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 Mopegunz

Joined: 5/6/2004
Msg: 26
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I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 6/28/2006 11:03:55 PM
Tried being Polite, now it's time to be Mean...
 thundersong

Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 27
I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 6/28/2006 11:07:37 PM
Well, I was *going* to say block and report (report from a user's profile).....

But *now* I want to know what Jasmine's going to do to him!



Seriously, though.... Tell him in simple terms that you are not interested and don't want him to contact you again, and that you will block and report him if he *does* contact you again.

Then send him to Jasmine!
~Thunder
 queenrhiannon

Joined: 8/15/2005
Msg: 28
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I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 6/28/2006 11:11:48 PM
Red Alert- STalker material - block him immediately. But just be on the watchout - he might make another profile and try contacting you that way.

I answer all my emails (unless they are rude and gross - then I block them and report them) - even if I am not interested at the time, etc. It may take time for me to get back to people (I am busy) - but I do it. But that is getting into psycho territory - block him.
 paulie 1

Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 29
I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 6/28/2006 11:14:57 PM
block him...simple...dont let it go on....!
 Joy.

Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 30
I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 6/28/2006 11:37:53 PM
I've had the same thing happen.....would report him, delete his email, block him. He would then go on to create another profile and another and another.....seven altogether. I now just delete them without responding and block each one as they come. That's about all you can do.
 ~SCRUMPTIOUS~

Joined: 7/25/2007
Msg: 31
I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 8/8/2007 8:14:33 PM
What ever...BE SMART...but the problem is most desperate girls aren't, but Y? If it ain't him and something seems not right DON'T GIVE IN...TO NUTTIN GIRLS AND YOU GUYS!!!!! You don't have to be with all the men u meet. U cum across them 4 a reason and it might might not b cause you r gonna hook up or b wit them...look deeper onto Y u met them....think about PEOPLE!! for cryin out loud,.
Isn't this site called plety of fish??????
 Willprevale

Joined: 10/9/2006
Msg: 32
I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 8/8/2007 8:18:54 PM
This ain't rocket science. BLOCK HIM!!
 lifesshort03

Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 33
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I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 8/8/2007 8:24:18 PM
I would suggest asking for an assembly of the UN Security Council and demand that economic sanctions be placed upon him and if that doesn't work, a full Navel blockade of his residence. If not, call Jasmine!!!!!

COME ON GIRL! You've done your due diligence. Block him and move on!!!!!!!!
 creirwy

Joined: 8/2/2007
Msg: 34
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I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 8/8/2007 9:07:23 PM
Five times in thirty minutes is a person who needs medication. You are not responsible for this person, PLEASE look out for your own safety, take everyone's advice, and block the dude.
 blondblueyed

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 35
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I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 8/8/2007 9:12:18 PM
Just like Hollywood Squares, take Paul Lynde for the block!
 Hudsonbay1960

Joined: 2/27/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 8/18/2007 10:23:09 PM
You have been more than polite. Please do not go back to"...just deleted his message like I usally do..."
You have given the due courtesy I would want, and in fact do not get. Few things are more frustrating than reading a profile that is attractive / intrigueing and never hearing back, after doing the compliment of initiating contact.

BLOCK him since he won't respect you, AND REPORT him to POF.
 Nick Thinker

Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 37
I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 8/19/2007 2:36:40 AM
Just block him, just do it!
IMO you should not have taken the advice of those who say reply to all mails. Only to ones you are interested in!!!
Being polite and then mean is IMO wrong, both times, can lead to confusion or "troubles". IMO it is better to be neutral and not to reply in the first place.

 grulfrend23

Joined: 7/8/2007
Msg: 38
I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 8/19/2007 3:00:11 AM
You act like blocking is the answer to everything! Stalkers can just make up another profile,and pretty easily too,I might add. Just ignore them!
 Dog Mommy

Joined: 7/11/2005
Msg: 39
I tried to be polite...now what?
Posted: 8/19/2007 4:31:24 AM
block him, and take that silly advice someone gave you about being polite and emailing everyone back.
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