because they aren't "average" sized.... food for thought
 aprincelyfrog

Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 192
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/14/2008 11:21:16 AM

Hmm, yet another thread on the "average" debate...

Yeah, us guys draw straws on whose turn it is to come in here and poke the bears with a stick... we get them all riled up and then sit back and watch them roar... usually takes about a week for them to calm down...

It really is quite amusing...

Uhhh... Bob, whose turn is it this week? (I did it last week!)
 Cajun3149

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 193
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/14/2008 11:53:20 AM
Maybe I'm wrong (based on my POF experiences LOL), but, I don't think it's appropriate for men to bash women or for women to bash men. Fun is fun, but, it sometimes hits home with some people. Be nice and play nice. Of course, it has not gotten me very far, but, kinda hard to change your ways as you get older (I'm really only 39 in mind)
 littlephishy

Joined: 1/1/2007
Msg: 194
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/14/2008 3:24:49 PM

Yeah, us guys draw straws on whose turn it is to come in here and poke the bears with a stick... we get them all riled up and then sit back and watch them roar... usually takes about a week for them to calm down...
It really is quite amusing... Uhhh... Bob, whose turn is it this week? (I did it last week!)


It's not my turn on this one, I'm going after the Catholic freak......LOL....Come on Cajun, you're going weak on us......LOL
 Cajun3149

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 195
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/14/2008 8:00:23 PM
weak???? Hey, that's what that Blackeye team said about the team across from them on Jan 7th. Hummmmmmmmmm...............Wanna play some football????
 aprincelyfrog

Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 196
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/15/2008 2:18:29 PM
I think you're right... it IS Canjuns turn to make some highly critical and highly offensive remark about the fat chicks.
 LisaMarie39

Joined: 3/22/2007
Msg: 197
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/15/2008 5:09:58 PM
Is it just me or does anyone else understand why aprincelyfrog is still single

Peace, Love and extra extra extra Fat Girl smooches to Mr frog,



Lisa
 deb_in_tampa_bay

Joined: 3/31/2008
Msg: 198
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/15/2008 5:35:24 PM

Is it just me or does anyone else understand why aprincelyfrog is still single


OMG this cracks me up. No, you're not the only one who understands.

For someone who claims to be an executive in his profile (highly suspect), he certainly wreaks of adolescence...like he an his co-hort(s) are still in high school. This is the behavior and dialogue that high school boys have... *eye roll*

 Dreamsasea

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 199
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/18/2008 10:32:59 PM
[Hummmmmmmmmm...............Wanna play some football???? ]

Cajunnnnnn... football? LMAO... first the topic is about weight, then it's BALLS again... men and balls.. ever notice how many sports revolve around men, hitting, tossing, putting, swinging, punting or dunking balls? Or count the number of holes involved... question for ya Cajun... You seem like a good guy, like most the guys on this post.. but do any of ya have game?
 woobytoodsday

Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 200
view profile
History
AVERAGE SIZE for females....
Posted: 4/18/2008 11:32:37 PM
While SOME people may not be their ideal weight because of such types of behaviors, not ALL people indulge in those types of "behaviors". Some people have metabolic or hormonal disorders so no matter how little they eat or how active they are, they're not going to be able to attain a weight that is remotely close to "average" based on whatever medical chart you like to use... Maybe, that person is on medication which has added weight to them-seen it happen to friends-went from a size6/ 8 to a 12/14 due to medication issues-not over eating issues or maybe they were in an accident and can't be as physically active and have gained weight because of not being able to do what they previously did...


See, I figure we have to keep coming back till we get it. So, these dudes and dudettes have a date with the karma fairy. And man, is it going to be U.G.L.Y. . . . .

Page 8 of 12 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12
 
Show ALL Forums  > Florida  > "AVERAGE SIZE" for females....