| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 5:34:22 PM | I agree with ^^^^^ post...those books are written for those who are being unfaithful, or involved with a partner who is being unfaithful in order to validate their own feelings, and actions.
It is possible when in a relationship that is meeting the needs of both individuals to maintain fidelity. | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 6:00:19 PM | Fidelity should never be a problem when you are with the one you love.
The thought would never ever cross my mind. I am the most faithful, committed person when it comes to a relationship.
When I love its with all my heart and you will get 100% from me, but I will expect the same. | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 6:17:29 PM | | I think you will find books on ever subject imaginable, but I still don't believe everthing I read. | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 6:20:05 PM | those books are out for cheaters to try to be able to rationalize their behaviour , yeah yeah I know we're all animals and humans are the only ones who try to mate for life or some jazz like that, its c r a p! I've been lucky so far in that I have never cheated on a partner and have never been cheated on either (to my knowledge hah).
it is possible and anyone who tells you it isn't just doesn't want it for themselves. | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 8:52:24 PM | Fidelity IS possible, however, infidelity is rampant also.
5 major relationships in my life, 4 cheated. Good news is, I keep trying again, figure I will meet the right one that doesn't cheat eventually!
Its just too easy.... | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 9:49:25 PM | | That's a sad comment on society. I think you have to be very insecure or unhappy to cheat on an existing relationship. If you are having problems in your relationship, don't drag a third party into the mess. Either work it out, get counselling or severe it. | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 9:58:57 PM | | Bet they were written by either a divorced man or a cheater or a divorce lawyer, or someone out to line his-or her-pocket..I saw-and bought-a for dummies book on how to affair proof your marriage There are lots of good men and women out there capable of faithfulness, but they are often overlooked because society says they are not *enough*-not cute or attractive enough, not rich enough, etc...The secret is to find the right person for you, one who has shown their faithfulness. :) | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 10:23:55 PM | No, it is not true. Not all men cheat and not all women cheat. This generalization bothers me....
I have been cheated on in the past and I still trust people. I decided that I could not let bad past experiences ruin my present or my future.
I would rather wear Payless shoes than mess around on a boy that I like....
~Carrie B.
Coming from Carrie, that's HUUUUUUUUUUGE, the gal LOOOOOOVES her shoes lol...
Nah, not all men cheat, if you're my woman, I won't cheat on you, I don't want to...then again, I'm big on putting myself in someone elses shoes, I wouldn't like it done to me. Don't think I've ever had it done to me though, don't think I ever gave them reason to, not too sure what I'd do though, knowing me, I'd probably want to know why...depending on what she said...and if it was fixable...I'd take a deep dose of reality, and decide then.
I do know this though..if you want another...go with him and stay with him...he can have you, period! If someone doesn't appreciate what they have, maybe they need to lose it...the problem is, they often realize after the fact what they had, and then well..it's just too late to put Humpty Dumpty back together again, the damage is done.
Here's hoping it never happens to you^^ | |
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