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 midnight_crossing

Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 176
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/30/2008 6:58:58 PM
Well, if you think asking about bra size and whether you like oral sex is bad, I had one guy ask if I wanted to watch him jerk off on his webcam -- I mean gross!! What kind of sickos are out there? I have decidedly come to a conclusion that I like giving my $0.02 here and there on the forums, but when it comes to meeting someone -- you have to have manners and respect, otherwise forget it!

115, 34C-26-36 LMAO
 reservedone

Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 177
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/30/2008 7:14:02 PM
bra size doesn't matter to me. as for the oral............. not appropriate.
 midnight_crossing

Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 178
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/30/2008 7:34:25 PM
Just a bit or humour from another post that I thought everyone would enjoy.

Have you ever wondered why A, B, C, D, DD, E, F, G, and H are the
letters used to define bra sizes?

If you have wondered why, but couldn't figure out what the letters
stood for, it is about time you became informed!

{A} Almost B..bs...
{B} Barely there.
{C} Can't Complain!
{D} Dang!
{DD} Double dang!
{E} Enormous!
{F} Fake.
{G} Get a Reduction.
{H} Help me, I've fallen and I can't get up !
 GYPSY*QUEEN

Joined: 6/19/2008
Msg: 179
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/30/2008 9:44:53 PM
I agree with many comments about this....half my mail or IM is in this order,,
of questioning


what part of the city do you live in?"
ho w big are yer tits ?
do you do anal?..I say " I love to f**k men"s asses"
do you swallow?..I say " I hav e to to get my water down and live"
do you shave?..I say " I am not in menopause yet and thus have no beard"

if they ask "do you deep throat?" I say" Sure but first I need to drop a cucumber down your throat"

it is rude yes and not acceptable....but this is free speech here

and even those with the most basic rudiments of brain stem function may speak

just block the **stards and they can stay home with Palmala Handerson

GQ
 hopeful_73

Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 180
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/30/2008 10:10:44 PM
I went thru a phase in my 20s where I asked this just in normal conversation. For a guy theres just something about boobies that fascinate us, so we have a tendancy to want to learn about yours since you have 'em. Equate it to a woman wanting to know "boxers or briefs". Its just that men (especially younger ones) have the guts to actually ask.

I still try to find out a woman's bra size as soon as I know I can ask. But Ive found its more fun to sneak a look at the tag when your bra is on the floor after sex. ;)

.....And on the 6th day He created boobies, and they were wonderful.....
 Kindredspirit07

Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 181
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 6/30/2008 10:13:00 PM
If a guy asks your bra size then you should be able to ask the size of his**** All is fair in love a war!
 aztecahoneybee

Joined: 8/30/2007
Msg: 182
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When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 7/21/2008 12:06:53 AM
bigshrek,
Thank you a gentleman finally.
 windloverr

Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 183
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Posted: 7/21/2008 12:21:07 AM
The answer to your question is never.

Cynderella; with you it doesn't matter whether you lie. Looking at the pics you've posted; nobody would believe you if you told the truth! "If it sounds to good to be true..."
 serenityCW

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 184
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Posted: 7/21/2008 12:43:15 AM
sounds like some sleezy people are contacting you. i just block them, along with the MILFERs. if it's acceptable nowadays, that's too bad. it's not acceptable to me and i'm not a prissy person and pretty honest and open, but i cannot tolerate sleezes. let them go hang out in Victoria Secret!

 Bellydanza

Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 185
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 2/23/2009 4:47:31 AM
In the past week, two men that I considered great guys asked me this question. These were guys who came across as sincere and honest about wanting to meet me (having to travel long distance to do so) and get to know me. We spent time online and on phone. Mostly on phone. One guy was younger in this late 20's and the other was my age. And in both circumstances, the question came out of left field, just all of a sudden with no lead in sex questions or any sort of sex talk.

The younger guy thinks I am not an idiot because I got so upset about it, said it's common and a common question that women answer with no problems. (I don't know what types of women he is talking to). He said he had nothing to apologize for. He did nothing wrong.

The other guy...he was more apologetic and said he didn't mean to ask it, and it was wrong...however, the damage is done. This is a guy with kids, who is seriously looking for a relationship (so he says) as he misses being married.

So what gives. It seems like the ''bra size'' question and the ''when was last time you had sex'' question are the most commonly asked questions lately
 blondblueyed

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 186
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Posted: 2/23/2009 5:01:49 AM
^^^^^^^ Aha! That kind of explains the abundance of "why don't I get any replies" threads, doesn't it?
 Ear to hear

Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 187
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 2/23/2009 6:11:17 AM
LOL...oh I believe you....its funny and your right a sure way to go thru the sight as prospects....I have had the same happen with woman...but after weve chatted a bit and knew what WE were going for....use your head I geuss...lol...
 MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 188
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When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 2/23/2009 8:17:15 AM
Yes guys ask my bra size but usually on a date. The ones that do ask thru email I don't answer or talk to. Oral sex they tend to ask right away. I see it as we are shopping on here for what we like. We want to know package size because that can be a deal breaker and I like to know what they are into sexually so I know if we could ever be a match. Why meet and not know any intimate details about a person. That is how I weed them out. If u are asked a personal question then fire one right back at em!
 rightmistake2

Joined: 12/18/2008
Msg: 189
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 2/23/2009 9:11:51 AM
People arent gonna like my answer lol but...If they are rude enough to ask I'm rude enough to lie.
 Mountain Geek

Joined: 2/5/2009
Msg: 190
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When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 2/23/2009 9:44:48 AM

Aha! That kind of explains the abundance of "why don't I get any replies" threads, doesn't it?


You cracked me up with that one.

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought asking a woman's age or weight were still taboo
 whytwater

Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 191
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When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 2/23/2009 10:25:37 AM

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought asking a woman's age or weight were still taboo


A woman's bra size (the number more than the letter) is a more meaningful weight stat than the number of pounds.
But none of these numbers tell you much, anyway. I'm the size and weight of an average running back, but I don't look like one. Lol.
To turn it around, once, and only once, a woman ask me for the measurements of my**** When I told her I honestly didn't know, she told me that whatever it was, her mere presence would add an inch to it. We never did meet.
 JerseyGirl2008

Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 192
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Posted: 2/23/2009 10:35:08 AM
Completely unacceptable.

If some mutant was ignorant enough to have the cajones to ask me that question, he'd be shut down immediately.

I have zero patience for pigs.
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 193
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When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 2/23/2009 10:44:46 AM

If some mutant was ignorant enough to have the cajones to ask me that question, he'd be shut down immediately.


Although I've never asked that question without the context in which it would be considered acceptable or even expected, what about women who volunteer that information without being asked? I've had lots of women mention it in the course of conversation, especially emails and I never thought anything of it. Further,ore, if a woman posts a photograph which would indicate she is proud of her breasts, wouldn't it be rude to not notice?
 Penelope23

Joined: 11/30/2008
Msg: 194
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 2/23/2009 11:41:02 AM
This is the question that always makes me block/delete nubers/and overall ignore!!!

Being honest though....it is only the select ew who are actually sad enough to get their kicks like that.....thank god!!
 Halokitty™

Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 195
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 2/23/2009 12:28:34 PM
I don't usually block/delete right away, I simply ask "would you honestly ask someone you met on the street that question and expect a polite response?" Usually they admit they wouldn't, so I continue "then why is this any different?". Usually,they can't think of a good reason. Or they try to joke around.

In the end, it's always block/delete.

It's not socially acceptable to me; I'm no prude but I think it's terribly inappropriate to ask someone such a question as that and expect them to be all eager to pass that information along.
 Bellydanza

Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 196
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 2/23/2009 3:56:25 PM
The fact is men notice breasts. Women are not that stupid. We know this. Noticing it, and saying something about them is two different things. When I'm out running errands, or even at a club, men don't walk up to me and say ''are your breasts real'' or ''what size bra do you wear''....Maybe a drunk guy has leered, but never brave enough to say anything.

However, online it's like anything goes. And men need to realize that some of us women are going to be offended and we are not going to want to talk to them any longer.

As for the woman who mentioned his size. I don't need to know that to go out on a date with a guy. It's irrelevent to me.
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 2/23/2009 7:29:44 PM
The fact is men notice breasts. Women are not that stupid. We know this. Noticing it, and saying something about them is two different things.

I still want to know whether it's acceptable for a woman to to just tell me that even though I don't ask. What about a woman who tells me she has large breasts? Am I supposed to ask about them or just say, ``that's nice'' or what. Women do say these things. I just never thought too much about it.
 MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006
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When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?
Posted: 2/23/2009 7:45:34 PM
When did asking your bra size become socially acceptable?

when women started answering or as Ab points out....bringing it up first themselves.
 skoochie

Joined: 4/29/2008
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Posted: 2/23/2009 8:06:11 PM
It sounds like a ploy to stear the conversation toward the intimate side of the street. If you answer then you will likely get follow up questions. I'm just guessing but, people who want to immediately start getting personal are of little substance and want to play the sex card immediately before he is found out to be of little substance.

I can usually look at the profile pics and tell what cup size she is. Asking would just make me seem like I've been living in a cave my whole life and never talked to a woman.
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 2/24/2009 2:00:13 AM

If a guy asks your bra size then you should be able to ask the size of his**** All is fair in love a war!


I wouldn't care. If a woman asked, I'd give her an honest answer. (Send an email if you're dying to know ;)
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