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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/6/2006 10:39:09 PM | | i'll admit i've asked that question once or twice, but it has only been after a women has asked how big the little guy is. Which i usually answer with how big are your boobs, or how deep are you. that usually ends that line of questions. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 5:57:18 AM | | In all seriousness you can report these people to POF authorities. Believe me moderators here would love to get inappropriate people off forums. People know right from wrong . Just don't say EVERY man because thats just not true | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 6:33:10 AM | It became socially acceptable at about the same time that talking about battered husbands also became socially acceptable.
Asking if you enjoyed sex has ALWAYS been socially acceptable when anybody is thinking of a long term committed relationship.
It became socially acceptable at about the time one third of the guys in this board became heartily sick and tired of being expected to just KNOW everything without haveing to ask anything. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 8:12:33 AM | You know what. Women tell me their bra size all the time. They have me guess it and everything. Whatever it is women probably started it. lol
I never get into bra size. I can usuallyestimate it since I was 5 and was stuck next to the bra size chart and women pointing at it. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 1:23:30 PM | redneckboi: i'll admit i've asked that question once or twice, but it has only been after a women has asked how big the little guy is. Which i usually answer with how big are your boobs, or how deep are you. that usually ends that line of questions.
Yikes, you'd really derail this discussion just when it's getting interesting?
We need some solutions here*. POF should add to women's profiles:
• Willing to talk about my boobies: YES / NO / PREFER NOT TO SAY
• Have an 'allow' list for women. Then, when you're chatting with a woman, you'll get one of two notes in the chat window:
1) "GreenEyesAndHam, you have been cleared to talk about my boobies."
2) "69bigdikk69, you have not been cleared to talk about my boobies."
That should solve everything,
GE&H
* As sole originator of these ideas, I hereby surrender all rights concerning them over to the administrator (Big Fish) in exchange for being grandfathered in to always be allowed to talk about boobies. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 2:28:45 PM | Meh, some chicks have no sense of ha-ha.
It all goes to having to be thick skinned to be online. Man, if the worst thing that happened to me was being asked about my bra size, I'd have to say I was having a pretty good day.
Besides, if a guy doesn't eyeball the girls, I immediately assume he's gay. I'd therefore never be able to complain when a guy asks about them. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 2:59:16 PM | Well I for one have a sense of BRA-HA about my boobs..
I like my ta-tas the way they are, they are perky and happy... 
If a guy really wants to know what my bra size is, I will gracefully answer if he provides
pictures of his penis in exchange for the boobage. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 3:15:04 PM | I love it! Glad to hear some of us women don't mind a little chat about their boobies. I don't mind chatting about them because then I feel like I have the attention of the guy and the ball is my court. I don't have to answer, or say something like: "I'll tell you that if..."?
Go with it girls! | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 3:45:35 PM |
If a guy really wants to know what my bra size is, I will gracefully answer if he provides
pictures of his penis in exchange for the boobage.
I doubt you will have a problem getting a pic in that circumstance.
O/T; This is what the delete / block mechanism is for. Men are men, and will continue to be men, regardless of your what morals women have, or do not have.
And please do not generlize and brand us all with the same stamp.
I have run into a few women on here who make so called male pervs look like boy scouts, but I hardly consider them to be reflective of all women.
If this stuff really gets you this uptight, maybe internet dating is not for you. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 3:59:42 PM | When a women walks through a crowd, certain “features” are obvious, and naturally draw attention, and are the object(s) of male thought – and carnal pleasure.
If men were cursed (or blessed) with a constant erection, women surely would notice, and men would be the focus of “interest” by females. Questions regarding size would become frequent, I'd think, rather than comments regarding shoe size or hand size.
For better or for worse, I think men do well casually observing, appreciating, and acquiring (sometimes) a nice rack, even if legs, head, and other appurtenances come with the package.
A woman is surely worth full appreciation. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 5:36:11 PM | "^^ how big is yer dik?"
I think a lot of guys might ask the question by saying " My****is 8" long. How big are your tits?"
So ladies, to stop the guys from asking, please just post your bra size right here!! | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 5:40:22 PM | A woman is surely worth respecting, regardless of her bust size, length of leg, or turn of ankle.
Those of you who refer to a woman's breasts as titties, boobies, or racks, are obviously the boys who were bottle-fed as babies. Get over yourselves already... and no, I haven't asked any man how big his package is.... I thought this was about sex, not public school recess. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 6:10:19 PM | A woman is surely worth respecting, regardless of her bust size, length of leg, or turn of ankle
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Why only a woman.????
Which leads me to the old double standards rant again
- all men are barstards (socially acceptable)
- all s are stupid (socially unacceptable )
- porn causes rape (socially acceptavle )
- women ask to be raped by wearing skimpy clothes (socially unacceptabe)
- muslims who refuse to assimilate should be sent home (socially aceptable)
- jews who refuse to assimilateshould be sent home (socially unacceptable)
Think about it.
And feel free to add any other juicy ones. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 6:53:05 PM | Women ask to be raped?? By the type of clothing they wear?? OMG ^^^ you have some serious issues buddy. And I wouldnt even know where to begin. Porn causes rape…hhmmm WHAT?? Jews?? Muslims?? uumm yah I did think about it, and your still a f*cked up guy. OMG
some chicks have no sense of ha-ha.
It all goes to having to be thick skinned to be online.
It has nothing to do with having a sense of humour or being thick skinned. Its trying to maintain some sort of dignity, a sense of class, in this smutty, pervert infested, thing we like to call the internet. If the chicks have their tits out on display, than she is probably asking for it.
I would be offended by these type of personal questions from someone I just met and was conversing with in real life too. because we are conversing on-line, that some how makes it ok?? ummm NO!!! Just another form of free internet sexual gratification when men, err umm boys, ask these kinds of questions.
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 7:03:37 PM | I think it's just part of this site!
The guys need to know that they're not wasting their time.
It's really shallow........ but guys are!
If they ask you for your breast measurement than say soooooooooooo long~!!!!
Stupid Oilers!!! | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 9:03:52 PM |
Those of you who refer to a woman's breasts as titties, boobies, or racks, are obviously the boys who were bottle-fed as babies. Get over yourselves already... and no, I haven't asked any man how big his package is.... I thought this was about sex, not public school recess.
What if it was in jest, like in my satirical post?
GE&H | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/7/2006 10:28:28 PM | First of all, as to the subject, many here are reading what the OP said out of context. The OP did not say "every man" asks women their bra size or about oral sex.
She said:
With maybe 1 or 2 exceptions, every man I have talked to online, within 5 minutes of the conversation, is asking me what size bra do I wear, and whether or not I like oral sex.
Note the key words "I have talked to," so before all you scholars jump to the conclusion that you read "every man" in the context of the entire male population try to remember that no female could possibly ever talk to the entire male population. This is Butterfly's personal observation of the men she has talked to and she said as much.
This has become quite a regular thing, I know exactly where the OP and many of the others are coming from on this issue. It is not acceptable and it is also not something that these cowards would ever have the nerve to say to your face if they were to see you at the bank, grocery store, library or passing on the street. I also love the great advice of getting a thick skin, it is just that "oh get over it," "get yourself a thick skin" mentality that has lead to so many people thinking it is perfectly all right to speak rudely or act rudely to other people. "I can be as much of an ass as I want and people can just deal with it." How lovely!
To the OP question, yes, it is the anonymity that makes people think they can be so bold. You can use these warning signs to weed out potential bad dates just as they use these questions to weed out those not willing to become a "friends with benefits" or one night stand. Hopefully, they will just move on to the thicker skinned women who obviously don't care that no matter how much education, ability or character a woman has a vast number of males will treat you like you walk the street for a living.
Just as Shore66 mentioned, it is mindboggling the percentage of men that have asked me these types of questions as opposed to the few that actually can carry on a conversation. As far as wrong men, that's a given, but somehow I get the impression that it is our fault that these men contact us? I for one have nothing revealing or leading in my photos or my profile, it has nothing to do with it. | |
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