| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/24/2007 9:43:40 AM | | OP Thank you! I've been wondering this as well! I was talking with someone last week, who after 3 minutes in, asked me just how curvaceous I was on top. I told him I wasn't interested in him any longer and that I like to be treated with respect. I'm someone's mom for goodness sake! LOL! Blocked him shortly afterwards. This happens a lot though... Men no longer feel the need to think with the head God meant for them to excericise the most. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/24/2007 9:53:08 AM | | By the way I have had women ask me my penis size before we have met when just talking on phone . Its not all women ,of course, but many. I do believe our society has in general become an open book. Most things are not private anymore due to many reasons. More casual, more technology, internet, camera phones, surveillance etc. This has made it more ok in peoples minds to ask these questions. Not saying its right nor wrong just stating the way it is . | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/24/2007 11:19:04 AM | Why do you even care so much?..If someone asks you those questions, just ignore them and move on, because obviously they just want to get in your pants. I am sorry ladies, but do any of you have a brain? You girls ask the most stupidest questions.  | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/27/2007 2:43:24 AM | | next time a guy asks u your bra size ask him his penis size see if he will answer and first questions i get from some guys off this website with in 2 minuts bra size do u like oral fav possition and then he says hello | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/27/2007 8:00:09 AM | After skimming the first page, i get the feeling that many women are offended by a guy asking her bra size. why? some guys like girls with big boobs, others with small ones.
do you ask a guy how tall he is? or what he does for a living? are these things off limits too?
it's a physical attribute, and when you don't get to see a person in person, you can judge for yourself. plus, u know u aren't going to waste your time with someone who you aren't physically attracted to. and while pics don't always show everything, asking is a more direct way of getting information.
if a guy asks you and you aren't comfortable answering, just tell him that. If you want to ask him his length, go for it. And besides its your body. if you are serious about a guy, be honest.
if you end up together, he will find out anyway.
and if not, well, you can tease him about what he missed out on  | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/27/2007 8:56:54 AM | i totally agree. i just try to have good conversation with men, and everything ends up sliding back to something sexual... and i'm sick of it... i don't want to talk about sex on the net unless its in a forum... and they don't even play it off either... they just totally say it outright. its disgusting. i wish men weren't like that. and it happened to me with a 48 year old, a 32 year old and its sad but my last xbf was 22 and never asked me about sex... i came to him, which is exactly the way it should be... i'll let you know when i wanna do you, or even talk about it. lately i've been finding men repulsive 
do you ask a guy how tall he is? or what he does for a living? are these things off limits too?
asking penis size would be out of line. those things can be taken offense to or seen as small talk... why do men get offended at that? she could ask your shoe size, and i'm sure you'd be offended. and what kind of sports team you like and i guess that would be too good to be true... you don't have to anwer a question with a question. if everyone would have some respect and act their own age, then shit wouldn't be so hard. instead of asking bra size, men should ask if the woman in into a one night stand. mostlikely if she says yes, then she would tell you her bra size...
i'm going to put at the top of my profile, if your penis is smaller than seven inches, don't even click on my pictures,
now that would be out of line...
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/27/2007 9:44:06 AM | I get this from quite a few guys that IM me.....a few have asked for full body shots since I dont show my lower half.....I get a lot worse questions then that and usually I just close it down and say thanks but no thanks.
I really dont mind the question, if I am having a flirty, playful chat or if it is with someone I have chatted with for a while....although, I will occasionally play along or ask them how many inches they are packing...LOL
I wouldnt generalize and say ALL men ask but more often then not they do.
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/27/2007 10:01:12 AM | | They all seem to be asking those kind of questions on the internet my reply would be what size****do you have not many men funnily enough like to answer that one. when asked if i wear boots to bed i ask them to wear boots to bed and then come back to me and then tell me if they think i do. answer a question with a question and they soon get fed up although at times i do find some of the things i am asked amusing. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/27/2007 12:08:28 PM | | It had?And I would agree it is the internet your behind a monitor so some people ask things I dont think they would face to face.In my opinion guys asking you this are looking for one thing only sex. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/27/2007 4:05:11 PM | guys do it to see how open you are i think... you might be an easier target if you get into the dirty details right away... i love the 'so when can we hook up' email after all i said back to them was hi...
so i like to play the dumb role... 'hook up and do what?' 'oral? well... i dont know...'
*loL*
people get pissed and stop emailing meh or they realize that they are being stupid and change the topic...
and about my bra size... im proud of it... so if someone asks i tell | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/27/2007 5:34:11 PM | Answer: Since we chose to become a society of consumers by treating all people and things, as things.
Choosing a mate today is like ordering a pair of pants or sneakers from a catalogue. Criteria, criteria, criteria...No, it doesn't fit. Turn the page. Next! Better yet...like ordering a cheeseburger at McDonald's. Excuse me, Miss? It has a pickle. I said no pickle. I don't want it. Pickles are disgusting. Throw it out. I want a new one. Sigh...
And people wonder why after two months of marriage that it's time to divorce. Ooops! He/She is egocentric! Darn! Thought I had it "ALL" figured out. Hmmm.
Speaking of cheeseburgers at McDonalds... | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/27/2007 12:06:01 PM | | Rude it may be, but it makes sense. If a guy is determined to only date D/DD/larger women why should he waste time getting acquainted with A/B/C cuppers? Would you prefer to get well acquainted online, begin to consider him your Mr. Right, meet in person at last, and then be rejected because you don't measure up to his ideal? This is the same kind of thing women do when they weed out potential dates on the basis of: how tall the guys are, what sort of jobs the guys have, what sort of cars the guys drive, etc. It is all rude, and unfair, but that is how it is. Women have the right to want to date tall doctors who drive Porsches, and guys have a right to want to date babes with beachball sized jugs. Personally, I don't care what size a womans' waist, breasts, etc, are...but I am an exception. Get used to it. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/27/2007 12:24:19 PM | | The men that are justifying the question are obviously douchebags. Its a personal question. If you want to know her bra size, why cant you wait until you get to know her like the sensible guys do? How is that so hard. Go ahead and ask as many perverted questions as possible so we can know the ones to block. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/27/2007 2:50:57 PM | ITS not acceptable! I mean.. if he wants to ask... more power to him but its none of your business UNLESS i wanna share it! I might not be to impressed with someone interested in me asking for my stats rather than asking about ME.. how was my day, what are my interests ect..................
Wait.. didnt I just fill out a masterbation survey on another thread???? hmmm... oh well! lmao! | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/27/2007 3:24:59 PM | | welcome to the internet. not being in person doesnt let you see things you could normaly see. like asking how tall someone is or body shape on your profile. everyone is more then free to ask and others can answer or not. its not new its just what happens when you talk to people on the internet | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/27/2007 3:28:05 PM | I NEVER get asked these questions!!!!!!
Why not? What's wrong with me? waaaaaahhhhhhh!!!!! 
I feel deprived now... deprived of a chance to use snark! Damn, Life is so unfair!
It's TOTALLY inappropriate... any guy who asks this stuff is shallow. I mean, what would happen if, say, a serious relationship did happen, and the woman got breast cancer (goddess forbid) Would he feel deprived of his "breasts"? (Like they're his anyway...NOT) I'd definitely have to take a serious look at this persons priorities, it's nice to have a partner who is attractive, but come on...time marches on.... face it, even the best looking of us are going to fade. Then what's left? Better be something more than a fetish. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/27/2007 3:30:02 PM | "As a guy I take offense to butterfly. She said EVERY guy asks bra size within 5 minutes . This guy does not . It is not cool to generalize every man . "
She didn't say "every guy." She said, with the exception of 1 or 2, every guy SHE HAS TALKED TO ONLINE has asked those kinds of questions.
That said, why don't we all just put our bra size on our profiles...and the guys can put their "measurements" on theirs as well. Then no one will have to bother asking, and if we don't "measure up," no one has to waste their time contacting us. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/27/2007 3:31:48 PM | | i dont think it ever really did ive never seen it happen in real life! in computer world tho it has but yeah its cuz people cant see how u really look, plus pictures can be decving. alot of younger girls to are just flaunting it so guys start to think its ok. in all honesty i love my tits and their size im flattered when people notice as i am a dd and only 18 but when people ask me right out i find it perrvy. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/27/2007 11:02:01 PM | | Personal is what this is all about. If women can ask about a guys' car, job, income, height, and such, he can ask about her measurements. It is rude, and I don't do it, but I understand the thinking of guys who do. Some guys are shallow, and only want to date women with large breasts...just as some women are shallow, and only want to date tall men...or rich men. Being shallow does not make one a pervert. If you stay on sites like this, you will run into more than a few shallow people, and many of them will be rude. It is to be expected....like the flies buzzing around the picnic tables in a park on a summer day; a minor annoyance, but worth putting up with to experience the better side of the picnic. The flies can be tolerated and ignored. Besides...where would women be without douche bags? I do not justify the measurement questions. I understand them. I do not justify the height/income/car questions. I understand them. What if guys start blocking all women who ask questions/make remarks about height/income/jobs? Where will the gold-diggers be then? At least douche bags serve a useful purpose. Not so gold-diggers. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/28/2007 3:59:12 AM | Women who have problems with this usually have no boobies to start off with. I have no problem someone asking and being honest about it so long as they can take the same sort of judgment in return; i.e. what's your girth? I mean, just because a guy doesn't ask doesn't mean he isn't think about it, or that he hasn't checked your pictures out for it, or that your rack won't be evaluated the moment he sees you in real life.  | |
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