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 ltlwhip

Joined: 10/29/2004
Msg: 51
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 8:29:35 AM
I wasnt bagging on you eccentric...meek just strikes me as a the type of person who would worry a little too much. Not downing you dood.
 xchuck

Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 52
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 10:27:04 AM
personally, i think men have always felt threatened by women. we DO have power. men know this. i don't remember whose post it was, but it was mentioned that men finally realized what power their penises have in the baby creating role, and they do have that. but the one thing they can't do is actually give birth to a child. i'm sure this makes men feel like the lesser gender. well, at least subconsciously.[ quote ]

Personally Ms. Picky i don't envy child-bearing at all and never had the desire to be fat for 9 months and go through 2 or more hours of being in labor and having my insides torn apart i think though i speak for ALL men when i say this
 Frankenbeans

Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 53
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 10:29:46 AM

i'm sure this makes men feel like the lesser gender.


Men are the lesser gender because women like being superior to men. Everyone is best off when this is accepted and men learn how to support women as their superiors.
 ltlwhip

Joined: 10/29/2004
Msg: 54
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 10:41:07 AM
[quote]Personally Ms. Picky i don't envy child-bearing at all and never had the desire to be fat for 9 months and go through 2 or more hours of being in labor and having my insides torn apart i think though i speak for ALL men when i say this[/quote]

@ Chuck...it applies to some of us ladies too.
 cat_in_hat

Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 55
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 10:43:12 AM
<<<<<

is not an american woman but is out of control..........
 Joey134

Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 56
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 11:08:04 AM
Yes well we all have something to prove whether we admit it or not. SOme of us go over board a bit and offset the natural balance of things, hence divorce, abuse, cat and dogs living together, etc.. I love American woman and its great for them to have a voice, etc.. but I still believe in being the man and there are certain expectations you have for yourself and women in general have for you. Ive heard "I want a man to be in charge and take care of me." The same woman says, " But only on the things I agree with>" WTF? I dont think so. This is where you move to the state with same sex marriages and you become your own worst nightmare, oh but its ok when a woman tries to control you???? As I said before this site is only for mud slinging and whether you believe it or not, who has the last word,or for that matter, lack of words ( when you dont reply) on this site? We men wait for your reply hoping we have made the right impression and doing our best to be men and no ***holes. WHO IS MAINTAINING THE ILLUSION OF CONTROL HERE??????????? Long live the Stepfford wives!!
 FRlENDS

Joined: 2/18/2005
Msg: 57
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 11:15:30 AM
I think the "power shift" is a mere bi-product of a good economy with safety nets and comfortable "non-vigilant" slaves. Without it, this "power" or illusion thereof, would cease to exist.
 FRlENDS

Joined: 2/18/2005
Msg: 58
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 11:23:55 AM

Men are bad unless American woman make them into something better. But this can take a lot of hard work considering how bad men have been for so long, and how far they have yet to go to be worthy of American women.


My take on the original author of this quote has been a product of a society that has brainwashed him into feeling inferior, instead of equal.

Everyone is responsible for their own actions, be they men or women.

Both men and women are bad if they choose to do bad things. I for one, try to avoid it whenever I can, similar to most women and men.

Good Karma ~
 Frankenbeans

Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 59
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 2:38:04 PM
Equality is not a matter of perception but fact. Inequity must be devised and maintained as a social mechansim to organize society. Women had a turn being in 2nd place. Now we switch places. If equality was ever satisfying we would not need opinions about this subject. The dissatisfaction of equality is due to our descrimination in making decisions. It is not available in language to consider equivalence, because that lacks the satisfaction of choosing wisely. So, as we are predisposed to discard equivalents in favor of what is best, one person has to be better, and their decisions have to be better. That is leadership. If women are unwilling to follow in a relationship, they must lead. There aren't two steering wheels in a car. I have not been brainwashed. I have chosen to adopt behaviors and attitudes that will appease women so that I can get them naked, or, have them get me naked. It may be a losing strategy, but so were all the other ones I have tried. This is the next one on the list. It is worth a shot.

 FRlENDS

Joined: 2/18/2005
Msg: 60
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 3:01:08 PM
Good luck.
 Cinder23

Joined: 2/14/2005
Msg: 61
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 3:05:27 PM
American women HAVE PERSONALITY! We are not confined into a sub-servient role.
 LEXI_IS_TROUBLE

Joined: 10/27/2004
Msg: 62
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 3:12:31 PM
i would have to concur with cinder.
 cuteredhead1983

Joined: 12/23/2004
Msg: 63
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Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 3:27:31 PM
Wow fire... I am not sure what to say to you.. but thank god for WOMENS RIGHTS.
I am glad I am independent and do not need a men to support me. I do not think American women are out of control because we want equal opportunties. We want to make a living like any other person. What is so wrong about that?Because we do not want to be your "B*tch" and do everything you say or maybe we do not want to be discriminated against. You wouldn't like it either!!!

Have you ever thought about foreign women for a minute. Nothing against them but most foreign women come to America because of freedom and womens rights. Do they really marry for love or citizenship? Ever thought about it like that? :
 FRlENDS

Joined: 2/18/2005
Msg: 64
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 3:30:09 PM
"Ouch"

The ones I know marry for love.....15+ years of happily married friends show me all the time.

note: happy

other advise: avoid the russians!!

keep
 Frankenbeans

Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 65
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 5:56:59 PM
please forgive us for our stupidity and insensitivity
 magicsexman

Joined: 2/3/2005
Msg: 66
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 5:58:41 PM
American women aren't out of control , they're out of their minds! but then so are us guys . hey , maybe the worlds just going to hell in a handbasket.
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 67
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 6:03:13 PM
"How do you like being needy and wussified? I assume you're including yourself..? Explain this one to me if you please."

Quixoticus, I cant even view your profile
 xchuck

Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 68
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 6:05:25 PM
Bluesbabe i meant no harm in fact i sympathize with women... having my ex-wife go through this and complaining about being fat and and how it felt like your being torn apart in labor. How dare you judge me on that one statement i can't see where i was being unsympathetic at all just giving my feelings on the subject. And as far as i'm concerned judging by your statement, you are a narrow-minded biotch...unlike many of the other sweethearts on this site..Have a nice day
 jimi77

Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 69
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Posted: 2/22/2005 6:09:40 PM
^^^^ ^^^ way to go chuck!
 italian touch

Joined: 1/16/2005
Msg: 70
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 6:21:31 PM
Thank goodness bluesbabe is here to remind us how stupid we (men) are.
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 71
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 6:23:02 PM
be nice
 Ms. Picky

Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 72
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 6:23:16 PM
ok. i think i finally figured it out!

it all makes sense to me now.

i'm 34 and never married because i've been looking for a partner, and not a master!

d*mn, i'm slow. but, then again, i'd rather be an old spinster than a subservient wife.
 schweetassdoll

Joined: 2/14/2005
Msg: 73
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Posted: 2/22/2005 6:26:08 PM

The ones I know marry for love.....15+ years of happily married friends show me all the time.


Does 13 years happily married count in that or does it have to be over the 15 years?
 Frankenbeans

Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 74
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 6:28:40 PM
What has happened when the choice for a woman is to be either subservient or pleasant?

Is being kind and reasonable the same as being subservient? I am subservient but I am hardly kind or reasonable. Maybe it is different for women. The way it has been explained to me, men are incapable of understanding their basic flaws as men, and so we should look to women for instruction. I am willing to do that. the thing I don't understand yet is the response a woman has, when she is called for being obnoxious or rude, that she equates congeniality with servitude. As if the request that she be civil is the same as saying she should be barefoot and preggers. i'm afraid it will take me a wahile to figure this out properly.
 xchuck

Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 75
Are American women out of control
Posted: 2/22/2005 6:38:34 PM
Meek you are not for real are you?..put some d*mn pants on and stand up like a man...men and women can disagree on different issues you don't have to be submissive to anyone's will ( Man or Woman) to get along with them. We can co-exist if we have the ability to respect each others viewpoints whether we disagree or not. Nobody respects someone without a backbone so tell us how you truly feel and stop being a doormat.
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