| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/17/2006 8:35:50 AM | I don't think that askinga bra size is "crude and unacceptable."
Sometimes I think that men ask women questions like these to test their limits. Guys can ask my bra size all day long...I may or may not answer the question. I'm not offended by it. And i'm not some easy chick that sleeps around. It's just human nature.
Sometimes I find myself tempted to ask a man his "size." It's just curiosity...And it's not like we are meeting that person, face-to-face. We have to build a mental picture of them in our minds....
Some people are just too sensitive about this subject. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/17/2006 10:17:17 AM | | However not acceptable it is, it seems to be the topic of the day..week or even year for that matter. It seems that guys online usualyl NEED to know what size bra a woman wears before even chatting with them..it is a sign of immaturity..and we can only hope that one day these boys will grow up and realize that there are more importantn questions out there... | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/17/2006 4:04:59 PM | the best part about this is that the tactless morons who are asking have NO CLUE what bras size means anyhow,...... CUP size might prove they have an inkling,.( it takes 10 inklings to make a clue BTW)
Most would be blown away if you told them you had 48 B's over a 32 C,...... | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/17/2006 7:59:40 PM | | its good u have a sence of humar ..we all know right from wrong so the key is in knowing if other people r serious bout talking ..and by holding out the real way they think will surface in time and then u can move on knowing they were not the right ones ..good talking to ya have a great nite jerry | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/20/2007 7:04:51 PM | Well, I've been known to be a female carpenter, just what are you implying?? Is it that the bigger the more difficult to wield a hammer?? Or am I just not getting it?? Or not getting anything?? lol
Except that there is this man who has become very interesting to me, VERY intersting...and he gives me much more via email and phone calls than I ever knew was possible!!
So what's YOUR bra size bub?? | |
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| LUCKY
Posted: 6/20/2007 7:13:30 PM | Consider yourself lucky this only happen to you on-line.
Try being a D in midle school, a DD in college, and a HH as an adult.
I am asked it ALL THE TIME. Men with the girlfriends walk by and say aloud "More than a mouthful is a waste." to make their insecure girls feel better.
Every date from high school on has one objective, to get their****between them.
On a recent on-line first date, a stranger walked up to my date and whispered in his ear "Where does your girlfriend get her bras?"
PLUS, I have travelled the world. In Aisa, where I am clearly a foreinger people feel free to comment, secure in the knowlegde I don't understand. One little old lady grabbed them and weighed them in her hands. I grabbed hers back, but was even more uncomfortable when she didn't resist and I realized I was in the frozen food section of a market feeling up a senior citizen.
My breasts have always seemed like "public domain". But what sucks the most is when I talk about them I am considered conceited, or obsessed with my own body, or superficial... I can't win! | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/20/2007 8:52:39 PM | How is someone supposed to know they are talking to the wrong men until they talk to them. It's not like these guys have little buttons on their forheads in their pics saying "Hey i'm a jerk!"
We dont know they are the "wrong" men till we talk to them. DER! Maybe i'm not grasping this concept.
It's unacceptable. PERIOD!
You men shouldnt be generalizing women either!!!! I could care less the size of your junior! That's not what i'm after....yet!  | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/20/2007 10:17:09 PM | I find that there are two types of guys on the web. Those who go straight for the sex talk (they are looking for one night stands or sex partners) and those who ask queatinns about you (they want a realtionship or friends). In the end what subject is on a males mind 24 hours a day? Sex so it is not surprising that they always want to talk about it. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/20/2007 10:38:31 PM | I have gone through thousands of messages in the few weeks I've been on here.
Maybe once was I questioned...
and it wasn't rudely....
So I don't know what men you're talkin to?
But honestly what is the big deal? | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/20/2007 11:21:22 PM | | ok this looks like a guys are bad thing to me but lets turn the finger around, women do the same thing all the time,but it is like part of the matching up of two people, say i like dd size and some guys dont, maybe its a turn off if your not sized right? why keep going? bigger question is if this happens alot to you, what are you talking about in that first 5 min anyway? hmmmm? | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/21/2007 2:25:41 AM | | To butterfly and any other woman reading this response, You may expect me to ask this question only if you send me to the store for a replacement that I'd feel would make you happier ...because I would be if you are. In all fairness, you may buy whatever you'd prefer for condoms ...even though I'd have to concur that asking what size before knowing me better would be a bit unnerving to start. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/21/2007 8:56:46 AM | I have run into that several times. It is the relative anonymity that can make men spew such rude things that they dare not say to a real womans face...unless they are drunk and that's another story....The last guy that asked me about my "rack" I countered with the demand of how long and thick his member ...any man that wants to get that personal right off the bat without meeting first isn't worthy of me. Good luck to all and don't be afraid to tell someone to go to H E double hockey sticks for being a jerk....man or woman.... gotta go catch a fishy | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/21/2007 9:19:01 AM | My response to that question is always "If my brains were in my tits then perhaps that would have a bearing on our conversation, but since they aren't we have nothing further to talk about"
Enough said. LOL
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/21/2007 9:20:31 AM | Call me old fashioned if you will, but I agree with ButterflyLady!
There is a time and a place to ask that sort of question, and in my opinion, when you are first trying to meet someone, it's not the time to ask them what size their bra is.
Surely interests, music, films, and general banter to see if you "click" is more appropriate for the situation. However I do confess of asking a girl that question, but that was as she kept telling me she was "busty", so I asked her in reply to her comment...mind you, this was after many conversations and she was getting a bit flirtatious, and likewise I was flirting back.
As I said, time and a place.
Sorry to have read a lot of you ladies have had men ask you questions and say stuff that really aught not to have been said, I guess the one thing we can all be comfortable with is that there isa block function 
John
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/21/2007 9:50:06 AM | Why are people so sensative? people will ask anything on a dating web site.
develope a sense of humor and come up with a witty remark and earn someones respect first as it's not just implied because you exsist.
I find it funny that people who's profile are made up of revealling photos complain when people ask for more pictures or make any refference to your body.
shut up. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/21/2007 9:51:04 AM | If there's ever a good time to talk about physical attributes, it's not within 5 minutes of "meeting" someone online.
I can see if the conversation goes into physical descriptions, that he might ask but to come right out and ask that as if he's only typing with one hand makes him someone you can now screen out and block.
If you are posing in your underwear or a bikini in your profile... I really don't think you can complain that a guy wants to talk about the merchandise you are selling. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/24/2007 8:53:23 AM | Yes, I have had the same experience, but usually these men to not wait five minutes to get there. I too consider it rude and socially unacceptable, and any chance the guy had with me,just went out the window. I make it clear what I am here for at all times, if I wanted that kind of behavior, well I would have placed that in my profile.
In all my years of meeting people, I have taken the time to see them as a person. This is someone I want to get to know, and see if a good or great friendship can come of it. It is done with total respect. For me, I would tolerate nothing less.
I just usually remind them politely that they are speaking to a lady, and apparently they are not a gentleman, so I do not have time for them. Than I delete and block, no since wasting my time or theirs, simply because that was the end of the road for me with them.
Several have gotten as far as to know who I am, or when I kept a picture up they recognized me from my community I live in. These men would come to me with a apology, they say from their experience many women ask questions like that, so they felt it was okay. I remind them all people are different, and by acting that way...they have allowed me to see a side of them that has changed the way I will always see them. Not in a good way. These men begin to realize they really lost big time at that point. It is sad our world with mutual respect has gone out the window along with standards.
So continue to have your standards, and demand respect.....some men just need a wake up call, and we are just the women to give it to them, men should expect the same from women as well. So men if a women does this to you, remember what your profile says. If looking for someone for long term or the rest of your life, is this really the women that is being offensive to you the one your want for all time?...if not move on. You deserve better also. | |
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