| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/22/2005 6:47:09 PM | | The moment a man is tempted to worship a woman, put her on a pedestal, seek her approval, tell her how he truly feels or do something similarly crazy, he should ask himself a question. If the woman in question suddenly ceases to possess the "portal of extasy," would he have any use for her? | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/22/2005 6:59:47 PM | | Well, I'm not done being a doormat yet. It's only been one day so far. I'm having a spastic personality response to radical feminism. All the talk about men wanting women to be their slaves in relationships got me thinking I should explore that premise. So I am trying to adopt the view that my male perspective is hopelessly ignorant and wrong. Towards this end, I eagerly accept what women say, as best I can. My hope is to achieve a better understanding of what is wrong with me so I can fix it and get laid. For now I will continue trying to be as spineless and self-loathing as this new view of men requires. I can always go back to my old self if it doesn't work. They're just tucked away temporarily; they haven't actually been cut off. But thanks for stopping to see if I was OK. | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/22/2005 7:08:33 PM |
If the woman in question suddenly ceases to possess the "portal of extasy," would he have any use for her?
spin, that goes for both sexes, don't you think?
P.S. I think meek is bipolar or something | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/22/2005 7:09:50 PM | geeze... women have more than ONE portal of ecstasy 'spin', so essentially she'd have to lose all of them to be able to answer the question ...  | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/22/2005 7:36:10 PM |
d*mn, i'm slow. but, then again, i'd rather be an old spinster than a subservient wife
"Ouch" how old do you have to be before you become a "spinster?"
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/22/2005 7:38:26 PM |
My hope is to achieve a better understanding of what is wrong with me so I can fix it and get laid.
solution:
Plane ride......  | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/22/2005 7:48:46 PM | No, must not visit western countries.....
Remember....the problem is the economy sustains the crap you're fed every day....without safety nets and biased laws you're part of a system that doesn't promote harmony.....
Think of it as a wedge...the underlying motives to satisfy a few angry radicals......
You are not the problem...nor, as a man do you have one.....it's all about geography,,, and where it is you are accepted as "masculine."
I dare not change who I am......do you? | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/22/2005 8:52:35 PM | | Theres nothing wrong with indipendence, the reason we have more divorces today is because people use the i need to be indipendent as an excusee to get away with things they never could have before, oh and I do agree with you on some points, society sucks in general today, less honerable men and less honerable wemon, both should be able to be indipendent however most people think of a little depedence as a bad thing when it really is not, and as far as the divorces go, thats jsut dishonerable losers who will never grow up and be able to honer a vow, it says alot about people that cant honor the most important promise in their life, how on earth can you ever excpect something nice from them? I mean if there was abuse in the marriage then YES get out, but for the most part people thing that they can just re- marry whenever it is convienent and run from the marriage there in at the first signe of a challenge. Some people like me for instance really want things to be solid, I want to find a strong indipendent woman, but one who isnt afraid to be dependent on me for some things, one that actually is willing to go the long run with me, and who is honerable, not some stuck up bi#ch who will turn into queen of the harpies when something doesn't go her way. Maby its because of our luxurios society that this is happening? We have all the comforts in the world so we become ever so much more greedy. I know I sure have, at times i can catch myself (and this just doesnt go for me so quick gawking your fu#king Jaw at me I know youve all done it) almost fed up with my mother because she wants me to do some simple task like shovel the walk? I mean WTF if this were 100 years ago i would of been beaten, and for good cause. I don't fully blame myself, I know this happens alot because of the world we live in, were all so d*mn spoiled that common chores in the past are dreadfull to even think of. I wish I were born 100 years ago, life sucks in this time period, It seems great but were all ( well not all but most of us in north america) are just spoiled little children who will never be able to fend for themselves if a crisis really does happen | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/22/2005 10:09:57 PM | blues graces us with another fine example of women liberation gone to insanity. nothing wrong with independance, but when it turns to unwarranted aggression that is out of control. | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/22/2005 11:06:04 PM | I am currently reading a book called Why Men Don't Iron...about the physical differences between men and women...viva la differences....
We are not all alike....
We cannot say Men always do this or women are always like that....there is a huge continuum and we are all on it...
Live to learn, learn to live... Squeak | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/22/2005 11:11:57 PM | Snugglemachine
For goddess' sake...say it may have been a matriarchal society....be open minded...we will never know for sure...since ifn it was matriarchal, it was before written language...
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/22/2005 11:30:57 PM | I figure women are equal. They can do what I do, so hey...let 'em. Let them support a family of 4 on one paycheque. Why not? (Cause she's a woman?? LOL....wrong answer!) Don't say because she can't make as much...I know women who make a lot more than I do! BUT...women don't WANT to be equal. They don;t want to have to take the bad with the good. They don';t want to be the ones winding up paying child support and losing their homes and everything else they worked for. Nope...woemn don;t WANT to be "equal". And I don;t blame them either. Anyhow's....use this strategy in court during a divorce or separation, and see what happens. Rub the courts nose right into the fact that the woman is EQUAL under the law, and see how fast the heads spin. It's a hoot! Really! Demand the SAME rights, the SAME treatment under the law. Make the courts work for you.
Sorry ladies...it ain't ALL gravy in a "man's world". In fact, darn little gravy...and you are about ripe to find that out for yourselves...hope it isn't too much of a shock to you. (It was to my ex...hehehehe...oh man....I can still see her sisters face when I said "she's equal, so she can do it!" Shut her right up! LOL) | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/23/2005 2:12:17 AM | | every one is entitled to their opinnions this thread is really just an opening statement by the OP designed to encite anger and inflametory remarks both male and female. Are american women out of controll? in my opinion no, but I am not threatend by a strong woman. For those who are I question whether they are secure in their own strengths for me a relationship is a partnership of diferent strengths and weaknesses some of which she is strongest in some of which I am strongest in and vice versa those who beleive they are just fine on their own and don't need another person to help will continue to do that but for me I enjoy life with another and I am willing to sacrifice my own bull headedness for a chance at love .Some will say I am young and naieve but my divorce is just as real as your guys and so is my life experiances.None of us are perfect but I still prefer a woman by my side to one left behind in my footsteps who is afraid to face the world with me. | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/23/2005 4:08:56 AM |
unwarranted aggression
Thanks, eccentric, that's the term I was looking for. If you call them on it they identify you as being one of the men who it is their duty to attack. I think the thing about this aggression is they have no framework of honor for it. The only rule of engagement is: anything less that complete agreement with whatever the woman says is justification for agression.
To disagree or question is to become a target of opportunity. It makes sense to me that as women expirement with assertiveness they equate it with agression, for which they have no ready framework. It is binary, either on or off. Once the switch is flipped, it's all on. I get it now. OK, on to the next thing I don't understand... | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/23/2005 4:11:05 AM | blues Your lack of understanding of this very simple process is ....amazing LMAO
If it were left up to men to birth babies and bring them into this world? Abortion would NOT have taken as long to be legalized
Sorry I don't meet your definition of "sweetheart" but given how you portrayed pregnancy and the birthing process, you made yourself appear like a knuckle-dragger.
Look that up under "Caveman" and try to evolve a litte ok? LMAO
Any you don't consider these statemets are designed to attack men, who did not attack you, but simply made a few statements on how they believe
blue you are bitter because some man put you on a shelf and now you want to take it out on the rest of us for the sake of your kids, see a therapist | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/23/2005 7:51:20 AM |
I am currently reading a book called Why Men Don't Iron...about the physical differences between men and women...viva la differences....
Squeak, I have no clue what that book is about, but by what you have written, it doesn't make sense to me. Men do iron (unless the ironing is metaphorical). Many clothing desingers are men. When designing clothes, you also need to make the sample...and iron the finish product. My dad is a sample maker...he irons...only, he doesn't iron his day-to-day clothes. In contrast, I know a few women who are in the civil construction field... they do the same labor that men do in the field.
I'm interested in this book now...I'm going to have to go get it.
I think there are differences, yes...but, I think they're differences that society has imposed on the sexes. | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/23/2005 7:52:51 AM | | I'm very familiar with the birthing process Bluesbabe..since i have been to all 4 of my children's childbirth's....My statement about child birth was just a cliqued expression and was meant to sympathize with women in fact i was the first one to post after the author's intial statement defending women. And still you insult me with a statement that i appear to be a knuckle dragger.To me you appear to be a dim-witted bimbo that would'nt know a good man if it was staring her in the face. And learn to read between the lines you may learn something someday MORON. This statement is a statement that is directed towards just you and not for the women who ACTUALLY want equality and not SUPREMCY | |
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| Are American women out of control Posted: 2/23/2005 7:54:33 AM |
Anyhow's....use this strategy in court during a divorce or separation, and see what happens. Rub the courts nose right into the fact that the woman is EQUAL under the law, and see how fast the heads spin. It's a hoot! Really! Demand the SAME rights, the SAME treatment under the law. Make the courts work for you.
yna, I know of a few cases where the woman lost custody of her child, and IS paying child support. I also know of a few cases where MEN got paternal leave at their jobs to help raise a child.
This topic isn't all black and white here. There's too much gray. | |
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