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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/28/2007 6:09:05 AM | well ***I*** have never asked a woman on PoF what her "dimensions" or "cup size" was!
Seems a lot of guys do ask though.
My gut feeling about that is guys who start off asking a lot of personal questions tend to drop off after the 100th or so rejection.
Ever since women started using online services they have always had to deal with *ahem* intimate queries; thus they either develop a thick skin in a hurry - or avoid online activities which involve and one-on-one person-to-person interaction. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/28/2007 9:44:49 AM | Violetskye,
I was asked my height and weight once from a personal ad that I ran in Craigslist, and I emailed back asking him, why, was he going to put me in a boxing match?
I've never been asked that, and maybe it's because I DON'T have a picture. If you're very good looking (as your picture shows) and have a picture, you'll probably get a lot of responses from men just attracted to the picture without reading your profile, and sometimes those men aren't the best. I'm attractive but I choose NOT to have a picture and sure I don't get as many as those that do post one, but I get quality vs. quantity, every men that I've met on there has been nice and respectful, well save one... The only problem was with some that IM, and I took that off quickly. There was one guy that was attractive that IM me, but then without my picture when he said I was sexy (and believe me as long winded as my profile is, you can't tell my sexiness from that!) I just cut him off!! | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/28/2007 10:15:50 AM | | Like buying a new car....you have the right to know what accessories it has! And to test drive it, before you buy it! Then, when you get tired of it or it winds up a lemon....you trade it in for a better one! I prefer small tits myself! When you get old, they wont be sagging down to your knees! | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/28/2007 12:15:50 PM | | I think the lack of politeness on the web is chiefly responsible for dating sites having a perpoderance of men to women. Coupled with the fuel of anonimity and everyone acts out more than in real life. It shouldn't be this tough. | |
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Joined: 9/3/2007
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/28/2007 12:50:28 PM | That is the problem with internet dating! One dimensional, you don't have to be accountable for what you say. If a man was sitting in front of you he wouldn't have to ask. I agree it's rude, that's why I am hating this process. I want to actually meet someone face to face. It's not internet dating, it should be called internet emailing & messaging because that's all it is. People don't actually meet using this site do they? This forum/site cannot change the fact the man & women still can't find common ground. Disrespect, dishonesty seems to be a common theme. I cannot believe that people have to publish that they are not looking for a FWB, liars, cheats! What a way to start introducing yourself the opposite sex... what a turnoff!
My two cents, sorry for getting off topic. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/28/2007 1:23:32 PM | i would say its very rude to ask her bra size -as well as stupid. -if you cant figure out the size of her goodies by looking (from the outside) -then you need to look at a few hundred thousand more breasts, hmmmm... maybe more of course she may be "padding the goods" so you will never know until you go in for a close examination -which is highly unlikely if you ask her stupid questions like that  | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/28/2007 4:31:43 PM | Well, look at the bright side!!! There are lots of men on this thing, and lots of predators. At least you know exactly what is important to the guys that ask!!! Might make decision making really easy!  | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/28/2007 5:57:28 PM | | Man, I get asked how big the girls are, do you shave or are you 'natural', do you want to play, do you like oral, give oral, swallow, spit and for the grand finally...do you like anal sex....I have always wondered what it was about my pic or profile that lets men think that is OK...told a guy today that I am not an amusement park where anyone who wants to can ride...I think most of the men in my area who are attracted to bigger women just want quick sex... | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/28/2007 7:53:25 PM | What if you don't know what your bra size is? (I don't really...seems to change with the make of bra)
Do they ask if they are perky? droopy? close together? wide spread? size of nipples? Colour? Do they ask if they disappear if you are on your back...or if you can knock yourself out with them? Do they ask how low they are or if you can go without a bra? If they get in the way of tennis, or hurt during your period? Do they ask if you can sleep on your tummy? Do they ask if you get off on flashing your tits? What about new moms or pregnant women? Do they ask if you have milk, or if you soak your shirts? Have stretch marks? How about the infamous spray across the room? Do they ask what your last mammogram felt like and if it was a turn on? What about piercings or nipple clamps? (do people really use those things? eeek)
Just how far does this questioning go?
Inquiring minds would like to know | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/28/2007 8:05:17 PM | | Well they are not acceeptable, these guys ARE strangers... not like we ask men how big they are. Maybe if things have been going great and comfortable enough for you but definately not the first convo or the first FIVE MINS.. Some men just disgust me sometimes. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/28/2007 8:09:49 PM | I read this thread and thought about it some. I can honestly say that out of all the naughty questions or comments that I have received (and been astonished by) on this venue ....this is one particular question that has never been asked. Not once have I been asked about "the girls."
Should we feel left out?
Why didn't anyone ask me about my cup size? 
YES I am kidding!!! So please do NOT inundate my inbox with this silly question. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/29/2007 8:27:03 AM | I'm a man so I never got a question about my bra size.
However, I did have some personal questions at first email, msn, or phone conversation. In those cases, I just moved on.
The thing is that if you answer one of them, they will throw you another one even more personal. That's what I learn. Basically it is a red flag if someone makes any comments / questions that make you feel uncomfortable. When you will find the right person, you will feel confortable with that person.
The good thing is that most of the time this will happen in the first email or MSN conversation. So you can move on right away. | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 9/29/2007 10:31:14 AM | | It is totally a way of weeding out the guys that just want sex or that are really superficial. I know that attraction is essential but if they are only looking for certain measurements then they aren't very open minded. | |
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Joined: 3/29/2007
Msg: 145 | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 12/22/2007 5:24:38 AM | These questions became sociall acceptable the first time a female grizzled about men who "dont understand women". Understainging and knowledge comes from asking questions.
If understanding is demanded, which it is, then NO questions are taboo any more.
eg - Bra size.
- bad PMS problems, Stomach rubs to settle PMS cramps
- Virginal chaffing and the preferred panties. (As vital as the bra size if any lingerie prresents are bought)
- Kid plans, Sexual appetite, work plans etc etc etc.
Bra size is no longer an issue. Nothing is. | |
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Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 149 | |
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| When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 12/22/2007 11:51:01 AM | I also find it disgusting and can't figure out why any one could email this seriously, "Are they real." What kind of kills me with that statement is that I have had a reduction.
Today I had an email that said something about since I am an adult and divorced and about getting together and what he would do to me, I couldn't read it. Delete...block...
A guy I thought was a friend said something about friends with benefits, I told him I thought that was disgusting. He had the nerve to email me back and try to tell me how wonderful it is....delete block...hopefully he lost my phone number.
Now an ex boyfriend has let me know he is seeing someone in another state, where he is from originally. Geez...aren't there any guys that just want to go out with one woman that is all real and not all about body parts and sex?
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